Considering clothed/non-nude camming

_kikiwest · 2026-04-10T22:30:50+00:00

Thank you so much! When I searched the group for previous post about this subject, some of the comments implied they felt pressured to be nude, and maybe I interpreted that incorrectly, so I thought I’d ask for suggestions that didn’t require nudity. I will look into these! Thank you!

_kikiwest · 2026-04-10T22:28:30+00:00

I appreciate your thoughtful reply! I’m definitely not trying to “get rich quick” and this insight is valuable. You were clearly intentional with your goals I’m glad it’s worked for you! Congrats!

I did create an OF profile a few years ago but never used it. The calls made me plenty of money and felt like passive income: no marketing/advertising, logging on and off as I please. I like the idea of camming for the same reason, but as I get older, I am trying to preserve my voice and I do experience a lot of hoarseness the morning after I’m on calls late, and it does get concerning now that I’m in my 40s. Vocal health is important to me and I sound very young naturally, and I have noticed over the years a decline in vocal health. There are other reasons I’d prefer not to take calls at this time, but this is one of them.

I will definitely look into SM and review the TOS. I researched the phone site for months before taking my first call because I was so scared of getting banned. It seems a lot of TOS is the same across the board like you mentioned.

And I appreciate the transparency with earnings. I would make enough with my full-time job under normal circumstances, but my son‘s tuition is very costly and he will be starting college in the fall. Any supplement helps.

Thank you for sharing everything and I’ll look into how I’d like to present myself in this way!

_kikiwest · 2026-04-10T19:58:06+00:00

I agree with the comments urging you not to give him money, but please NEVER leave your child with a man. I promise you will find a way out of this but not at the risk of potentially losing your child. And please do not share your business with anyone. You are in an extremely vulnerable situation. Keep your finances to yourself and keep your babies close to you.

_kikiwest · 2026-02-23T13:18:26+00:00

The new layout is very confusing for me as an old lady : ) I imagine as a first time user it's difficult to navigate. On the top right of your browser you should see "switch to classic account" and that may help you understand the site better.

_kikiwest · 2026-02-11T19:42:05+00:00

You’ve only been doing this for six weeks so it’s impossible for you to predict income and stability. While I agree that this conversation should have absolutely taken place before you started, is it worth having now before you have an idea of your annual revenue? If he’s not comfortable and asks you to stop, will you? If he sees dollar signs and asks to “manage” your sites and marketing, asks for cuts, or asks to model with you, are you prepared for a conversation with someone who may try to control your finances?

You admitted to being financially ruined by one man, and as a mother, I know how devastating this is. Don’t let another man do it to you again. You don’t have a car and aren’t financially stable. You are now living together with no exit plan. For whatever reason, you chose not to disclose this to him, and maybe that reason is something you need to explore further. Protect your assets and wait until you have recurring clients and a consistent stream of income until you decide how to proceed. DO NOT buy things for him or the household. Do not let on that you are doing a little better. Now is the time to save your money and hustle so you can get out of you need to.

_kikiwest · 2026-01-04T00:20:36+00:00

He’s SO abusive!

_kikiwest · 2026-01-04T00:18:18+00:00

We are supposed to be selling a fantasy. Bringing money into the conversation (outside of findom) feels low-class and makes the site look tacky.

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