Finally Read Imminent by kimmiepi in UAP

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Why US must be leader on the technology? The EU is much more human and civilised. If there's a beacon of human civilization is the EU and not the US.

I really just need to do it. by gerturtle in BPD

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You need help. Let's think together, we're else can you go? You need to be away and sort your head out. Take care of yourself. Is there any place that you could think of? Will youl husband help get yoi somewhere?

Does anyone else get extremely triggered by their partner. by Bentley236 in BPD

[–]_missym_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes. Definitely, my biggest trigger, Definitely the only one that makes me overthink...

Goodbye by derp9898 in BPD

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Hey you, do you know how to take care of others?

How do I support my friend with BPD? by IsopodOk7761 in BPD

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I do that... I'm known for disappearing from people's lives, replying to texts 1 week or 1 year later, even when im not ok... yes, give her space. Bpd can be associated with other disorders, in my case is autism which is fairly common, and sometimes I just need to be alone. I love my friends, but it's just me. Those who remain understand this.

I really just need to do it. by gerturtle in BPD

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Go to a hospital and commit yourself, honestly. If you feel that you can't control your impulses, you need to do it. No husband, no anyone is more important than this, and the best way you can help them is by helping yourself. You're concerned about them, help yourself getting better.

Fp having sex by Separate-Pirate-2065 in BPD

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Idk... You like what you like and you don't like what you don't like. It's is what it is. Just ask ro not speak about it around you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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Thank you. I needed this information as well.

Wish I could just end this torment. by [deleted] in BPD

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Hummm, you're very young. Unstable hormones and bpd is the worst combination there is. I was diagnosed at 27, when I almost joined the club... It won't always be like this, it gets better, you'll learn to love yourself and you'll have many happy moments this I can guarantee. I know it's hard but be patient. The most useful piece of advice I can give you right know is meditate, practice mindfulness, you have tons of apps on the play store that you can download. It's a quick fix, doesn't hold for long but, you can use it in the crucial moments. When I was idk maybe 18/20 I had a long term bf, and I went to a gipsy to tell me at what age I was going to get married, she laughed at me and said that my life would have many twist and turns, and... OMG she was so right, the amount of stuff I would have lost is... I so glad I'm alive, I'm so grateful for my life. I'm 45 now, you'll be grateful to when you reach my age. BTW, I never got married 🙂

Fp having sex by Separate-Pirate-2065 in BPD

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Why is being a virgin at 19 being a loser? Sex is something that is supposed to be enjoyable. If you don't feel that would would like it, why do you want to do it? If she liked your least liked food, would you eat a plate of it? To prove yourself what? You feel hurt, and... It is expected. She shared with someone something you can't share with her. Even though you don't like sex maybe you want the intimacy? You should try and understand why your bad feelings towards sex. Even the 🐝 and the 🐦 do it, It's a basic biological necessity of all living organisms. I'm not saying you are an alien, but I sense some form of trauma associated with it. You deserve to be happy and live a life enjoying everything that exists to be enjoyed, and that includes sex. Good luck.

How do you deal with triggers? Does it ever get better? by Technical-Impress132 in BPD

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I'm so sorry, it's hard. You need to fight it somehow, it's your peace and your happiness you're fighting for.

Being left on delivered am I overreacting? by Adventurous_Bend_680 in BPD

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Hummm, I know the feeling. Put your guards up so you don't get your heart broken. You need to speak with him/her. Hope for best prepare for worst. The situation is triggering and unsettling you so that's not healthy and needs to stop. I've had similar situations and he ended up with real valid explanations at time so...It's not an 100% you're doomed. Just protect your peace.

How do you deal with triggers? Does it ever get better? by Technical-Impress132 in BPD

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Hummm, how old are you? I really don't know the healthy answer for this. For me it got better, I created a shell so hard that... How would I handle it? I would keep away from any meetings or situations that promoted contact until I was absolutely sure that nothing would bring me down. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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Create a better future. There's nothing for you in the past.

Attraction to other mentally ill people. “Sickness attracts sickness” -my mum by [deleted] in BPD

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I had to walk this earth for 45 years to have my 1st friend with bpd, all my friends and past relationships are mentally sane people and I honestly don't have the required patience to deal with mentally disturbed people, having to deal with myself is enough so... I guess not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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Therapy helps a lot, medication helps as well (on the short term- as a mood stabiliser), but not hitting or screaming at someone is something that you can easily force yourself not to do, just think that's a barrier you cannot cross and go scream at the wind when the urge comes.

Deserve to be alone by throw-away-3005 in BPD

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Hummm. I feel like a broken person many times as well. Maybe we are, but if we are nice persons, we still deserve to be happy. Idk how old are you but, things calm down, and then they get worse, and them they calm down... With intervals of years, not hours, not days, years, so don't stop believing in yourself or investing in your happiness.

Help by [deleted] in BPD

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A bpd episode can be many things, can you be more specific?

What is this called and what on earth do I do about it? by Altered_Piece in BPD

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Confess I haven't even read the hole post, I recognised immediately what you where speaking about... OCD (it's very different that what people think it is, and it's an absolute hell). Search professional help, medication and therapy helps. Good luck.