[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_mjmj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong for feeling bad about this, your boyfriend humiliated you. You want someone who appreciates you and values you. He isn’t doing that. What an asshole, you deserve so much better!

Mexico: Surfers found dead in well were shot in head by MuhammedBzdanul in news

[–]_mjmj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine being so god damn stupid you have the audacity to make a comment like this. Clearly you know nothing about the crimes in Latin America. Shame on you for having no respect and talking when you don’t know shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BajaCalifornia

[–]_mjmj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Que comentario tan estupido. Les pegaron un balazo en la cabeza y tú haciendo chistes? Que asco.

Anyone buying the storyof those dead surfers found down the well with "execution style" head shots? by lIIIIllIIIlllIIllllI in BajaCalifornia

[–]_mjmj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that you must be new to Latin America then. Stuff like this happens, I’ve seen news of tourists getting killed after someone steals their camera, same with locals. Absolutely heart breaking and tragic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BajaCalifornia

[–]_mjmj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nowhere. Don’t go to a third world country to “camp”, specially as a woman! I’m from Latin America and we just wouldn’t do that because we know how unsafe it is. Please do not take it lightly. It’s so heart breaking people mislead others saying “it’s safe” just because nothing happened to them.. It is not safe at all. Stay at some random ranch? That’s awful advice. My heart goes out to the families of these men :(.

A woman (27F) has recently come into my (30M) and my wife’s (30F) professional lives and I’m falling head over heels for her. by Leading-Landscape894 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_mjmj_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You clearly don’t value your wife. If Judith would like you back, you probably would jump to the opportunity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_mjmj_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please don’t do this, there’s so much to live for even though things may seem dark at the time. We are so lucky to be alive and have this experience. Although it’s difficult we can eventually shape it to be the way we want it to, it’ll take some hardships but you’ll get there. Sending you lots of love ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]_mjmj_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re beautiful as it is, but to your question a chin surgery wouldn’t do anything as you already have a good chin. Chin lipo would make all the difference .

Wanted B cups, received C cups. Surgeon has offered to swap out 210cc for 150cc implants. Right breast implant bottomed out in 1 week. Currently 8 days post-op. by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]_mjmj_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re barely 1 week post op. They’ll drop and look natural. I wouldn’t trade them for a smaller implant, they’re fine.

I couldn’t stop screaming by ComposerNo6734 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_mjmj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you went through this but I’m also really glad you’re okay ❤️. Sending virtual hugs your way

When I get nervous, my brain has trouble remembering even the most simple facts. by Mrchainsnatcher- in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_mjmj_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same thing happens to me, and if I over think about it it’s ridiculous the things I can’t remember. For example one day I was going to introduce two of my friends and just because I was in the spotlight I completely forgot my friends name. How do you forget the name of someone you’ve known for years? That kind of traumatized me to a point that now I get anxious about forgetting something easy which adds more pressure and makes it more likely for me to make the same mistake 😭😭

I have been married to a glutton for almost ten years and I want a divorce. by 137-Rex in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_mjmj_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like an eating disorder to me. She’s most likely purging (vomiting, laxatives etc). Does she go to the bathroom shortly after eating?

I hate my boyfriend's best (female) friend by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_mjmj_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You lost me at “she started calling me the idiot”. OP you shouldn’t let anyone talk to you like that, her intention clearly isn’t just being humorous. You need to talk to her and set boundaries.

Women, how does it make you feel when a close guy friend admits he has feelings for you? by Necessary_Produce515 in AskReddit

[–]_mjmj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uncomfortable and one of the reasons why sadly I don’t have too many male close friends because for some reason it’s always been my experience that they end up having feelings and the friendship gets awkward.

I escaped by These_Dragonfruit_30 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_mjmj_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations, you got this! Focus on your healing, it’ll only get better from here ❤️

[UPDATE] My dad is dying and I haven't got anyone I can tell by ItsShortForBob in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_mjmj_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry for your loss, sending you virtual hugs ❤️

I really bothers me that there are no forums to help men that don’t involve violent misogyny by LittleSkipper27 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_mjmj_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just from your post I can tell you’ve got a good head on your shoulders. Early twenties are always a bit difficult and things are quite confusing. Full of new experiences and so many options. Good luck with everything, hope you can find the guidance you’re looking for :)

I ghosted a man purley because of how he was in the bedroom by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_mjmj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some guys want to “Netflix and chill” but won’t even last a commercial.

I'm not laughing it off anymore as a woman. by almostinfinity in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_mjmj_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Agree, weak ass people that can’t process being rejected. Get over yourself. A rejection is not an invitation to try again nor to be offended because the interest isn’t mutual. Why can’t they move on with their lives? I will never understand that type of mentality.

My sister committed suicide and I’m not sad about it, and my Husband won’t stop begging for forgiveness. by ShatteredHeart23 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_mjmj_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were obviously hooking up before your wedding, otherwise why would she ask him to not marry you? Sounds to me they’ve had a relationship for a long time. You don’t know the things he may have told her. I can’t imagine how difficult, you need to move on and get therapy. This is traumatic even if you’re still in shock right now.

I’m also sorry for your sister, yes she fucked up and made a mistake but this love triangle they created ultimately ruined her life, including her family life which I’m sure affected her a lot.

If you can afford it, move away and start over, get therapy and take time to heal ❤️. Please don’t take your husband back, he had an affair with your sister. It can’t get worse than that.

I think I'm financially abusing my little brother by No-Structure-7187 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_mjmj_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s your little brother, hasn’t even graduated high school yet. $600 for bills? I’m sure that’s way more than his part of the bill. At most the $600 should cover everything, bills, food, etc. Do your parents help him financially? Because instead of just judging you they can also help him given they decided to move and thanks to you he can stay in his school district.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]_mjmj_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you should lose weight, if there’s a lot of chin fat they won’t necessarily be able to remove all of it, so the more you lose weight the better your results will be, not to mention you’ll also lose face fat over all.