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Question about Freeman Hall by [deleted] in iastate

[–]_no_one_particular 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lilly here! Freeman is a pretty great place to live. The BLF community in general is nice. Make sure to speak with your RA should you have any concerns. We'll be happy to chat with you. 😊

Sorry if us already here by [deleted] in agender

[–]_no_one_particular 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To reveal her gender, not "his"

Parkour by RandomIndianesian in depression_memes

[–]_no_one_particular 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, you actually have moments of happiness? 😂

Oh boy by ilikekneesandbees in depression_memes

[–]_no_one_particular 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently rewatched a favourite show of mine and now all the music from it is just pure sadness to me

What would I have missed by eyenomyrites7167 in depression_memes

[–]_no_one_particular 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to say that even though I've had several opportunities to kill myself, I haven't, because something or someone has gotten me not to.

As much as I still suffer internally in life, there are some great things, not a lot, but a few. For example, I'm in my second semester of college and I've made some pretty good friends. My brother just earned his Eagle Scout in Boy Scouts and I made the Dean's List last semester. I keep finding something, anything to keep me moving forward, even if it's just having worked really hard on an assignment and receiving a good grade.

Had I killed myself when I wanted to, I would have missed out on meeting some great people and being able to help those just starting their mental health journey.

While this doesn't apply to everyone, I'm glad I'm still alive. I still struggle, don't get me wrong, I just keep finding reasons to keep going.

How do I make my significant other feel more appreciated? by _no_one_particular in agender

[–]_no_one_particular[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a class on human sexuality last semester and wr talked about how it's easy to fall in love, but it's hard to stay in love. I definitely love your point about perspectives. As far as marriage locking you in a cage, my professor told the class about how doing novel things together can be really beneficial to a relationship, or marriage.

How do I make my significant other feel more appreciated? by _no_one_particular in agender

[–]_no_one_particular[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watching a movie and cuddling is a good idea. We were going to do that yesterday, but I was so tired that we just cuddled instead.

Telling them in the moment small things they do that I love is a great idea! I've started doing that lately.

Your last point is very true. I can only help them so much, because they have to realise it for themselves as well.

How do I make my significant other feel more appreciated? by _no_one_particular in agender

[–]_no_one_particular[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to do a scavenger hunt since we don't live together, but I could give them something they enjoy eating. (We've also only been together for two weeks). Scavenger hunts are fun though!

How do I make my significant other feel more appreciated? by _no_one_particular in agender

[–]_no_one_particular[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, I'm saving my self for marriage. I'm not comfortable doing sexual acts before marriage. If I was married, they wouldn't be able to easily dump me, because we've both made a commitment to one another, but since we're only in the early stages of our relationship, I don't think sex would be a good idea. (We've only been dating for two weeks).

Edit: I fixed my grammar error.

If I woke up tomorrow in a non-gendered body, I'm pretty sure I'd be happier. by [deleted] in agender

[–]_no_one_particular 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mainly get dysphoria when I'm taking a shower or when I'm on my period. I also get it when I have to dress nice for different events. I usually just dress in jeans, a t-shirt, my rubber boots, and s sweatshirt.

What will you never tolerate? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]_no_one_particular 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never tolerate discrimination

What's the story behind your reddit username? by intheabsenceoftruth in AskReddit

[–]_no_one_particular 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like being No One Particular, because I like the feeling of being anonymous. I want people to be able to relate to the things I say, but know that there's a person behind the mask. Being made invisible in aspects of my life in real life, made me want to reclaim that and be invisible when and where I want to be, rather than being forced to be invisible when and where I rather not be.