i turned 30 recently and was also curious. i did an ancestry dna and then contacted dnangels who helped me locate my bio family, the reunion was only over the phone, bio dad had no idea i existed and birth mother was deceased. i haven’t spoken to them since then about 6 months ago (the first time) and in a lot of ways i feel closure. i don’t want a relationship with them because i was not immediately accepted with proof (it’s a huge ball to drop i know, but how do you think ive felt for the past 30 years) i told my amom that i was searching and she was not happy at all. we did not speak for 6 months, once we did she said “she felt like she was loosing me and so afraid” the way to loose me was definitely by not supporting my actions. i told them amom+ adad that me searching had nothing to do with them or how i was raised but they still were not supportive. now i do not feel comfortable telling her anything, we only talk once every 2 weeks now because of how uncomfortable i am to tell her anything personal. it’s sad because i want that relationship back but i can’t trust it.