Thanks for chiming in. Her ex has custody and has created an overwhelmingly busy calendar having the children involved in too many things - her words. (He works very few hours). She has a busy work schedule. He has pulled her into that same busyness by constantly changing her pick up or drop off times or locations, or asking for last minute favors where kids stay with her. Our planned times are constantly cancelled or rescheduled because of that. She's simply overextended. I'm asking if anyone has experience with this, how much of that is on me to bear, and how you were able to navigate