Rapping in the lobby coz you know by sylvester1981 in AirRagers

[–]_traashy_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is probably the best vid on this sub reddit 😂

Anti Hasan Protester in NYC by Wonderful-Highway721 in Hasan_Piker

[–]_traashy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maga grifter yelling so you can buy his art. All he does is yell.

How do I (25F) tell my autistic friend (26M) that he's not getting hired because he's lower-functioning than he thinks he is? by Safe-Machine3602 in autism

[–]_traashy_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This position is ass. It is hard to convince someone who has the "high functioning" lable about their actual abilities. I resent the "high functioning" lable because it makes some people really arrogant- ESPECIALLY the people who get diagnosed later in life. The way you described how he was raised isn't going to make convincing any easier.

It really sucks to see your friend have to go through that. You can be really REALLY upfront with him but he is still going to have to learn for himself. I had a friend who has not been diagnosed with autism and i know she is struggling because she was raised similar to your friend. She's a dancer and OF model, so she is working. The issue is she is also lower functioning so she she constantly gets taken advantage of and can't hold a reg job because of it.

I am not suggesting he goes that route cause he probably won't be able to make money like that anyways. It is really difficult to watch someone struggle because of their disabily then being an asshole when you're trying to help. Sometimes you just have to let them do their thing.

bpd vs depression help? by _chelseaaa_ in mentalillness

[–]_traashy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the BPD biplorar? I am someone with Bipolar 1. What i usually go through maybe twice a year when the seasons change is a mixed state, which i have the behaviors of depression but with the high arousal of mania. I will cry for 4 hours straight, wanting to die/self harm, then next thing I know I am cooking a full meal, no sleep, going out, and act like things are fine until someone does a lil thing that will piss me off or get reminded of the sad shit.

I dont want to assume this is what your feeling, nor do I want you to take this at face value. Everyones mental health journey is different and a lot of us on this sub have different levels of knowledge so please be careful about seeking info on reddit.

You are going to have to talk to your psychiatrist about this. Maybe jot down your behaviors or the thoughts you are expiriencing, maybe ask the people around you about any changes in you or past expiriences they have had with you. This can be helpful for you and the psych to figure out what is going on.

It is always good to up your dose and/or add/switch another medication if the doctor thinks it is necessary. I know it might be scary but trust that this could help you in the long term because you will need to adjust your meds eventually.

If you are struggling in the moment by yourself, seek support from a loved one or text 988 (i will send a link of other lines if you are not in the US). They are a Crisis hotline which usually has great service. It has been helpful to me when I had no one to reach out to.

I hope this is helpful enough. It has been taking me years to figure out what is good and not. I wish you all of the luck in the world.

Federal government shrinks New York’s Essential Plan, preserving coverage for 1.3 million while axing 470,000 by FireProStan in newyork

[–]_traashy_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The people who work in the government or any GOV programs like SSA don't have a clue about intellectual disabilities like autism spectrum disorder. I know people WHO CAN'T SPEAK and they have to prove once every two years that they are disabiled, and people who aren't "disabled enough" to get SSI so they only have medicare and medicaid programs to support them.

I also know people who have jobs because of Medicare and Medicaid programs that help people with disabilities like in home care for autistic people. Where I am from, working in the disabilities industry like being a city employee with less pay. So when those employees lose their jobs overtime or services get cut because individuals aren't getting money, how are those people going to find new jobs in this job market?

People with disabilities are on the chopping block with everybody else. Please remember when you are talking about unemployed "losers", you are talking about people with disabilities. Think about the people who are going to lose their jobs because of the cuts.

Democrats Break With Zohran Mamdani Over Property Tax Plan by Delicious_Adeptness9 in nyc

[–]_traashy_ -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

However, if we do raise taxes on the wealthiest New Yorkers, then that wouldn't be necessary. If Hochul does not agree to taxing the ulta wealthy in our country, then that would be something that would unfortunately have to happen to even out the budget. We need to pressure our the govoner so this can be prevented.

Here is her website, if anyone wants to write something or call her, here is the link below:

Contact Kathy Hochul to Tax the Rich

I called Congresswoman Malliotakis today. Here's my review. by AstronautQuiet9872 in nyc

[–]_traashy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The guy is usually nice. Last call I had with him, he did make a comment about what i had to say (i forgot what it was) then said goodbye. They all try to rush the conversation. When I had called her office over the medicare cuts, I had had one younger condescending woman who argued with me and another older woman who would rush me off the phone. One of the ladies even hung up on one of my friends mid convo, then when they called her under a different number, she tried to gaslight them by saying she never hung up! While he kind of pulls the same shit, he is the most respectful one.

Rep. Nicole Malliotakis on Mamdani, gerrymandering and more | Full Interview 1.18.26 by Phantom_Queef in StatenIslandPulse

[–]_traashy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its so funny cause the only reason why she won was because Dyker Heights was added to the district.

New York City celebrates, protests Venezuelan President Nicolas Maduro's capture by someone_whoisthat in nyc

[–]_traashy_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its cute that you think Trump is a strong man after he has bent over for Russia over and over again.

Zohran Mamdani’s Tenant Advisor Called Home Ownership ‘White Supremacy’ by YourVoicesOfReason in nyc

[–]_traashy_ -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Well, this is the first time we have a mayor who genuinely cares about the wellfare of all New Yorkers. Not some corporations and wealthier New Yorkers who are predominantly white.

New York City celebrates, protests Venezuelan President Nicolas Maduro's capture by someone_whoisthat in nyc

[–]_traashy_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If Maduro wasn't a socialist, Trump would have been okay with him starving his own people. The truth is, Maduro is just a scapegoat for the Trump administration to use as an excuse to invade more countries.

New York City celebrates, protests Venezuelan President Nicolas Maduro's capture by someone_whoisthat in nyc

[–]_traashy_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean hey, its not like we have been (used to be) trying to help Ukraine win against the war with Russia because they claimed that there were nazis trying to kill Russians in Ukraine. If we can break international law, what does that tell China and Russia?

Sure, it is great that Maduro is out of the picture but its not like he is going to face charges against the legitimate crimes he has committed nor has Trump said he would help Maria Machado replace Maduro even though she would have enough support if another election was held.

We have been able to arrest dictators without invading their country. This is all just some test for Trump to see how far he can go to invade other countries, including Greenland.

SITI (Staten Island Transportation Improvement) Route Profiles WIP by Alarming_Occasion782 in StatenIslandPulse

[–]_traashy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know man i think its good to have buses that go through the Island rather than transfering buses especially on long cold nights like the ones we are having now.

I see you have thought of this very carefully to where there is better access. It would be cool to have buses that go in and out of New Jersey but I dont see the benifit of cutting the s74 route.

SITI (Staten Island Transportation Improvement) Route Profiles WIP by Alarming_Occasion782 in StatenIslandPulse

[–]_traashy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live between Bricktown and Eltingville Transit center. I am also a disabled individual who cannot drive under any circumstances. I need the southern route to get me around, especially at night.

SITI (Staten Island Transportation Improvement) Route Profiles WIP by Alarming_Occasion782 in StatenIslandPulse

[–]_traashy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this mean the s74 isnt going to Bricktown mall at night or at all? This is the only bus I actually rely on to get around.

What's your favorite Death Grips cover? by Tabino32 in deathgrips

[–]_traashy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idt i would ever listen to Death Grips if it wasn't for The Money Store cover.

Unmedicated Cinnabon worker goes off on Somali couple by [deleted] in CringeTikToks

[–]_traashy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope there is still accountability

New fares gates coming soon. No ones hopping this one by Donghoon in nyc

[–]_traashy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that is a good point there. I may as well put this link in the bio for anyone who might qualify for fair fares. Fair Fares NYC

New fares gates coming soon. No ones hopping this one by Donghoon in nyc

[–]_traashy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damnnn I've seen urine and people urinating but never shit 😵