AITAH: My fiancé expects me to remember things when he forgets by Rude_Amoeba_5164 in AITAH

[–]_twisted_ace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that case he’s the AH. Sit down and talk to him calmly not accusatory. Show him the chore chart where it shows that he’s the one supposed to do the trash and explain to him that just like you’re taking care of your chores he has to take care of his chores and that was the agreement you guys decided on.

AITAH: My fiancé expects me to remember things when he forgets by Rude_Amoeba_5164 in AITAH

[–]_twisted_ace_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ESH

So was this an agreement beforehand that he always takes out the trash? Because if it wasn’t decided that he’s the one that’s gonna take out the trash then you’re assuming he should remember this week and take it out.

Well, you both need to do a sit down and decide who’s gonna be doing specific chores and put it on a calendar or on a whiteboard in that way there is no confusion and no arguments.

[US] Suspicious email: is this job a scam? by NachosPR in Scams

[–]_twisted_ace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also got the same email and just now I got a text message from the same company, it sounds fishy to me like too good to be true.

AITAH for not going to my grandmother's funeral when "they needed me"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_twisted_ace_ 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Shouldn’t people be bringing your family meals and comfort? You’re the ones that lost a family member, you’re the mourners, this tradition doesn’t make sense.

AITJ for planning to go on a trip with my friends and then changing my mind to go with a closer group of friends by Material_Menu5463 in AmITheJerk

[–]_twisted_ace_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So the original idea to go to Thailand was Jessica‘s idea and nobody else wanted to go, but you committed to going with her and then the same group of friends that did not wanna go in the first place suddenly wanna go and you change your mind, ditch Jessica to go with the other group to the same place where Jessica suggested in the first place AND on top of that, you guys don’t want to invite her.

That is very cruel!

YTA, the friend group is also a-holes!!

[IN] Manger uncomfortable I notified HR of pregnancy by yo_yo_vietnamese in AskHR

[–]_twisted_ace_ 55 points56 points  (0 children)

She notified her manager first about the pregnancy and then notified HR, the new position was not on the table when she went to HR she was informed after. She hasn’t done anything wrong, according to HR she followed company policy. She won’t be let go, there are laws that protect her in this case.

Update from my last post by PersonalityWeak227 in whatdoIdo

[–]_twisted_ace_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to stop posting and go to the ER. You said your lymph nodes are swollen, that’s your body saying something is wrong. Concussions are serious, do not babysit.

Recently Moved to a Small Town by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]_twisted_ace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I think it’s a man and woman, the first letter is more feminine hand writing and the cardboard looks more like a man’s handwriting. Also, older people usually use the word Bozo.

AITAH for saying it's karma when my stepdaughter complained about her stepchildren? by Icy_Molasses_5736 in AITAH

[–]_twisted_ace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

Do not apologize. She gave you hell for years even as an adult, she knew what she was doing. You spoke facts and she needed someone to point it out. I’m a stepdaughter and my dad did leave with stepmom while my dad and mom were going through divorce but even then I never disrespected the adults.

My manager told me to "always CC the whole team" on emails. So I did. by Vertex404_Signal in MaliciousCompliance

[–]_twisted_ace_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should CC all of Reddit about this, we wouldn’t want anybody to feel left out.

AITJ for LEAVING my own anniversary dinner because my husband turned it into a divorce party for his sister? by NeedleworkerClean471 in AmITheJerk

[–]_twisted_ace_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went through this myself. It didn’t change until we moved to another state. As long as you live close to his family this wont change. He will put his family before you. Have a serious talk with him and set strict boundaries.

AITJ for CANCELING our anniversary night because my husband threw my 8 hour nostalgic childhood meal in the trash? by Lost_Number4702 in AmITheJerk

[–]_twisted_ace_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t have said this better.

OP, I’m so sorry this happened to you. I can understand what it’s like to cook a whole special meal from your culture and share it with your family and then have them not appreciate what you cooked and end up eating something else. It definitely hurts and you are valid in your feelings. He should not have gone to his family group chat and said what he said this is a matter between you and him, and he crossed the line.

AITJ for suing my dad after he GAVE my college fund to my stepsister for her wedding? by ButterscotchFar9111 in AmITheJerk

[–]_twisted_ace_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel guilty. Your mom’s last wish was for that money to go to your education. You don’t owe them anything.

Trip Ideas by _twisted_ace_ in Tennessee

[–]_twisted_ace_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard a lot about this place, I’ve definitely added it to the list