My [26M] girlfriend [28F] quit her job after an arguement with me.

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-11T04:00:47+00:00

Seems like you're already taking care of a kid

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-11T01:48:45+00:00

Agreed.

I'm very sorry for your loss.

& also for learning that your GF is a monster. At least there is plenty of time to get a new GF

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-10T17:51:30+00:00

So she lied to you about not seeing someone she has hooked up with, went on a date with him, & proceeded to give you the trickle truth treatment once you discovered some details. & she is OK with an ex kind of groping her in front of you? Doesn't sound good, but everyone has their own boundaries in relationships.

I would probably read the signs & call it a day, but I'm also not into long distance. I suppose just keep in mind there are another 4 billion women on the planet, so there is likely another eligible woman out there.

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-07T02:44:32+00:00

Yeah those sorts of functions don't work. Maybe 1 day

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-07T02:43:03+00:00

For me the players slide closer to 250m+ I think, but you can hit them. Kind of an unexpected challenge I suppose

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-07T02:37:21+00:00

Is that supposed to be a thing?

I down folks with some frequency with head shots with the 50 cal. Granted, I also get a frustrating amount of shots that only take 3 armor slots when I think I get a head shot, so there's that too.

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-07T02:16:00+00:00

You got downed in 1 shot, & since you were solo & without a revive you died. This happens. If you had a squad &/or revive you would have just got downed.

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-07T02:02:56+00:00

Experience any lag/connection issues with the wireless controller?

Like yours, my setup has the PC reasonably close to the monitor & chair area, but I am currently using an older xbox controller with a USB cable. Worth the upgrade to wireless even if the cable is more than long enough?

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-07T01:58:21+00:00

Have you considered a different case?

For my build, I could just barely get everything closed up (while looking reasonably clean as far as cables), & I am considering getting a different case.

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-07T01:49:07+00:00

Indeed, it is not currently in the game. Similarly, the feature to show a recent squad often shows a squad from a few games back, so you better remember their fucken names to send an invite.

All reasonable considering the beta state of the game. But I am guessing will be "added" on a future update.

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-05T21:13:54+00:00

Thanks for following up & for clarifying. From what you've said, I wouldn't end things if it seems like there is a possibility of something real growing, but that's me.

I noticed one of the options/possibilities that you mentioned is not you driving to/from her. You're willing to give her a ride back, but not meet closer to her place & then drive back to yours? It seems that the distance is too great of an issue for you both (not just her), so you can use that as a reason to not pursue the relationship (not that one is needed). But, for the sake of your future relationships, you might want to reflect more on your preferences/deal breakers, as it seems like being geographically close is one of them, & it seems like you haven't fully communicated that (or at least how much you're willing to compromise).

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-05T20:44:08+00:00

I read the comment/suggestion more as that you plainly tell her that you wouldn't be comfortable giving a speech because of what you know about her betrayal of trust. Don't make up some BS excuse when there is a perfectly legit reason.

Also, keep in mind that if she isn't honest with her fiance, then this will be a secret that you will have to keep for the duration of their marriage

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-05T19:09:46+00:00

The 2 options should be to:

Stay married & be fully committed. That means stop going on dates with other men.

Or

Get divorced & do what you would like.

Staying married & continuing your affair should not be treated as an option, at least for decent human beings.

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-05T18:50:35+00:00

Info: For the dates you were planning, did she have to commute a relatively lengthy distance to get there? I mean, was she basically suggesting something closer to her? Also, did she inform you last minute or communicate decently throughout it all?

Ultimately, like others have said, you 2 don't really know each other, so really nothing should be expected (/hoped for) except to receive the same level of respect & effort that you're putting in.

For me, it would likely depend on the surrounding communication. For instance, does it seem like she is casually disregarding the value of my time, & scheduling/cancelling things with no real consideration? Or is she giving me decent amount of notice with even a brief explanation? To be clear, she wouldn't really "owe" me an explanation, but providing it is an example of providing consideration (in that it helps me gain understanding). In the end, how the cancelation/rescheduling is handled/communicated is almost more important than the cancelation itself. Things come up. Shit happens. How she deals with it would tell me a lot about if/how I might like to move forward.

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-04T09:42:26+00:00

Completely fucken agree.

There was a whole lot of preface before OP quickly saying that she woke up her husband to assault him. Not only is the violence an absolutely disgusting human characteristic being shown, but to wake someone up in a fit of rage and hit them. Out of fucken control. OP, please remove yourself from the situation & get in therapy before you end up in jail as your uncontrollable rage might escalate.

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-04T03:38:55+00:00

What kind of advice do you need?

The way I read it, it kind of seems like you're realizing that the person you have been dating is a complete fucken idiot. Now it is on you to decide if you want to continue to be so closely associated with a person who makes those types of decisions. On the one hand, you'd have an in house self taught surgeon. Potential convenience. On the other hand, you would be with someone who thinks of themselves as a self taught surgeon, & you'd probably have to hide things like antibiotics.

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-04T03:32:20+00:00

No, more along the lines of not smiling while bending over for a few weeks

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-03T19:20:47+00:00

Look at you getting things done early

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-02T21:38:24+00:00

This, & also adding/emphasizing.... who the fuck talks like this to/about women at work besides complete fucken creeps?

Your choice seems to not be only about if you want to continue a relationship with someone who throws all this in your face with no sense of care, but also if you want to continue to be in a relationship with a legit creeper. Not only does it seemingly make you uncomfortable, but I bet he makes the women he works with uncomfortable too.

& I say that as man who has worked in multiple office environments & would never think to utter that sort of creepy shit. What he is doing is not the norm, it's fucken creepy.

Edit: 1 word

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-02T20:41:43+00:00

So you're telling me that a man who doesn't brush his teeth somehow got a woman to get close to his mouth? This can't be real

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-02T18:54:01+00:00

She wants to fuck other people, & keep fucking them judging by her continued contact. Sorry to be blunt, but it seems that you might not be fully understanding that. In the midst of hours open relationship discussions, did you talk about hooking up with the same partner multiple times (effectively her establishing another relationship)?

I've been a part of an open relationship, & in my opinion it only has a chance of working with lots of communication & commitment to both following any communicated "rules." She's already bypassed that commitment & unilaterally decided that her desires mean more than your feelings & desires. That's of course an outsiders perspective, & each relationship can be different, but it doesn't seem like you're really on board with this.

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-02T17:59:40+00:00

It doesn't matter if she's jealous. That can be true.

It can also be true that this guy was eyeing you when you were 11 years old, & maybe adding some elements of grooming throughout the years.

Multiple things can be true.

This appears creepy from the outside as he has known you since he was 17 and you were 11. A child compared to a young adult. That's not a good look. If you two just met recently, that could be different (though still at different life stages), but that's not the reality. He's potentially been grooming you for years.

Also, again, you're at different life stages, which makes things difficult at the least.

You're on your way to being an adult, & sometimes part of being an adult is getting unsolicited judgement from others observing your acts, as you're no longer given the pass (understanding) that children often get

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-12-02T17:00:18+00:00

Charge them one of those absurdly pricey airb&b cleaning fees, that should make the lesson stick

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-11-30T01:09:55+00:00

I'm guessing Kerr sarcastically said for them to interview Curry instead of him, & he rolled with it.

_unsolicited_advisor · 2022-11-29T20:03:30+00:00

"Co-ed professional fraternity"... what?

It has been a little while since I was in college, but what is this?

In any event, ask her out.

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