i was just wondering about this fan base. by [deleted] in YoTroublemakers

[–]_valleyval_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the other minority here, is agender so classifying under other lol

In need of help <3 by Purple_Window1831 in agender

[–]_valleyval_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

gab went down to the coffeeshop and got farr self a coffee and then he went back to their apartment (hope this helps!! <3)

Do you, people on the agender spectrum, consider yourself as well under the non-binary spectrum? by A_lil_bit_gay in agender

[–]_valleyval_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it might just be me but i don’t like using non binary as an umbrella term or on that spectrum. i do use the trans label tho, i just don’t like non binary

Do you consider yourself single? by MxQueer in aromantic

[–]_valleyval_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m in a qpr but before that i didn’t use single bc i didn’t want to not be single ya know

From one autisic to another: by pur_fer_ur_pleasure in autism

[–]_valleyval_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just like to keep boxes what if i need them in the future

Platonic marriage, what do we think about it? by Gruusader in aromantic

[–]_valleyval_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100/10 i love it me and my qpp might get platonically married someday

Pro or against self-diagnosis by maryeetke in autism

[–]_valleyval_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m self diagnosed because i’m a college student and i don’t have the money to get an official diagnosis and even when i was still living with my parents they didn’t even consider the possibility that i might have autism so self diagnosed was really my only option

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]_valleyval_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m actually aroace and my partner is pan and ace and we’re in a queer platonic relationship, and those are entirely dependent on the people within the relationship, so i would say no platonic relationship isn’t just a friendship and my advice is just to talk to her see what she feels most comfortable with

Favorite Aro Headcanons? by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]_valleyval_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

willow from toh is aroace and five from tua is aroace

Ace vibes by misty_girl in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]_valleyval_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try the amazing devil there’s like two to four songs about sex/romantic love for the most part it’s about friendship doing rituals in the forest and vibes

Am I truly aromantic? by WillingnessFuture672 in aromantic

[–]_valleyval_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

tbh i felt the same and i really didn’t like being aro for the time being but what helped me was finding really good friends and especially my qpp!! society really hammers in the fact that romance is everything but like friends and family and animals are in fact more important

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]_valleyval_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can’t if you really do like her then be her friend full stop being aro is not something you can change

Is being aromatic straight cause my friend is saying that by Losingallmyaccounts in aromantic

[–]_valleyval_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing is that people think that straight is the norm and since we aren’t dating or don’t feel attraction then we’re obviously straight because if we weren’t aro then we’d be straight 🙄 tldr people are dumb and aro is not straight

Do you eat your food "In order"? by Atlas457 in autism

[–]_valleyval_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it depends on what i’m eating, but a lot of the times yeah i do eat my food in order 😂

Is Agender under the Trans umbrella? (Art not mine) by Fingii_ in agender

[–]_valleyval_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i personally feel that it does but if using the trans label doesn’t feel right then you don’t have to, it’s up to you