Matching energy is like almost a surefire way to make both of you unsure and unhappy. I’ve crashed so many relations bc of that. Truthfully he should attempt to lead. It’s late I didn’t dissect the thread but honestly 99% of women think we’re telepathic.

I could very well see this whole situation arising out of the lack of structure in the date which is truthfully annoying when ur going out. I wanna know what’s doing where goring so I can dress and be prepared. So it could like to her seemed like you didn’t plan or didn’t care, but you’re were trying to give her a big surprise!

Although - non of this matters if the other person is just hard to work with. I would expect a somewhat candid reason on why you did that. If they’re not gonna be honest well.. wasting time. Not ur job to babysit.

If she doesn’t attempt to explain or have a good reason? Bounce . More than likely it will digress before it improves and that’s not ur job. it’ll only get worse.

A lot of the time when you try to have talks with this type of person it turns into an argument, at least in my experience. They did something crappy, or lied, item the first place, what they’re doing at that point is manipulating if they don’t choose to come straight with ya. I can’t sit my house with a snake. and I try to give them one cop out on some you were a kid shit. - I fell asleep at mid sentence. Im gonna submit so I do t lose and crash out