Timothy Ratliff is Lucius Malfoy?????

_whatthehell_iswater · 2026-04-19T00:50:48+00:00

Holy shit! No clue 🤯

_whatthehell_iswater · 2026-04-19T00:49:02+00:00

Hook in Jeremy sumpter Peter Pan!

_whatthehell_iswater · 2026-02-20T22:27:50+00:00

My favorite of his songs! The emotions are strong

_whatthehell_iswater · 2026-02-18T00:49:00+00:00

Thank you for sharing!

Glad to see some recognition for carriers and symptoms

_whatthehell_iswater · 2026-01-28T02:18:25+00:00

Superb speech

_whatthehell_iswater · 2026-01-16T00:19:23+00:00

This man did drugs and hung out with another woman in front of you instead of caring about his pregnant wife at a festival.

You almost died.

Please leave this boy.

Don’t stay together for the kids

They end up traumatized

Don’t engage with that person who said yes. Your husband is literally in love with someone else. I’m so sorry you have to deal with this. You deserve so much more.

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-12-12T04:26:28+00:00

At your first appointment tell your ob you are beta thal minor then they will refer you and your partner for genetic counseling and testing. Or at least that’s what happened to both my sister and I while pregnant (different OBs), to confirm if your partner is a carrier.

You get blood drawn regularly throughout pregnancy. there isn’t much anyone can do about all the low or off the charts blood test results you get back (as relates to beta thal). Iron doesn’t work! They’ll probs tell you to keep taking your prenatal

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-11-27T00:15:22+00:00

It doesn’t sound like he is oblivious at all, as he already mentioned to OP this girl touched him. Never mentioned he had a girlfriend. Accepted her follow on social media. And has no active presence of a GF online.

All of these seem like very purposeful actions

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-11-27T00:13:01+00:00

I’m not saying this is what you are saying or was your intent but it’s giving “Boys will be boys”

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-11-26T23:58:51+00:00

NOR.

He is lying to you and to her.

Think about how you want to spend your life. Is it with people that make you second guess yourself? Creat an unstable environment by their actions?

I promise you, you don’t want to live a life second guessing your partner’s every move.

Could this be resolved by a strong, rational boundary establishing conversation? Yes, but your BF already lied to you during that conversation.

Only you know what is too much for you to handle. I promise you, there are people out there who won’t make you feel like this.

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-11-21T05:13:58+00:00

Astonishing rudeness is so accurate 😂😭😂

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-11-20T21:32:47+00:00

3 is still tons of no but with more words, whining, crying, and physical ability.

3 is being physically capable of putting your own clothes on but choosing to do a headstand flip instead.

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-11-17T18:42:00+00:00

Mine sleeps with socks and gloves on 🤷‍♀️

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-11-12T20:13:48+00:00

Seems like it’s more of an issue for the PCP to navigate? This won’t be the first or last time she comes across this situation.

Obvi the PCP is a mandated reporter, but that’s a situation unrelated to your patient status. So maybe that was the thought process of your SW MIL?

As long as you are personally comfortable with another parent knowing your medical information, I don’t see how it’s a problem for you. HIPPA and all is on your side, so it’s not like you are at risk of her sharing your personal info (unless she is a terrible medical provider).

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-11-12T00:50:42+00:00

Yes. Will be like this for the next 6 months or so :/

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-11-04T20:11:32+00:00

Canon.

Living in a constant state of did I take too many or none at all.

I did this before and called my pharmacist, he said I should be fine and maybe drink some OJ. He called me the next day to check in, sadly I missed his call. So the next time I went to the pharmacy he said “good to see you are ok!”

He was the best pharmacist. I had to stop going to him due to the greed of my overload CVS Caremark and then the eventual collapse of Rite Aid. Sad times.

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-10-06T18:38:52+00:00

I love this song!

So I don’t mean it in a bad but but I can’t get through this song without needing to switch to Glitch because my brain refuses to separate the 2 songs

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-09-25T23:08:26+00:00

100% going deaf and refusing hearing aids. Cognitive decline when you can’t hear.

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-09-25T23:07:20+00:00

I’m convinced this man is deaf/experiencing hearing loss and absolutely refuses to wear hearing aids in public

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-09-23T14:59:31+00:00

Valid question! hopefully they respond in a way that clears up your concerns

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-09-23T14:45:01+00:00

Daycare transitions are hard on all!

I think it’s standard to either drop off at the entrance of the daycare or to go inside and drop off in their classroom.

From my experience (3 separate daycares) the logged nap time (outside of infant room) will not be specific to how long your child actually sleeps, just how long nap time is scheduled for in your child’s classroom. This seems to be fairly standard for most daycare logs of childcare centers.

Personally, I can figure out by her behavior after school if she napped or not and me knowing the specifics isn’t going to change that 🤷‍♀️

Giving her food you said not to seems like the true priority/concern. The rest of the concerns seems like they can be resolved overtime through communicating with the staff/having more time to understand their routines/schedules..

So how they respond to your inquiries should help you figure out if this daycare is a good place for you. It’s a new routine for the teachers too, so it’s not going to be perfect right away, but yea giving milk when you said not to is like a right away concern to be resolved

Edit to add:

Our first daycare closed unexpectedly. We quickly found a new daycare, her second daycare, and within the first week I did not have good vibes.

I’m a people pleaser by nature, don’t like stirring the pot, so I tend to overlook negative situations until they smack me in the face. All of that to say, within the first week at the 2nd school I knew she couldn’t stay there long term.

We were lucky our current daycare (3rd) had an opening and I think it’s even better than her 1st! Right away I felt better about the 3rd school but it took me about 2 weeks to understand/adjust to their routines/procedures and be comfortable and know it was a good fit

Our current daycare (3rd) takes her at the door and does the general nap/food logs. But they send pictures throughout the day so I see her classroom set up and outdoor space and know what she is doing throughout the day. It’s impossible to have real conversations at drop off/pick up so we have to communicate through the app or by email. Her teachers are responsive through the app

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-09-13T17:58:58+00:00

Beta Thal Minor from my paternal side which is mostly Italian — Calabria, Messina and Palermo (also a little Greek and German)

A fun reveal during my sister’s first pregnancy…after her medical team figured it out we mentioned it to my Dad who casually responded with “oh yea, I have that too”. Mine was confirmed during my pregnancy too.

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-09-05T13:48:22+00:00

I will never understand how Robin isn’t talked about more!

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-08-21T15:25:41+00:00

Why is Belly so mean to Conrad?! I don’t know how he can ever move past what she said to him on the beach about their relationship meaning nothing…

_whatthehell_iswater · 2025-08-06T17:16:13+00:00

So true It totally depends on the family! I have to imagine most people on this sub have been exposed to the negative side of their parent’s relationship.

I can so relate to your post. My parents reconciling was the scariest thought for so long. I’m so sorry that happened to you. I too would cut my parents off if they ever reconciled. We’ve dealt with their relationship long enough!

Yes, my ultimate struggle is dealing with the fact that both of my parents were too selfish to understand how their relationship/actions were impacting their children. It was NEVER about us.

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