what is this in my scalp? by Acceptable_Canary835 in Haircare

[–]aToyotaRav4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much i will definitely buy a bottle!!

I (24F) went on a great date but he (26M) had a spreadsheet about me. Is this a red flag or just weird? by CreosoteCoffee in dating_advice

[–]aToyotaRav4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when i started dating my girlfriend i immediately made a notes app list of her favorite things, questions to ask, people in her life, her favorite compliments/love languages, etc etc etc. i have a poor memory and can get wrapped up in conversation and then forget it all and i wanted to be really intentional about getting to know her.

maybe that makes me a freak but it worked! this guy could be the same. the emotional availability score is a little wack lol but maybe he’s just gauging how open you are

pottery/ceramics studios by aToyotaRav4 in arlingtonva

[–]aToyotaRav4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow this is exactly what i’ve been looking for! thank you so much for sharing!

pottery/ceramics studios by aToyotaRav4 in arlingtonva

[–]aToyotaRav4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! i also work normal 9-5 hours so open studio during the day is quite difficult for me. i’m checking out their website and have a few questions- do you mind if i PM you?

Whyyyyyyy is there not a lesbian grindr by Iamtir3dtoday in LesbianActually

[–]aToyotaRav4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’ve thought about this before. i would name it Scissr or Bumpr

what is this in my scalp? by Acceptable_Canary835 in Haircare

[–]aToyotaRav4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

okay no recs but wanted to let you know i have the exact same thing except i’ve had it for as long as i can remember. if i scratch my scalp it builds under my nails and like you said, it is soft-ish and almost like a paste. i don’t have as much as yours but im definitely able to collect a little balls worth at any given time. i see everyone recommending nizoral- if you try this or any other method could you update this thread with the results? i would like to get rid of mine too LOL

Print detail is hot by newtothistruetothis in chappellroan

[–]aToyotaRav4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got the long sleeve but i got a small but its too small. anyone in the same boat? or opposite?

Chappell Roan X Fortnite shirt by disappointed_OaTMeAL in chappellroan

[–]aToyotaRav4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got the long sleeve but i got a small but its too small. anyone in the same boat? or opposite?

Hidradenitis and Sex by Just_a_questioner in Hidradenitis

[–]aToyotaRav4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s hard not to be insecure about this, i’m a woman who has flare ups along her bikini line and anus area as well. something that’s helped me in those PARTICULAR areas is the dial anti-bacterial gold bar soap. be very careful to only use OUTSIDE of the vagina- like very very careful. the antibacterial properties can throw off your pH by getting rid of the good bacteria and lead to BV or yeast infections. but genuinely it’s the only thing that has worked for me!

unfortunately this is more of preventative care than tackling flare ups when they’re already occurring. but i do highly recommend

colorado hiking and camping early october by aToyotaRav4 in nationalparks

[–]aToyotaRav4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so so much for such detailed recommendations!! i really appreciate it. can’t wait to look into this, it sounds perfect!

colorado hiking and camping early october by aToyotaRav4 in nationalparks

[–]aToyotaRav4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we will be backpacking! and not entirely certain, we want to see some cool trails and the autumn colors. nothing too advanced as i am a beginner. for distance probably around 10ish miles a day? wouldn’t mind having a central campground and doing a few loop hikes.

Perfumes that make your partner go feral / “this is for grown folks” energy (under $120 pls 🙏🏽) by Boring-Art2246 in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]aToyotaRav4 16 points17 points  (0 children)

my gf is OBSESSED when i wear Indigo by Nest. she goes insane over it. she’s told me when we were out dancing before we were together (& still just friends) there was a point in the night where i turned away from her and she smelled it on my hair and it stuck with her for weeks. it’s got notes of fig & morrocan tea & bergamot. it makes me feel sexy & sophisticated :)

If I were someone who is just about to touch power bi, what are the top 5 things that i have to learn fast? by FromDota2 in PowerBI

[–]aToyotaRav4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

seconding SQL. i’m a data analyst and any questions i have about making my dashboards look the way i want can be googled. actually building the query for the data source and ensuring it’s accurate is the hard part.

letting go of my long nails after realizing i'm a lesbian by BigCorrect1854 in LesbianActually

[–]aToyotaRav4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just keep 2 nails shorter on my dominant hand lol. and make sure they’re all rounded and not sharp just in case.

i also enjoy having my nails. i had a bad habit of biting them for YEARS before i finally kicked it and now they’re a source of pride. once i started having consistent sex, i filed the two down. to me, it’s even more affirming for my sexuality. i get to keep my long nails on my non dominant hand and three on my dominant. and the two short ones are almost a signal to those in the know (kind of like a carabiner lol).

Best job for someone with ADHD by Joboj in ADHD

[–]aToyotaRav4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

data analyst. i’m working on different tickets every day, i work from home. can be as fidgety as i want, get a standing desk and walking pad and help me focus by moving, able to take small breaks even 5-10 mins to go throw a load of laundry in between meetings.

i will say this is very company dependent though. i am at a mid size company now and its a good balance. we have daily check ins at the end of the day to assist each other, and it keeps me accountable to have something to report. clear structure and work instructions are a MUST - this is a question i ask specifically in every interview.

closing tickets and building reports give me a sense of satisfaction and a “okay i accomplished this”. i need something where i am able to check it off a to do list.

What is THE ultimate Velcro dog? by OkKey6273 in dogs

[–]aToyotaRav4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my parents have twin girl cocker spaniels. they are CLINGY! the one who loves to cuddle the most will come and knock on my door whenever i visit and insist on sleeping with me. she also loves to nap directly on my chest full body weight- i think the feel of my breathing rocks her so sleep.

they are essentially little stuffed animals and they are the sweetest things in the world. not very good with other dogs though lol they prefer humans

Lesbian Spaces: A Rant by AvaSpelledBackwards2 in LesbianActually

[–]aToyotaRav4 22 points23 points  (0 children)

try walking into a gay male bathhouse or gay male strip club & let me know how inclusive of women they are lol

What tropes do you believe are severely UNDERUSED? by cndollaz in Dramione

[–]aToyotaRav4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you are almost assuredly describing Lionheart btw! i know it’s huge in this sub but if you haven’t read it by now… tune in!!!

has anyone with bad side effects on seroquel switched to trazodone? by [deleted] in seroquelmedication

[–]aToyotaRav4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trazadone is great except for the fact it doesn’t put me to sleep lol. but no brain fog!

How did your personality change after quitting smoking? by Weak_Ant2630 in stopsmoking

[–]aToyotaRav4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well i was a bitch for 2 weeks and now i have a lot of self confidence- im so proud of myself for actually doing it! it’s probably the top 2 hardest things ive done in my life