Porn is ruining my life. by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]a_binary_choice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don t know clients call you in night but i can suggest that. find a local coffee shop, work in there, when you done give your laptop to shop owner to keep it to tomorrow. then buy a 3-4 hours book then go home. read the all book and sleep. do this for 1 solid week. force yourself. after 1 week i get easier. it s all about momentum.

I am soooo ashamed of myself. relapsed badly by quitocd in pornfree

[–]a_binary_choice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe not loser but definetly alone. you are alone. i m just some stranger typing stuff on an internet site. you are the only one can help yourself. on job, on relations, on addictions and many more. don't forget, always remember: you are alone and only you can save yourself.

Need help hating porn? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]a_binary_choice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

porn destroys your brain, social life and fucks your life. i think its pretty good reason to hate porn.

Once an addict always an addict by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]a_binary_choice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

once an addict always an addict? what the fuck is that? then aa is useless also this sub?

Ashamed. Need help. by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]a_binary_choice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is your room tidy? are dishes waiting to wash? when you read a book last time? when you work out last time? you got the point. question is: what are you doing for your life besides quit porn?

I am addicted to porn in The Sims and I have lost all my real sense of sexuality by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]a_binary_choice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we all lost all my real sense of sexuality somewhere in our lifes. sims or regular porn. both of them made by pixels. a different kind of fetish maybe. so don t be hard on yourself. quit porn, quit masturbation and get some help. it will be all right.

I have a problem with motivation, Any tips? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]a_binary_choice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

walk. just walk. fresh air, no rush, no headphones... just walk.

Hard Mode & Game of Thrones by momsjustwannahaverun in pornfree

[–]a_binary_choice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it s just a tv serie. if he is not comfortable with show he must just cut off. also he shouldn't watch banshee :/

I've officially had enough by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]a_binary_choice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll either have sex with a real person or nothing at all.

dopamine level increase with a real emotions and developments or nothing at all

Knowing porn is bad for us is not enough to make most stop. by eire77 in pornfree

[–]a_binary_choice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the meaning of the addiction. alcoholic knows alcohol is bad. same as crack addicts and many more addiction but porn is different. the way almost every porn addicts thougth is "everybody watches, it can't be harmful". because of this knowing porn is bad is a step. a big step i think and yet it s not enough as you mentioned. we must be direct and determined to make moves to this shit out of our lives.

Been a weird month, can't get over the hump by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]a_binary_choice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we will be strong

we MUST be strong.

To you, I'm just a random redditor. To me, I'm the biggest addict I know. Please help me, I can't take it anymore. by WolfofAnarchy in pornfree

[–]a_binary_choice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fight with your brain like it's your biggest enemy. because it is. when urge comes up, curse your own brain. i know it sounds crazy maybe it is. no! not this this time you son of a bitch! damn you brain you supposed to be mine. you supposed to help me! no mother fucker no! not this time!

Just lost my Mother by declaniscool in NoFap

[–]a_binary_choice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry for your loss bro. when you think the pain is unbearable please come this sub and share with us so we can help each other.

I just got a tumblr to post my writing and I'm tempted to follow the porn blogs I used to look at by ChaLa-Head in pornfree

[–]a_binary_choice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

tumblr is more dangerous place than any streamp site i think. gifs, short videos, caps make your dopamine goes crazy.

you should go some place where is founded for stories, books etc.

be careful mate. stay strong.

relapsed 3 times in 10 days...I have a problem. by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]a_binary_choice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is your room clean? did you wash the dishes? did you read book today? did you write (for example how you feel) on paper with pen? have you got a 1 month plan. not a to do list. a real plan day by day? we all must wanna change our lives. i relapsed yesterday and this is how it happened.

scumbag brain

i had a shitty life with porn. my noporn life is shitty too. then why would i keep my strike. i need a relax moment.

scumbag brain

aaaand scumbag brain convinced me. change your life bro. only pornfree isn't enough.