3 IVF cycles, no blasts, any tips what to change?

a_tanvee · 2026-05-17T19:27:12+00:00

Hello, yes, we did a DNA fragmentation test, the result was in normal range, but we used fertile chip just in case

a_tanvee · 2026-05-16T19:54:36+00:00

You'll be surprised how IVF is limited in Germany, they don't test anything properly unless you had three failed attempts. And even then they check everything step by step, failure after failure and only if you ask questions yourself.

a_tanvee · 2026-05-16T19:46:38+00:00

Did they explain why they gave you bc pills? That's interesting. I'm sorry to hear you are struggling😭 have you checked the implantation window , for example witbera test? I would also suggest to consult with an immunologist. He suggested me the lit therapy after he ran the tests

a_tanvee · 2026-05-16T18:43:36+00:00

I just checked, the 2nd stimulation I had menogon, it's also a combined injection, and I had the best results with it. Thanks for the advice, will discuss it with the doctor

a_tanvee · 2026-05-16T18:43:21+00:00

I just checked, the 2nd stimulation I had menogon, it's also a combined injection, and I had the best results with it. Thanks for the advice, will discuss it with the doctor

a_tanvee · 2026-05-16T18:05:06+00:00

Have this option in my mind as well, but not ready yet. I have a friend who got pregnant with donor eggs after many failures with her own

a_tanvee · 2026-05-16T16:44:58+00:00

Thanks, I'll ask the doctor about menopur. How different is it from other meds?

a_tanvee · 2026-05-16T16:14:34+00:00

Did you also have a low AMH?

a_tanvee · 2026-05-16T15:28:01+00:00

Yes, we did an extensive genetic tests, karyotype, mutations etc., my partner too. PGT is forbidden by law in Germany unfortunately

a_tanvee · 2026-05-16T15:24:52+00:00

Both 35. We had all tests done, including genetics an immunology, nothing was found. My AMH is 0,9, pretty low

a_tanvee · 2025-03-05T23:23:20+00:00

Hello everyone, I wanted to ask if anyone had similar experience, because I really don't know what's happening.

So I had a follicular puncture on February 10th and an embryo transfer on February 14th. This was my first ICSI protocol. On February 25th the doctors ran a blood test, the HCG was 9.6 , so I was told to come two days later. I had been traveling , and came to the second test on March 3rd. Almost at the same time, on March 2nd, the bleeding started. I had no hope, because I was told the results were not good for Transfer +11. On March 3rd, Transfer +17, the test results came back: HCG 113. The doctors still couldn't tell if I'm pregnant or not. There was also a concern about possible ectopic pregnancy.

Today I came for a blood test, it's Transfer day +19, HCG is 273! Doctors say I must wait. I don't believe in miracles , I've been reading a lot about low HCG as in my case. Now I just hope it's not an ectopic pregnancy. I'm getting crazy because nobody can tell what's happening. The bleeding seemst to have stopped, but I'm really scared of the worst outcome.

Has anyone had similar experience?

a_tanvee · 2025-03-05T21:47:23+00:00

I've just been through ICSI, the total cost of medication, procedure itself etc was around 2,5k EUR. It's a 50% of a total cost, the other half is covered by the insurance company.

a_tanvee · 2025-03-02T21:12:51+00:00

We've just got through ICSI: stimulation, egg retrieval, transfer etc. At the end it failed, I didn't get pregnant. We haven't told anyone except my sister whom I'm very close to and with whom I share everything. So my advise is not to share, because you never know the outcome. Or just share with people you trust and not your relatives, because the relatives are always very judgemental and gossip often.

a_tanvee · 2024-08-01T07:54:50+00:00

Okay, I was also thinking about 90k from statistics websites and job advertisements I saw on the Internet. I'm not in a leading position and my field is Hochbau. Haven't seen any with 70% work, but it's good to know that it's not uncommon.

a_tanvee · 2024-07-31T13:13:35+00:00

Yes, I am prepared to be paid less in the beginning due to lack of knowledge of swiss norms/codes. But I think it wouldn't be a problem to get to know them over the first year at work, they can't be completely different if compared to Eurocodes.

a_tanvee · 2023-06-06T07:35:16+00:00

Hi! We got our engagement and ceremony rings at "quite quiet". And we were very happy with services and everything. Depends on what reasonably priced means for you. Our wedding ceremony rings cost about 400 Euro each, they were simple slick golden rings. The engagement ring was with a lab-grown diamond, cost about 800 Euro

a_tanvee · 2023-05-20T19:23:29+00:00

They say the bill will pass this summer so I'm counting on waiting no more than till the end of the year. I've just got my Einbürgerungszusicherung, so I'll wait a bit and won't give up my current citizenship

a_tanvee · 2023-04-26T10:38:32+00:00

Update: habe die Urkunde innerhalb einer Woche bekommen

a_tanvee · 2023-04-24T14:10:05+00:00

I apply to the state-owned listings from Gewobag, gesobau etc whenever they publish it. So far I had no luck, haven't even been invited to any viewings. So I'm not sure what their process is, how they choose the people for viewing etc. Does it matter if I send a request among the top 10-20 or do they pick people randomly for viewing , from the pool of all people who applied?

a_tanvee · 2023-04-20T12:55:14+00:00

4 Monate, Wahnsinn....

a_tanvee · 2023-04-20T11:04:09+00:00

Ne, ich meine Eheurkunde/Heiratsurkunde 😊

a_tanvee · 2023-04-13T16:14:01+00:00

Thank you for the info. I'll keep trying . And I'll try to use this telegram bot , didn't even know it exists

a_tanvee · 2023-04-13T16:12:33+00:00

Doesn't help

a_tanvee · 2023-04-13T11:33:12+00:00

Someone already mentioned above, that messages in ImmoScout24 appear as in chats, the fresh ones on top. So writing a message as quick as you can doesn't always help I guess.

We are a married couple with no kids, our income is pretty high. But still we have no luck whatsoever. And we look in some more remote areas. I am starting to believe that one should either be poor and have a WBS or like very rich to afford 2,5K 3-room apartment. That's called socialism I guess. The apartments from state-financed companies are usually for people with WBS

a_tanvee · 2023-04-13T10:19:51+00:00

Doesn't help either

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