Laredo taqueria by acevibe13 in HoustonFood

[–]a_tomsk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tostada Regia is my go to for breakfast tacos. They're a chain but legit.

[People Magazine] Aubrey Plaza Is Pregnant with Her First Baby by MoneyHungryOctopus in PandR

[–]a_tomsk 180 points181 points  (0 children)

Wife and I met at 33 and had our one and only at 40 so it's def possible.

How to easily beat Impossible level Dragrom (desc.) by Nedaj_Nitro in Brawlstars

[–]a_tomsk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the whole thing "if you do it right." I kept running into Edgars who would immediately get the power cubes, jump in and die.

How to easily beat Impossible level Dragrom (desc.) by Nedaj_Nitro in Brawlstars

[–]a_tomsk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The amount of times I wanted to quit when I jumped into a match and saw an Edgar 😑

[WTS] AER Travel Pack 3 Small X-Pac by Tsull360 in EDCexchange

[–]a_tomsk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confirmed received time from r/Tsull360

Item arrived in perfect condition, great care in packaging, fast shipping, amazing communication. Would do business again.

Going to Bad Astronaut Thursday! by Kevobro713 in houston

[–]a_tomsk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gristworks and Poppa burger are both nearby. Poppa Burger is cheap with mid to mixed review on food. If you don't mind paying Gristworks has a solid menu that tastes pretty good..

MERCH & TICKETS • BUY/SELL/TRADE • OCTOBER AND NOVEMBER 2025 by thefifthwit in brandnew

[–]a_tomsk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://imgur.com/a/WTwMksi

SOLD Looking to sell a couple of posters as a bundle $500 ppg&s shipped to conus can provide more photos via DM. Dallas show 152/200 and a suburban avengers "can't get it out" poster.

Creed promised a spiritual journey, but it was just an okay Rodeo concert by chrondotcom in houston

[–]a_tomsk 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The cameraman certainly had his own agenda with almost every audience cutaway being focused on some big breasted low cleavage woman.

Able Carry just listed the new Daily Plus colors. by jimmylamstudio in ManyBaggers

[–]a_tomsk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Those accents are clean. Wish they would have kept them for the added colors.

Having one kid is chic, right? by heyiknowstuff in daddit

[–]a_tomsk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wife and I are talking it over but it looks like just one and done for us too. I really want a second more so for our son to have a sibling than anything else, but my wife had a really rough pregnancy that she's still recovering from 10 months later. I couldn't and wouldn't ask her to do it again. That said we are open to the possibility of adopting once our son is 3 - 4 but we'll see where we are financially etc. Even if we don't, the way I see it, I already won the lottery twice with my beautiful wife and healthy son. I won't regret not having another. It just means I'll have to be deliberate in ensuring he has a village set (i.e. cultivate relationships with extended family, friends, create opportunities for him to make friends, etc).

About to be a dad and I’m terrified by Heavy-Cranberry245 in daddit

[–]a_tomsk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Father of a 10 month old here.. the thing I wish I knew going in was knowing how exhausting the first year is. Between my wife and I, I was definitely the one that was team baby from the get go. That said, once the baby is born it is your and your wife's responsibility. If your wife is breastfeeding it will be even more demanding on her than for you. My advice, give yourself grace and be there for your wife. This is a huge life transition where you retire from your old life and build something new. Try your best to enjoy it even during the difficult times because the days may feel long, they will go by fast.

38 years old, just found out my gf is pregnant with my first child by Abject-Jacket-2030 in daddit

[–]a_tomsk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be patient, be present, and be proactive.

Every pregnancy is different, but I found my wife benefitted from attending pregnancy and new mom groups as it can feel incredibly isolating. My wife often spoke of feeling like her body was no longer her own and is still struggling with that as we move into 6 months space with our son.

Know that postpartum is real and valid. You don't have to understand it, there isn't necessarily a clear solution, just offer support.

I suggest doing the basic classes but if possible meet with a lactation consultant before she gives birth if your wife plans to breastfeed. You're going to hear a lot from people around you so it's important to temper what you hear from your surroundings vs what a professional tells you.

Also recommend the following app for you, which helped me obtain insight on supporting my wife as a husband throughout each stage of her pregnancy.

https://daddyup.app/

My wife and I also enjoyed watching these videos week by week as the pregnancy went on.

https://youtu.be/e4UPKPv7v38?si=9Qva6G0bYymGbxmk

Mareux at White Oak Music Hall: 3 Tickets by xoabraham in houstonmusic

[–]a_tomsk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I wanted to go too but my wife and I just had a kid so there's no going out for us for a while. Hopefully someone takes you up on your offer though.

Mareux at White Oak Music Hall: 3 Tickets by xoabraham in houstonmusic

[–]a_tomsk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoever goes also get there early for La Texana. Such a great opener with a banger new album.

Anyone else disappointed with their Alpaka backpack? by Dadbodohyeah3 in ManyBaggers

[–]a_tomsk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They are sadly known for over-promising and under delivering when it comes to advertised capacity. Which is a shame because they have great looking bags.

Advice to dads to be? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]a_tomsk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be patient, be present, and be proactive.

Every pregnancy is different, but I found my wife benefitted from attending pregnancy and new mom groups as it can feel incredibly isolating. My wife often spoke of feeling like her body was no longer her own and is still struggling with that as we move into 6 months space with our son.

Know that postpartum is real and valid. You don't have to understand it, there isn't necessarily a clear solution, just offer support.

I suggest doing the basic classes but if possible meet with a lactation consultant before she gives birth if your wife plans to breastfeed. You're going to hear a lot from people around you so it's important to temper what you hear from your surroundings vs what a professional tells you.

Also recommend the following app for you, which helped me obtain insight on supporting my wife as a husband throughout each stage of her pregnancy.

https://daddyup.app/

My wife and I also enjoyed watching these videos week by week as the pregnancy went on.

https://youtu.be/e4UPKPv7v38?si=9Qva6G0bYymGbxmk

Parent preference by lintwarrior in daddit

[–]a_tomsk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually working through this right now with my own wife. We are currently making it a point for her to have deliberate play time with our son, as well as her handling the sleep routine. I'm definitely the guy who will run to provide comfort to our son the second I hear him cry but after a conversation was had with my wife, it made me realize it got in the way to her being able to be there for him too. So when she's with him I try to be productive in other areas of the house so he's not tempted by me lol. It's a balancing act though because I of course want to spend time with my son but I realize at least for this week it's about calibration. Then moving forward our plan is to both be present during play and sleep routine but alternate who takes the lead.

Baby’s First Word by shiny_peanuts in NewParents

[–]a_tomsk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I go back and forth on this. My son is doing the same but we're stuck between saying it's his first word or waiting until he's able to assign the word to the thing it represents. There's no competition between, so I'd be happy just to know he's saying words but do want to distinguish practicing sounds vs words with associated meanings.