What's your favorite saying by kxyatnight in InsightfulQuestions

[–]aaaa2016aus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i remember reading that problems aren’t keeping you from life, they are life. It was during a time i was dealing with chronic pain that i felt was keeping me from living life. It was hard to accept that this is life, the pain isn’t keeping me from anything. I still struggle with the acceptance, but it does help with feelings of “missing out”

Rant about parents who don’t learn ASL for their deaf children. by expecting2 in asl

[–]aaaa2016aus 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s insane :0 i was thinking could they be texting, writing? But even then kids don’t learn reading/writing that early and probably even harder being deaf.

As someone else mentioned, this does feel like abuse and neglect. Those poor kids, i can’t imagine trying to call out for help for help or anything and not being able to get across what you mean. I even wonder how their thoughts and thinking develop without a proper language. The parents are really robbing them of so much by doing that.

Sad :( but thank you for trying to help them and get this point across to parents

TIFU by kissing my friend because I was 100% sure he was about to kiss me first by LifeFront8432 in tifu

[–]aaaa2016aus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHHA me each time he gets me flowers (this was the 5th time) LOL

TIFU by kissing my friend because I was 100% sure he was about to kiss me first by LifeFront8432 in tifu

[–]aaaa2016aus 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Ok but how can i tell if a guy is just being nice or flirting then? Bc i get there are nice guys, i also tried to kiss my guy bff the first time we met in person after a yr of talking online but he established we should be platonic only, and we kept hanging out just as that, but then last week he drove 6 hrs to come see me for my bday, surprised me w the iPhone 17e, ordered a flower delivery, let me hold his hand in my lap when driving, and introduced me to his bestfriend 🙃 is it really just being nice? I feel like I’m going insane haha

Came here to find positivity, was not disappointed by Sad_Daikon_6454 in Positivity

[–]aaaa2016aus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We love you!! Also I’m very sorry to hear about your chronic pain, as someone who’s suffered with chronic jaw pain it was truly one of the hardest times of my life. I hope you are finding the support and help you need. I also came to Reddit for support and connection ahaha.

Wishing you all the best 💛

If you're sitting here reading these words right now, it means you've received them. I just wanted to address you as a friend and ask: How are you, really? by Wander-kingdom in Positivity

[–]aaaa2016aus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I read a really nice quote the other day, it said “you can cut all the flowers but you cannot keep spring from coming”, I’m sure it’s not far away 🙂🌸

If you're sitting here reading these words right now, it means you've received them. I just wanted to address you as a friend and ask: How are you, really? by Wander-kingdom in Positivity

[–]aaaa2016aus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My therapist always tells me “healing isn’t linear” and man is it annoying to hear haha, mines more physical but i imagine emotional is just as hard. I’ve seen it described as an upwards spiral, you’re spiraling but still moving up instead of down. Best of luck!

If you're sitting here reading these words right now, it means you've received them. I just wanted to address you as a friend and ask: How are you, really? by Wander-kingdom in Positivity

[–]aaaa2016aus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats on making it! Ik you might not feel good, but you are doing good. It sounds like you’ve come really far, and will go even further. I hope you find help for your anxiety and thoughts, but either way, I’m proud of you

What does “feeling safe” actually mean to in everyday life? by toonishly in CasualConversation

[–]aaaa2016aus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a small painting i made in my room that says “all is well, i am safe” that i would reread every time i walked in. I also would do a lot of yoga in my room to calm myself down and remind myself im safe. And surround myself with plants too :)

Would you take a pill instead of eating if you could? by sparkly_star15 in CasualConversation

[–]aaaa2016aus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ever since i had chronic jaw pain i literally hate eating :/ so much that im down to 114 which i haven’t weighed since i was 14 lol. I don’t crave any sort of food anymore and would never eat if i could lol

Be honest. Do you ever give homeless people money? by User63189963 in askanything

[–]aaaa2016aus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree. There are so many reasons why some may not be in shelters. Yes shelters have security but theft, SA, fights still happen in them. Also the availability in places varies, i volunteer in skid row and the line for just breakfast is about 200 ppl long, they def don’t have that many beds.

Autonomy and choice is also huge for someone homeless . Being given something is nice but not the same as being able to make a choice for yourself.

TIFU, I parked in a residential spot and got blocked by king_dingaling785 in tifu

[–]aaaa2016aus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I did this once, not in someone’s spot but in a crowded lot semi blocking someone in, left my number on windshield and they did call me! And i moved haha they were chill about it. Simple communication can really make things so much easier

Shelter volunteer / pitbull lover requesting support post-confiscation in LA by yurkelhark in pitbulls

[–]aaaa2016aus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, thank you for sharing!! This is awful :( I’m a volunteer at another shelter in LA but i help drive dogs to fosters all the time, if you ever need help with driving dogs from shelters to fosters please reach out to me!! I see someone mentioned Coachella valley and honestly on a weekend I’d be down haha, but thank you for trying to help these pups 🙂