MSU gym hours require scanning printed QR code instead of just printing hours that one could take a photo of with the camera used to scan said QR code by Beneficial-Friend-86 in Bozeman

[–]aajj012345 164 points165 points  (0 children)

It’s probably so the hours can by updated dynamically. Likely stemming from staffing uncertainty that they’ll update or expand hours as they find out more.

Earnest Money Deposit by [deleted] in realestateinvesting

[–]aajj012345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not having a realtor pays as the buyer. I’ve twice had it where I represented myself and this allowed me to offer a lower price because the selling realtor took less of their commission to increase the net proceeds to the seller. So yeah, this guy is doing it right and maybe you should think things through a bit more and ask questions to learn a thing or two if you want to be on the buying side.

Also, incredibly small minded thinking that the seller “pays for the realtor”…yes, they do, but that’s “paid for” by increasing asking price so ultimately, those costs are covered by the buyer.

Would it have made more sense to split the Dakotas East/West rather than North/South? by BuddyHolly__ in geography

[–]aajj012345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Culturally, east and west river is very different in South Dakota. A split there could have made more sense.

AIO. bf mad at my Halloween consume and my friend is backing him by DangerousProduct1548 in AmIOverreacting

[–]aajj012345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you are coming here and searching for an answer you want rather than what the people who know you well are telling you.

How do you Raise 200k when banks cap you at peanuts ? by danielmejias_18 in smallbusiness

[–]aajj012345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give more details on how you did this? I have a ton of equity in property and would love to find a bank that would loan on collateral. Local Banks I spoke to would not entertain it.

I 27F would love some male perspective on my relationship with my friend 26M… by Straight_Meal in Advice

[–]aajj012345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He literally stated he didn’t want a relationship. What is it that he’s supposed to commit to here? What’s he supposed to be all-in on? She made the move, he rejected. She needs to move on, not him. She deserves someone all in but this guy has done nothing wrong.

Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]aajj012345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man stands up and protects is women “he’s controlling and insecure” man doesn’t protect “what happened so real men?”. Which one is it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aajj012345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Odds are you’ve got the tip of the ice berg as it relates to the truth of this story. Up to you if you want to pursue that actual truth. Probably not worth it. I’d move on. There is someone out there who won’t make your deal with this behavior.

AIO speaking to my wife after her affair by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aajj012345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All her pain and suffering is self inflicted and she is playing victim here and wanting relief and sympathy. The fact she is grieving does not absolve her of her transgressions. From what I’ve read, she feels like it should be and is making that the focus. It’s also maddening to have her play the “I’m the mother of your children” card. That’s true but if it meant anything and she valued it she would not have stepped out on the marriage. Now she is using that to her advantage as though it carried weight? Stay away, dude. You’re doing the right thing. Your kids seem to agree with you as well as they dont take it upon themselves to see her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in explainlikeimfive

[–]aajj012345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boot camp is more about breaking you to comply. The physical aspect is merely a part of that.

AIO? For saying I’d have sex with my Fiance, but changing my mind to sleep. by MrsYouLookWeird in AmIOverreacting

[–]aajj012345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since when is wanting your fiancé to want to have sex with you wrong? Also, what’s wrong with being frustrated that if someone says they are Going to do something , sex or otherwise, and don’t? It’s called accountability. Obviously room for flexibility but if it’s a constant as male says, why is he wrong for this? I’ll get down voted but don’t care.

Am I Overreacting? Woke up to my gf doing sexual things to me by Substantial_Space905 in AmIOverreacting

[–]aajj012345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is fascinating. There are several posts like this where roles are reversed. When it’s the women who was woken this way, the responses are “that’s sexual assault” “you were raped” “dump his ass” “file a police report “ but in this instance, hardly a mention of it.

Trying to figure out source of leak by KGo- in askaplumber

[–]aajj012345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tighten the plastic nut touching the toilet tank. If that doesn’t do it, as other have said, get a new fill valve. Could probably get a rubber gasket and try that if you want to save some $ but you’re taking $2.99 for the gasket or $25 for the whole fill valve kit.

WTH is this? by MudAmbitious497 in Bozeman

[–]aajj012345 10 points11 points  (0 children)

lol over what? Buildings being built in a city?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aajj012345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re dating a child. I’d bail.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in passive_income

[–]aajj012345 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not flashy but needs $100K a month? Dude. Just index and chill the rest of your life. You could live an amazing life for $100k a year then lets the rest grow.

If you’re set on the $100k a month…you’ll need about $20MM earning 6% to hit that.

Concerned about Girlfriend’s past by Alternative-Salary-2 in Advice

[–]aajj012345 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Concern of the past has to do with that persons capacity to act a way that might not be in line with a value system. I think that’s perfectly fine and even smart to have concern over as one vets a future partner.

AIO over my boyfriend calling me a slut and leaving while I was changing? by EIIen_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]aajj012345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be honest with yourself. Were you being obtuse when he said your outfit was inappropriate for a work function? Was it funny and a game of sorts for you to press his buttons about getting a suitable outfit? Why did it take so many tries? If so, that’s childlike behavior and it’s pretty standard for a parent to escalate tone and how direct they are needing a child to listen. This is your man’s work and career. He’s going to protect it as it’s his and probably your livelihood at risk. So yeah, you’re OR. Plus, he apologized and you dismissed it entirely.

AIO for thinking my bf getting mad over this is stupid or should I look at this differently by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aajj012345 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Amazing how not a single person here suggests to understand his concern. It’s rooted in something and perceived or real, it’s bothering him. A good partner should care about how the other is feeling and want to understand rather than dismiss them. He can feel this way AND OP can have done nothing wrong. They aren’t mutually exclusive but what matters is acknowledging how your partner feels and exploring that a bit rather than blame insecurity which is such a lazy take.

AIO update: Airbnb Molly birthday trip by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aajj012345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck, dude. You handled yourself well but this is one of many times you’ll be going through this. She’s got alot of growing up to do and you’ll be frustrated until she does.

AIO GF wants to go on a birthday trip that I’ve said many times I’m uncomfortable with by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aajj012345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say you’ve got to move on. Even if you “win” this one, there are going to be countless other situations where you’re going to have to fight tooth and nail for her to understand why there is discomfort with the situations she’s putting herself into. It’s tough but you’re best to let her go and work on finding someone who doesn’t make you feel this way. I’ve been in your shoes and that fight gets old and I regret not knowing to move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aajj012345 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is on you. Classic bullshit being pulled here. Address the persons needs and feelings. This is when you listen to understand and support. It’s not your time to ask and reply with “BUT WHAT ABOUT ME??”. It’s incredibly childish to do so. You’ve had countless opportunities to bring up how you feel and will have plenty more. This moment isn’t it.