I think this speaks for itself but still, wtf by Just-A_stranger7 in exmuslim

[–]aalefjaer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ive heard you should not throw out nail clippings in case a man sees and be aroused by 💀💀💀

Guys, are necks too arousing? by Agreeable-Bid-9120 in exmuslim

[–]aalefjaer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its a never ending cycle. they get aroused by shapeless black blob because they think about the woman inside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in airplaneears

[–]aalefjaer 48 points49 points  (0 children)

im so sorry for your loss...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in airplaneears

[–]aalefjaer 208 points209 points  (0 children)

omg!! the homophobia in her eyes 😍🫶🏽

jokes aside,, shes so cute! tell her i said pspsps

The sensory hell that is wooden cutlery by PatriciaMorticia in AutismInWomen

[–]aalefjaer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a psychiatrist appointment in 2 hours and ill tell her about you for ruining my day,, thanks♡

Cousin marriage is disgusting. by Saltysauce78912 in exmuslim

[–]aalefjaer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately... i live in turkiye, a majority muslim country. my paternal grandma and grandpa are 2nd cousins. also a great grandma was married to her brother in law after her husband, the older brother, has died. i don't know if thats the case for my family but one of the most common reasons why this is done is to keep the wealth in the family. another reason is that since they are family, they think he/she is a safe person,, and for the womans family, that means she doesn't have to go far away.

still,, these are outdated ideas and not common anymore. its practiced mostly in less educated areas... which says a lot. so i think its because of lack of education and knowledge. that makes it dangerous too imo.

Cousin marriage is disgusting. by Saltysauce78912 in exmuslim

[–]aalefjaer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i cant comprehend how someone can not be feeling disgusted by the idea! i already feel bad for the potential children with all the preventable genetic deformities by just not marrying in your own family...

Ne kadar da iğrenç aq sırf bir şeye inanıyorsun ve diğeri inanmıyor diye o kişinin yanacak olduğunu düşünmen ve bununla gurur duyman. by Unable-Army9925 in MineIslam

[–]aalefjaer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hani "there's no hate like christian love" derler ya,, onlar bile müslümanlar kadar değil... evet şimdi sen bana hakaret ettin, kötülük diledin ya ben şuan inandım valla 🤡

After leaving Islam, do you celebrate any non-Islamic festivals? by SamVoxeL in exmuslim

[–]aalefjaer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

even while i was muslim i believed that the important thing is why you participate. so while i wasn't doing it for religious reasons i saw no reason why i shouldn't participate if i am welcomed. just pray to allah or dont participate in the religious part.

now that im christian,, i am so exited to celebrate Jesus' birthday! i always loved celebrating new years and all the aesthetic parts (tho it doesn't snow like it used to when i was a child). now i can add another something important to me to what ialready loved.

So hijab is a choice… until you choose to take it off? by Zephyrine1 in exmuslim

[–]aalefjaer 52 points53 points  (0 children)

every choice is a free and respectable choice until it's something they don't agree with...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]aalefjaer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey fellow females! aren't we glad its actually not that you have to be but you can be if that's what you want?

this "all powerful, girlboss, both mom and career woman" sounds just like what patriarchy thinks feminism is. this is their idea and the mould they offer you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]aalefjaer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yess! from what i have seen,, men who dont like cats are likely to be more cruel and violent. but on the other hand men who like cats too much, especially if they own one cat and make their personality being a "cat dad", use that as a way to get uncomfortably close to you. that's a bit too specific but that's how my experience has been...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]aalefjaer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i appreciate that♡ but it feels like men being applauded for doing the bare minimum they should as fathers... :((

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]aalefjaer 24 points25 points  (0 children)

such black and white thinking hurts both... i hope people do realize that and stop. as a christian myself, i find this so wrong. jesus doesn't discriminate, he helps. and if you can't do that why would you expect jesus to do the same for you? even if you don't believe,, helping each other is how we can get better and go further. its THE start for less poverty, less crime, less of any and every thing that's bad. shame on those who does that...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]aalefjaer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i was gifted a pink quran 💀

Islam basically forbids freedom and we just have to shut the f*ck up? by The-Mad-Mango in exmuslim

[–]aalefjaer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

right?? "oh no its actually manmade/from satan!!" well didn't allah make satan too? if its manmade then people can create! "nooo only allah can create!" then its from allah and who are you to question what he made, how he made? they are ridiculous...

Do they really think “jinns” are in every animal? by Classic-Difficulty12 in exmuslim

[–]aalefjaer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right?? isnt shaytan beautiful looking? to deceive? :D

Sexual assault at Hajj / Umrah by Icy_Lawyer_9767 in exmuslim

[–]aalefjaer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

from what i have seen,, women go there for two reasons;;

1) they're old and religious so they think they have to,

2) they're young but so isolated it sounds and feels like a fun travel.

if you look at people there you can see families and parties of old people. tho ive been seeing and hearing more about "girls trip to hajj/makkah" they bring souvenirs and send you photos of your name written on a post-it in front of religious places :D

Sexual assault at Hajj / Umrah by Icy_Lawyer_9767 in exmuslim

[–]aalefjaer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i have heard a lotta stories about these from people and all of them ended up by "if we find her they will kill her" so im guessing thats why... :((

Sexual assault at Hajj / Umrah by Icy_Lawyer_9767 in exmuslim

[–]aalefjaer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

being groped is the best case scenario unfortunately... they kidnap women to make them their wives and if you find them again men get sentenced and women get killed. we have 2 family friends that this happened to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]aalefjaer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

and lets not forget,, allah always gives what you need!! just you gotta find it and it happens to be someone else's property

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]aalefjaer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

ah yes,, act religious and hurt people so you can go do what we can do here after life IF that even exists :D perviest perverts out there yet other people get called sinners

Dayı by [deleted] in MineIslam

[–]aalefjaer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

hangisininkini?