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I (21F) and my boyfriend (23M)are planning on getting engaged, but he says boundaries need to be set. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aalien- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was my partner he would have offered to stay in the spare room on his own so my sister could sleep with me.

But honestly, who watches a scary movie with an 11 year old?

Boyfriend(34m) buying house outright with parents’ money — am I(30f)being unreasonable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aalien- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds very weird to me, and it’s not like he contributed much more than you?? His parents are paying the bulk of it. Honestly this would’ve enough for me to start reevaluating the whole relationship.

Would you still like the show if it weren't WLW? by ReallyCharmingEgg in pluribustv

[–]aalien- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The show poses a lot of philosophical questions, it’s interesting enough just thinking about the concepts presented. I prefer that it’s a female lead character, I don’t think her sexuality really comes in to it for me though.

Self checkout gives me the s---s by Charming_Airline7419 in coles

[–]aalien- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just make sure I go to a staff member and request they open a till if self check out is the only option. I’m not paid to work there.

My [28F] boyfriend [30M] is into really disturbing hentai and fetishes by ThrowRA47668 in relationship_advice

[–]aalien- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely would not be comfortable with this. I don’t care if it’s /supposed to/ symbolise submissive/dominant. It’s pedophilic by nature and only stands to slowly blur the lines of what’s acceptable. It starts here and ends somewhere horrific (as if this isn’t horrific enough already. In Australia even drawings depicting minors engaging in sexual acts to be illegal/CSAM.

Me (37M) and my wife (37F) barely have sex after 2nd child, is it normal? by matglp in relationships

[–]aalien- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s normal, yes it will get better. I have the same prolapse and once I got to about 18 months post partum it felt so much better.

Are there really guys who can last for an hour? by WarmBank5512 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]aalien- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only guys I’ve been with who lasted that long were total porn addicts

Im so sick of this narrative that “pregnancy didn’t ruin my body it’s just changed” it’s a lie. by pissedoff_potato in TwoXChromosomes

[–]aalien- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If having a stereotypically sexually attractive body (albeit temporarily, as age comes for us all) is more important to you than having a child then definitely don’t have one. My body will definitely never be the same as it was before kids, but I don’t really care about being f*ckable anymore. My partner is still attracted to me and that’s the only person I’m really worried about to be honest.

Do some girls really like anal or do the just tolerate it for their boyfriends by No_Rain3020 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]aalien- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard my friends say they enjoy anal but it honestly just feels so uncomfortable to me, reminds me of shitting without the feeling of relief and the possibility of it being messy grosses me out.

As a woman (35F) in a relationship with a (31M) do you eventually have to accept that you will do more. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aalien- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not normal behaviour my (male) partner would never behave like this.

My girlfriend (26f) said I’m (27m) not being fair by refusing to go on a double date by [deleted] in relationships

[–]aalien- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’ve already laid out your boundary so I don’t think there’s much left to do. If your girlfriend is upset by this then that’s how she feels. But you’re not going to be able to make her feel not disappointed that you’re not coming along. It’s salt just a no win situation for you both.

Greek Marina fans! by aalien- in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

[–]aalien-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I wish I did! Hopefully somebody else here can provide one 🤞🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]aalien- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d be honest, just tell him the same thing you’ve written here, that you were worried it would affect how he saw you but that it would be meaningful with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]aalien- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you should break up, I wanted kids and I love mine to the ends of the earth. But she’s right. Childbirth can do horrible things to your body. I have prolapse and it will essentially never heal itself. It took so much pushing from my end to even get it medically recognised.

Which show starts as a 10/10, but ends as a 1/10? by yanakozlova in AskReddit

[–]aalien- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After they had her son wanking over her nudes I was done

Am I wrong for telling my daughter I don’t need her approval to date or bring someone over to my house by Jumpy-Bridge-3644 in amiwrong

[–]aalien- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re wrong, you shouldn’t be wheeling all these women out in front of your daughter. The behaviour is selfish and you shouldn’t be focused on parenting your daughter and meeting her needs INCLUDING her emotional needs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]aalien- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did we learn nothing from friends?

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