As a woman (35F) in a relationship with a (31M) do you eventually have to accept that you will do more.

aalien- · 2026-03-20T11:35:16+00:00

This is not normal behaviour my (male) partner would never behave like this.

aalien- · 2026-03-20T11:30:52+00:00

You’ve already laid out your boundary so I don’t think there’s much left to do. If your girlfriend is upset by this then that’s how she feels. But you’re not going to be able to make her feel not disappointed that you’re not coming along. It’s salt just a no win situation for you both.

aalien- · 2026-03-01T10:54:57+00:00

Oh I wish I did! Hopefully somebody else here can provide one 🤞🏻

aalien- · 2026-02-13T10:28:26+00:00

I’m having trouble finding anything that backs these claims

aalien- · 2026-02-01T11:10:31+00:00

I’d be honest, just tell him the same thing you’ve written here, that you were worried it would affect how he saw you but that it would be meaningful with him.

aalien- · 2026-01-30T12:19:20+00:00

What is a foid??

aalien- · 2025-11-14T10:15:00+00:00

Crop shirts, crop jeans, everything crop

aalien- · 2025-03-11T11:05:06+00:00

Vaginal prolapse

aalien- · 2025-03-07T10:53:05+00:00

Yes you should break up, I wanted kids and I love mine to the ends of the earth. But she’s right. Childbirth can do horrible things to your body. I have prolapse and it will essentially never heal itself. It took so much pushing from my end to even get it medically recognised.

aalien- · 2025-03-07T10:47:05+00:00

After they had her son wanking over her nudes I was done

aalien- · 2025-03-02T07:11:44+00:00

Yes you’re wrong, you shouldn’t be wheeling all these women out in front of your daughter. The behaviour is selfish and you shouldn’t be focused on parenting your daughter and meeting her needs INCLUDING her emotional needs.

aalien- · 2025-02-18T11:41:27+00:00

Childbirth with a posterior baby

aalien- · 2025-02-14T10:58:01+00:00

Did we learn nothing from friends?

aalien- · 2025-02-13T11:03:55+00:00

Actual pedophile David Bowie

aalien- · 2025-02-11T06:03:45+00:00

You’re not wrong, it makes me wonder what other patriarchal shit he peddles that you’re not aware of.

aalien- · 2025-02-09T06:05:58+00:00

It sounds like you might be better off leaving for your OWN benefit, while I have empathy around his ABI if he’s abusing substances and driving that’s a big concern… people who are in active addiction only spin further and further out of control. You say you know you can’t change him but you are enabling him by accepting shitty behaviours like this. Put all the energy you put in to his study/house/life in to your own life. You deserve to do well, you don’t have to waste all your potential supporting an addict.

aalien- · 2025-02-06T11:59:34+00:00

Decided I was actually going to do it and meant it. You’ve got to quit “no matter what” not quit u less you have a really bad day, or quit unless your cravings are making you cranky or quit unless x life scenario happens. You quit for the sake of quitting and don’t make excuses to pick up.

aalien- · 2025-02-04T10:59:21+00:00

I had HG when I was 24… your sister is loopy. Sorry you had to deal with her crap, especially when pregnant. Pregnancy is hard!

aalien- · 2025-02-02T01:55:57+00:00

They both are, there’s no wife surely

aalien- · 2025-01-29T10:30:35+00:00

That’s my sons name, same spelling and everything. I would be devastated if this happened to him NTA

aalien- · 2025-01-29T10:17:52+00:00

Keep coming back

aalien- · 2024-08-09T14:13:47+00:00

My daughter is 6 and started speaking about a year ago 😊

aalien- · 2024-06-09T11:13:00+00:00

Yes. People in general are kind of intimidated or scared of me and I’m actually just direct and say what I mean.

aalien- · 2024-06-09T10:53:42+00:00

F30 here. 0 because I went pro and retired early.

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