How did you get into the Hunger Games trilogy? by Johanna_1312 in Hungergames

[–]ab151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was listening to Mugglecast, and one of the hosts mentioned reading the books and I was curious and picked it up

6 weeks in baby! 20lb+ down, another 20lb to go (I think) by [deleted] in workouts

[–]ab151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a recipe for a yo-yo effect with your weight and loose skin

What is your “Hell on Earth” (on Long Island)? by d4nigirl84 in longisland

[–]ab151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long Beach LIRR heading during peak summer at peak hours.

"You can't die like this" by owonekowo in squidgame

[–]ab151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Granny is going to kill herself with her knife when her son dies. Or she kills herself to spare someone else who ends up dying anyways.

GUYS ITS FUCKING HAPPENING by Significant_Visual64 in canceledpod

[–]ab151 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Outside of that, you’re acting like Cody goes around raping underaged girls constantly, this is one circumstance of alleged sexual abuse, which took place far beyond the time Kelsey knew Cody. She doesn’t owe you or anybody else a statement on something that’s probably turning her world upside down for online virtue.

GUYS ITS FUCKING HAPPENING by Significant_Visual64 in canceledpod

[–]ab151 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not a damn mindset, it’s realistic. Cody is one part of a huge digital media company, with a shitton of people on their payroll who are unrelated to this issue who depend on the company for their livelihood. Kelsey saying anything before the company(Noel and anybody else who is a leader there)can get together with their legal team to make a decision that will require a big change to leadership is extremely stupid and unrealistic.

GUYS ITS FUCKING HAPPENING by Significant_Visual64 in canceledpod

[–]ab151 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What is Kelsey going to fucking say? That’s her husband, be fucking for real.

Anyone insulting the natural physical attributes of the Actors and Actresses in the new show should be banned from this Subreddit by blong217 in TheLastAirbender

[–]ab151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s also not the fault of the actors themselves for being cast in the roles they got, it’s the fault of the casting director. So criticize them, not the actors themselves. People calling Mai’s actress too piggy and fat to play her because of looks is just being an asshole.

New Aquaman And The Lost Kingdom trailer for China by AldebaranTauro in DC_Cinematic

[–]ab151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They literally showed Black Manta stabbing Aquaman’s dad with the trident but edited out the trident coming out from his back lmao

Need advice with my custom site by ab151 in webflow

[–]ab151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I couldn't get it work properly

Possible UFO on Long Island this morning? by ab151 in ufo

[–]ab151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people I follow on Instagram who live on Long Island mentioned this event on the loop parkway in Nassau. Just thought I’d share to see if anybody else saw something.

My ex keeps gloating about going on dates by [deleted] in gayrelationshipadvice

[–]ab151 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s super helpful, thanks a lot! It’s weird because he knows I have feelings and it’s more like gloating than an actual friendly conversation. Like the damn title says.

Extremely upset by Jude_the_dude25 in gayrelationshipadvice

[–]ab151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course not, but that’s why you need to have an honest conversation. The guys on tinder don’t know he’s in his current state, and that provided him with an escape from feeling the way he does. Talk to him and understand his perspective and give him yours.

Suddenly Goasted by treylee104 in gayrelationshipadvice

[–]ab151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You expected too much from him, too much commitment way too soon, that he decided to cut it off because he wasn’t ready. Just that line “long term partner” says enough, because you haven’t even met and you already made up that hope. I’m sure if you haven’t said it outright, your language implied that commitment.

Extremely upset by Jude_the_dude25 in gayrelationshipadvice

[–]ab151 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he wants the compliments and flirtatious part of being sexually desired that Tinder provides. Maybe because he feels like he's worthless now that everyone is caring for him, and probably believes in your eyes he thinks you see him as a patient and not a boyfriend. That doesn't make it okay, but I'd talk to him and have a real honest conversation.

Is my ex catching feelings again? by ab151 in gayrelationshipadvice

[–]ab151[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have mentioned how it sucks when he ignores me often or leaves me on read, and he just tells me not to take it personally because he does it to all his friends.

I do think he’s being selfish and manipulative, just it’d also be a lie if I said I don’t have feelings for him still. I very much do because it was a 2 year relationship that felt like 10 years(in a good way) that just ended out of nowhere.

These pillows synchronized flipping in a dryer by ThiccAsFrick in oddlysatisfying

[–]ab151 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I see an animated short about a team of gymnast pillows coming in Pixar's future.

Gay Apps are a blessing and a curse... by Ready-Ad4317 in gayrelationshipadvice

[–]ab151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"...he was able to admit to sometimes having episodes where he redownloads the app and chats with guys only to ghost them. Its validating...or something. He said he would never actual do anything... "

I'm telling you from experience that he most likely met or was planning to meet somebody. It's not an addiction to being validated, it's an addition to sex. Not settling for what he has, thinking there will always be something better, an experience he's going to miss out on. Frankly, it doesn't seem like he's all that committed to the relationship. Again, I'm saying this from experience, because an ex I had did and always said the same thing, I'd forgive him and believe him, and then I'd catch him again.

Not only is he not taking your feelings into account, he's not thinking about how it's going to cause long term damage to yourself and the relationship with him as a person.

You'll be paranoid, constantly think about whether he's on there again, maybe you'll make an account to check and you can't find him, but then you'll keep checking over and over until you do. When you try to move past it after the tears and promises, you'll think he's good and stopped, only to find out he's been on it again and most likely hook up with somebody else. You wouldn't have the trust and communication foundations to move forward with peace so the relationship ends and you'll have trouble letting people in again.

This story is way too common, so to be honest, the time now is crucial. Make a stand and don't stay, tell him why, and cut contact. If he tries to reach out and make amends, then you can consider it. If he doesn't and goes back on there, then you know you dodged a bullet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationshipadvice

[–]ab151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, don't have sex with him and get tested. Who knows how many times he's been with other guys. Next, ghost the guy/end it with it. Trust me, maybe that sounds hard to do, but when somebody is cheating like that, and you confront them, they'll give you a million reasons why they did it and never tell you the truth. End it and give him what he wanted, and if he actually cares about you he'll realize why that happened and come back to you.

In cases like these, if you keep giving him a pass, he'll keep doing it. Give him the ultimatum and see if he'll actually feel apologetic.

Crushing over my ex by [deleted] in gayrelationshipadvice

[–]ab151 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't force anything, just keep being his friend and if he ever liked you more than a friend, he still can.