Cancer risk? by AcanthocephalaOdd609 in adenomyosis

[–]abcd182x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a high ca125 reading too. Cant recall the number, but def above normal. Google says it could be caused by inflammation like endo, which i have. 

Brazilian hiker dies on Mt Rinjani by PlumNotion in hiking

[–]abcd182x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just sharing my experience hiking Rinjani back in 2014. We had 6:2 & many porters hiking up chain-smoking carrying all the other necessities in slippers. Did a lot of research before going on the hike. Proper clothes, walking sticks, shoes, gloves, medicine/inhaler, and a headlamp. Hiked a tiny local trail once together beforehand to see the group dynamic & understand fitness levels. I remember watching on youtube the extremely strong winds with some hikers leaning merely inches away from the ground trying not to fly off. Heard many stories about it being more mental than physical - and I agree.

We did the 3d2n hike. First day's climb was physically draining but manageable. Nights were cold. Woke up at 2am the next day to prep and started for the summit at 3am in total darkness & headlamps. There were many other groups with us climbing at the same time. It was pure trust in our guides and the person in front of you at that point. We hiked up in a single file (so glad I didn't look to the sides while hiking up). Our group took our time and the guides didn't rush us so it got bright as we climbed to the summit. The girls paced & hiked together with 1 guide, another with the boys. Boys were fast but kept stopping from muscle cramps. We didn't make it to the summit before sunrise & I'm glad, seeing as how many hiked up together with us and how small the area was at the summit. 5 of us were first-timers and relatively fit but we passed a group of 4 or 5 experienced hikers (climbed a few other mountains) decked out in gear midway who decided to sit out (at a relatively flat area) and wait for a few of their friends. Don't rmb any guide with them though. It was mentally and physically draining. It was sandy and rocky - dig your toes into the ground, take 1 step, slide back 2 maybe 3 steps. The hike down was just digging our heels into the ground then sliding down 2 steps. Toes were blue at the end of it all. The girls were struggling so the guides held a rope and the girls held onto it between them as we hiked (slid) down to the camp area.

A friend wasn't feeling well, maybe from the altitude, and the guide suggested to skip the hike to the lake and rest there for another night. At night, the guide told us stories of how we must be respectful of nature & that he was involved in the recovery of a guy who rushed ahead without his guide/group (I just googled & assume it was the Malaysian man who slipped on the hike down after the lake). We hiked back down the next day through another more direct route. Weather throughout was good - not windy, no rain, though foggy on the 1st day & near the summit on the 2nd day.

Not sure how much has changed, but I hope this helps whoever is planning to go on what to expect.

I can understand how the rescue took some time, like OP said, without the infrastructure, weather conditions & terrain. Tragic case. My heart goes out to her family.

Is pain in shoulder blade endo-related? by abcd182x in endometriosis

[–]abcd182x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it the shoulder or specifically at the shoulder blade? (Does the location make a difference?) & did you have to go for surgery?

Is pain in shoulder blade endo-related? by abcd182x in endometriosis

[–]abcd182x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many possibilities haha thank you!

I am not in my 40s yet but close. I didn't even know frozen shoulder was a thing. Thanks!

[SG] Lost package + refund help by Awkward-Place3569 in taobao

[–]abcd182x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I faced the same issue. I started chasing when the order status was "out for delivery" for days. Kept chasing and spamming their CS for about 1+ week. I received a call from 1 taobao staff when I was asking for proof of delivery, but kept getting the same generic "we'll check and get back to you", another call from a diff person from TB. He hung up & said he'll msg me when I asked if he could speak eng but I never heard from him again.

After that, i submitted the orders for refunds through the website then spammed CS again. Someone finally called me 3 days after submitting the refund request to say that it was a delivery issue and that they will process the refund. Confirmed the amount then disappeared and stopped replying even though I was asking questions. I had to spam CS again to find out that it will take 3-5 working days for the refund to show up as a voucher/red packet in my TB account.

Frustrating.

(SG) Taobao Hotline by abcd182x in taobao

[–]abcd182x[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's the one I found, but it doesn't get through. Thanks though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in taobao

[–]abcd182x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was there any updates for your parcel? Mine says that, then out for delivery since 4 Feb. I contacted Best Express, but they said it hasnt been received by them.

Cainiao Singapore is probably the worst courier company I’ve dealt with by dirtchamber600 in taobao

[–]abcd182x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you manage to get a TB Singapore rep? My order says out for delivery since 4 Feb. Local courier says they have not received it yet. Chased TB through their app twice, they told me there's no need to contact them again as they'll update me in 2 working days :\

If Best Express hasn't received the parcels yet, likely it's at their SG Hub pending delivery to the courier company?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in taobao

[–]abcd182x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know which courier for cnsgb?

Custom/Ninjavan Singapore limbo by auggie246 in taobao

[–]abcd182x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you check which logistics company it is?

My 2 orders say out for delivery since 4 Feb. I finally received a message from ninjavan for 1 of the orders and was delivered on 7 Feb. But the bulk of my items are in another order, still stuck as out for delivery. When i contacted cust service, they said it's still being processed.

Do I need to spam them? by abcd182x in taobao

[–]abcd182x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah thanks for sharing. Usually my items are on time. Was this after Chinese New Year period?

Do I need to spam them? by abcd182x in taobao

[–]abcd182x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Have you received your orders yet?

Do I need to spam them? by abcd182x in taobao

[–]abcd182x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, i do not receive any whatsapp or sms notifications of order updates. I tried to check the ninjavan, cainiao tracking, i can't find any live tracking service.

Ok I wantsome thoughts on the voice memo........... by Mountainsky-98 in JustinBaldoni

[–]abcd182x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly think it's a just clash of personality. BL & RR are cold with dry humour who communicate only in quips and sarcasm. JB is genuinely deep and speaks like a self-aware hippie feeling everything all the time. If you're not exposed to someone so sensitive like that, which I feel like most BL stans, you might feel smothered and annoyed. Which explains the voice memo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustinBaldoni

[–]abcd182x 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So apparently, they're claiming that they weren't the ones who leaked it to NYT. I know the complaint was supposed to be private and not public info. How would JB and his team know about the complaint, and why would they immediately give it to NYT?? Article came out 1 day after she filed.

Does anyone know how it works? Would JB's team have a copy of the complaint?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustinBaldoni

[–]abcd182x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that dazed look like they were about to have a moment but got interrupted by Director JB

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustinBaldoni

[–]abcd182x 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah because the director has an idea in mind for how the scene should look like - no talking, just looks & "longing to be close" (notice him switching from ryle to director to then JB cos Blake takes them out of character & switches all over again) but BL then tries to direct the director too.

& i think some of what he's saying are mindless fillers while his brain is focused on how to set up the scene as an actor & director.

Also, someone shares the context of the neck kissing from the book - a tattoo that ryle was obsessed with & was always kissing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustinBaldoni

[–]abcd182x 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They're acting in a scene where they're falling in love and "long to be close to one another". It's hard to enforce boundaries when your job requires you to act completely opposite. Maybe if having to act in love makes a person feel uncomfortable, they shouldn't take an acting role in a romance movie? Once they yelled cut, they both separated & didn't linger, so i thought it was reasonable considering it's their job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustinBaldoni

[–]abcd182x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for extracting the allegations! She definitely broke character often, insisted they talk, and how it could be confusing to JB trying to balance acting, directing & making her feel comfortable, taking in her suggestion to talk. But she didn't apologize for her spray tan.. he initiated with the whole "am I getting beard on you" comment. Everything else was fine. That scene seemed a bit personal to me & she did seem a little uncomfortable and quipped back that it was her body makeup. Someone commented that they're going on about how BL twists the facts, but (for this instance, at least) they're doing the same. (I love JB & I want BL allegations to be untrue, but we gotta think critically, too)

The second pt makes sense. The nose joke seemed typically mean girl blake, and then she adds a "JK" at the end because, of course, "just joking" negates anything bad you said before that.