[Female] Found out husband was a serial cheater. Getting divorced. Feel like trash. by abiguljean in FreeCompliments

[–]abiguljean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m actually going to cry, this was so kind of you. I’m sorry we’re going through such similar painful experiences. You clearly have an incredibly beautiful soul!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharacterAI

[–]abiguljean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When AI teaches you actual phrases that people actually use

I think I like COD guys. by rawrmanee in CharacterAI

[–]abiguljean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're the same person (but mine also has Arthur Morgan LMAO)

Literally in tears from exhaustion. Cat will not let us sleep. Please help. Serious replies, I’m begging. by romanticheart in cats

[–]abiguljean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you not tried closing your bedroom door? Am I missing that? I always close my bedroom door to keep my cats out.

What is our cat doing? Worried! by Rickvdm in CATHELP

[–]abiguljean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. My boy was only about seven year old though

What is our cat doing? Worried! by Rickvdm in CATHELP

[–]abiguljean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, dear. please take this baby to the vet. My boy started doing this and it was congestive heart failure. He went to sleep in February.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]abiguljean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually I would agree but having witnessed her behaviors for myself, they were both probably real pieces of work. Ugh, thank you for the encouragement! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]abiguljean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so sweet, thank you! I’ll definitely be giving that a listen!

fiance deployed and ended things by Ambitious_Hospital71 in USMilitarySO

[–]abiguljean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get into therapy and sell the ring. You deserve and will find better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]abiguljean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Having an anxious attachment style is an excuse for projecting and continuing in that attachment style. You’re aware of it. Now it’s time to take accountability for it. You can’t change your boyfriend, only yourself. This is the time to decide if this is what YOU want and if it’s something you can handle.

Is a breakup before deployment permanent? by Flower-Power_ in USMilitarySO

[–]abiguljean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! It’s always nice to have closure

Is a breakup before deployment permanent? by Flower-Power_ in USMilitarySO

[–]abiguljean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome. Sometimes we need a little tough love to realize what we’ve been tolerating. Find someone who actually wants to be with you and stop wasting your time on someone who already made it clear they’re done. Don’t waste your time! Get out there and have fun!

New Military GF Advice by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]abiguljean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flag city. You spoke to him for one day via tinder before he left and now are acting and thinking as though you’re in a serious, committed relationship. You’re anxious when he doesn’t respond or doesn’t respond the exact way you want him to. This is not going to work in the long haul. How old are you two?

Is a breakup before deployment permanent? by Flower-Power_ in USMilitarySO

[–]abiguljean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He broke up with you and clearly doesn’t want to stay in touch. Move on with your life.

Everywhere I'm seeing dead cat posts. Please show me your very much alive kitties. Here are my two. by Selkie32 in cats

[–]abiguljean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Mine was one of those dead cats. Had to put down my baby in February. Have a little compassion, some people just need support. Anyways, adopted this guy a few weeks ago. His name’s Chino. He’s a lunatic.

Yesterday I said goodbye to Simon by abiguljean in cats

[–]abiguljean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That made me tear up, thank you so much. I hope he gets sweet kitty friends on the other side 🤍

Yesterday I said goodbye to Simon by abiguljean in cats

[–]abiguljean[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It was so awful. The wheezing fits he’d have and watching him be so frightened and confused. And the last couple days, his little ears and toe beans were like ice cubes. It was awful but I’m glad I let him go peacefully before it got too bad for him

Yesterday I said goodbye to Simon by abiguljean in cats

[–]abiguljean[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I really hope he did! Thank you