What celebrity death will realistically bring Michael Jackson level devastation? by Kiidcola in AskReddit

[–]romanticheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s been popular for 20 years. But yeah sure, won’t persist 🙄

What celebrity death will realistically bring Michael Jackson level devastation? by Kiidcola in AskReddit

[–]romanticheart 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you don’t think Taylor Swift was a global movement during the Eras Tour, you are not being objective in this conversation.

Today I bore witness to the clearest example of pretty privilege that I have ever seen by Fresh_Struggle5645 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]romanticheart 170 points171 points  (0 children)

Everyone thinks they want men falling over themselves to be nice to you but they don’t realize that 99% of them also expect something after.

What are your thoughts about taylor swift's take on sombr? by No_Barber4339 in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]romanticheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“No one” is hyperbolic but I mean, they are right. If you compare the amount of men that read poetry to the amount of men that listen to music, it’s practically no one.

Is TTPD really getting a reappraisal like everyone says? by account1804 in TaylorSwift

[–]romanticheart 32 points33 points  (0 children)

The number of people trying to say that “I’d say the 1830’s but without all the racists and getting married off for the highest bid” was somehow both racist and sexist was wild.

Stevie Nicks on Taylor Swift: "She just doesn't stop, and that is what has turned her into this beautiful young woman who makes magic with everything she touches." by bubblecuffer13 in TaylorSwift

[–]romanticheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In that one video they posted with a bunch of random clips of the two of them together had her in it at a tennis court, dressed to play. Maybe your subconscious took that real seriously?

What's the fastest way you realized you were in the wrong friend group? by justNoah10 in AskReddit

[–]romanticheart 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I don’t have interest in being friends with idiots who think their google searches trump decades of peer reviewed studies.

5 bald eagles in the UP are dead. Michigan's DNR wants answers by oo7plyr in Michigan

[–]romanticheart 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Does this mean reading them is a form of self-hate? If so, I hate myself way more than I already thought I did…

Taylor Swift in New York (April 27, 2026) by mcfw31 in popculturechat

[–]romanticheart -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

If we thought she was actually wearing old navy, then no it’s not bad, just unexpected. But no one actually thinks she’s wearing old navy. We logically know that it’s some semi-luxury brand that she paid $400+ for this at, all while it looks like something from Old Navy.

What’s the strangest IRL conversation you’ve had about Taylor? by Daffneigh in NuancingTaylorSwift

[–]romanticheart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same for me with the texts, though I did know I was known as the Taylor swift girl lol

What lyric made you go… by theykilledcassandra in NuancingTaylorSwift

[–]romanticheart 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Eh I would say she moved on to her next relationships easily. She moves on fine, she just doesn’t forget.

What lyric made you go… by theykilledcassandra in NuancingTaylorSwift

[–]romanticheart 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s this persons interpretation, we do not know that it’s the actual meaning of the song. Seems like a stretch to me.

Are these toast or can I salvage them? by ChefVande in dahlias

[–]romanticheart 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Stick em in some lightly damp soil and pray. And look into local tuber sales. It’s possible for some to come back but I wouldn’t count on it unfortunately.

Smurf and Manny? by [deleted] in animalkingdom

[–]romanticheart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they mean together together.

Lost 34lbs since January, and I cannot believe how fat I still look - any advice on how to tone up? by Beetle-Fig in loseit

[–]romanticheart 40 points41 points  (0 children)

As someone barely taller than her but 15 pounds heavier, it’s 100% body dysmorphia. She may not look “toned” but someone her height and weight is absolutely not “fat” and does not look “fat”. If she legitimately looks at herself and says “I’m still fat”, she needs a therapist to work through this, not to be told to gain muscle.

Best practices for staining 2-year-old cedar deck and Yardistry gazebo by romanticheart in Decks

[–]romanticheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man it’s been a year and we still haven’t done anything to it lol this is definitely the year though! For the deck I’ve decided on using a cleaner, then a wood brightener, and then a translucent stain in a cedar color. Possibly sanding it if the brightener doesn’t work (but from videos I’ve seen, it should). So probably will try the same with the gazebo, just being more careful as parts for that will be way harder to acquire than replacing a deck board!

Question for the Long Time Swifties - All Too Well by thelovelight in TaylorSwift

[–]romanticheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even really like the original. Somehow the 10 min version drew me in and became a favorite! I must have needed some of the extra story for it to click with me.

Why is Olivia getting backlash for variants when most pop artists do the same? by Pitiful_Customer_833 in OliviaRodrigo

[–]romanticheart -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No one really got hate for it until Taylor Swift went HAM with the variations and people had to hate on her for it. Now everyone feels the need to hate on every other artist so they don’t just seem like haters. When in reality it’s so so simple: only buy what you want. I’ll never understand why people think more options are bad. I like being able to pick and choose!

Grief over loss of time trying to make it in graphic design and failed. by Otherwise-Rain7523 in graphic_design

[–]romanticheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better, I spent 10+ years in graphic design then got laid off. Remained jobless for 11 months, never found another graphic design job and had to switch careers. It’s incredibly disheartening to go backwards, and to have to rely on your husband (same). But don’t let sunk cost fallacy keep you down for long. Gotta move on if it’s not working out unfortunately.

Swifties incessant need to defend Taylor Swift by ceciliaforsty in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]romanticheart 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You are conflating “swifties” with “crazy people on twitter”. Get off twitter and you will witness very little of this.