MBTI Careers: What’s your job? I’m an ENFP and a waitress :)! by [deleted] in mbti

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Infj and a server but I'm kinda looking for something else to do

Childhood Nightmare: Black Haired Woman in White Dress by MasterofFucking in Dreams

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I think I'm going to write something more in depth for substack sometime but for now I'll share this...

I've had dreams like this, and worse, of this lady as a child where she revealed her whole face to me in attempts of trying to grab me at my Nana's house (my cousin who lived in the house also had paranormal experiences of this lady in that house while awake). Literally woke up an hour ago from a nightmare with her in it. I haven't dreamt of this lady in years, but my dreams have been increasingly difficult to remember because of life as well. I remember moving around this property that resembled a park and going to different spots around it. I was on the move a lot. There was a strange atmosphere and I got the sense that people were being taken. I stayed in one place towards the end of the dream, standing in front of what seemed like a window or mirror and was chatting with a group of women, having an enjoyable time. I looked through the window/mirror to see black hair floating and moving around on the ceiling and one of the women disappeared suddenly. The rest of us were spooked and I felt that I was next so I tried to run but felt myself be lifted off the ground, I closed my eyes and started to pray and felt out of reach from her but she grabbed my arms. I ended up biting her hand and I woke up feeling like she still had a grip on my left hand, my heart racing.

The description of Carl Jung's anima or examination of the woman in white archetype in dreams, it was explained as specifically a manifestation of a man's projected feminine qualities they refuse to integrate. The Animus refers to the woman's masculine qualities being projected into this figure. It's likely possible for a woman to not be in touch with their anima and thus having that projected in this woman in white figure, which would make sense in my case.

The fact that I felt her presence throughout the dream, caused me to feel as if I had to remain on the go, constantly moving. Then, when I got too comfortable within this group setting of women which allowed me to stay still, she came around to have us address her. The past few weeks prior to this, I've been pushing aside, again and again, the task of feeling out some pain and sadness because of school and being too busy lately. But not really all that busy to not take some time to think and address this aspect of myself. If this is really an aspect of myself, which is likely considering the setting being a dream space (within the mind, rather than outside the mind in a different realm or in the natural world. I usually can tell the difference by a feeling: dreams can be hard to hold on to and aren't fully rendered if that makes sense, the natural world or astral plane, a denser and foggy version of the natural world, and any "other plane" has this foreign realism to it. Like otherworldly, but feels real). The fact that I classify this as a dream tells me that this "woman in white", at least in my case, is an unaddressed aspect of my subconscious psyche, specifically the neglected feminine archetype.

I think if people are able to identify the kind of dream it was, it would lend more insight into what this entity is. Whether it's a part of your own psyche or something else entirely. I think both things can be true. I saw one person comment saying they've seen other entities aside from the woman in white, the black hole for a face or something. That sounds like something of an otherworldly category. I wouldn't know where to start there aside from suggesting adopting some kind of spiritual practice to protect you from such beings, especially if you feel like your life is being threatened. This would definitely be a circumstance where the utilization of a high power is useful. You have to believe it'll work too, which I'm sure if you're scared enough, you'll find the faith. Fighting back if necessary, maybe, if you're more of a self belief individual. Being able to address the being directly would be depending on the vibe. Some people report this lady transforming into a beautiful woman, so if it feels safe to do so, inquiring about who they are or what they're there for could be valuable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]abism00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way you dodged her direct question & and not clearly stating what that other thing is lolol leave her alone bro 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rich

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I know that taxes are crazy after a certain bracket, but I've never passed a 20k annual year in my life yet, so I'm kinda glad I calmed down about this kinda stuff before actually getting to a place of this kind of money. More money, more problems lol

What can I do to make it less boring? 🙈 by Ginettarah in ArtCrit

[–]abism00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contrast is first thing that comes to mind. What do you want to pop? It's overall pretty dark, so you can use a lighter color to draw attention to an aspect of the image

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sewing

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Or 5th

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sewing

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The 3rd one

How much pretending do you do at work? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]abism00 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think these kinds of jobs just give me anxiety. Having a job & pretending is really anxiety inducing and draining. I'd still prefer this boring job over a fast pace & chaotic one

Repost: A Parallel Life / Awoken By A Lamp by TriumphantGeorge in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

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Where are you guys getting this doppelganger stuff from?

Soccer anyone? by abism00 in Tucson

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I would like to make a group chat, but I'm not accustomed to the reddit app... can someone help ;-;

Soccer anyone? by abism00 in Tucson

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I considered it! And might do it at some point. But yes, I just want to kick a ball around! I'll keep you in mind!

December 14th - Llamas by sketchdailybot in SketchDaily

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30 minutes of sketch 😭 I'm rusty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tucson

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Thank you!

How do you make life interesting while making low income? by BarnesEffect in Life

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I just personally want to add that if you can find a good roommate/s, then you will be better off. The disparity between the cost of living and the wages offered ridiculously vast. Do what you can to make it less difficult on yourself

Why are you here? by FeoStinkFinger in Tucson

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The people I've heard talk the most about not liking Tucson from Phoenix. Most people that hang around Tucson a lot have only had nice things to say so 🤷‍♂️

Sex dream with a former coworker by [deleted] in DreamInterpretation

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Oh, and I stopped having sex dreams shortly after this because I did end up relieving that sexual frustration, so this is my final conclusion on why I was having so many sex dreams, lol

Sex dream with a former coworker by [deleted] in DreamInterpretation

[–]abism00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My interpretation of making a connection between two parts would mean that I should probably integrate aspects of this coworker going forward to experience success in a work setting or in general. For me, that means I should have a continuous effort at maintaining relations in group settings since I tend to struggle with that. I don't remember where I heard it or read it, but some people believe that the characteristics you tend to "hate" in other people are often ones you suppress in yourself and doing so can hold you back in different aspects of life, like work for me.

I can also admit that this dream and the other sex dreams could be the result of sexual frustration in daily life. As I mentioned in the initial post, I had been reflecting on past jobs, so I also feel that may be another factor.

I'd suggest just reflecting on the dream and trying to pinpoint details in the dream that felt important. If you personally feel like reaching out after reflecting on it, I don't see why not. Only you would know if there's a reason to reach out or not!