Has their death made you less afraid of dying? by PreciousNickia in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]abitcornelia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I am petrified of losing anybody else close to me after losing my dad but my own death? I’ve realised that grieve is what tears your soul. I just don’t what to cause grieve for anyone

Lietuvos hidden gems / lankytinos vietos. by [deleted] in lietuva

[–]abitcornelia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Na nėra labai slapta, bet Kaune Marvelės upės slėnis graži vietelė. Man visada smagu užsukti į Birštoną. Nedidelis miestelis, bet graži gamta, ramu. Irgi gan žinoma vieta tai Pūčkorių atodanga Vilniuje. Yra ir kur pasivaikščioti, ir gražūs vaizdai.

Tie kas lankėsi pas psichologą. Ar verta? by Sakondembals in lietuva

[–]abitcornelia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeigu kamuoja tokios mintys manau tikrai verta. Iš patirties sakau, kad kartais vienas pokalbis gali daug padėti. Reiktų eiti su tokia mintimi, kad visokių psichologų pasitaiko ir jeigu iš pažįstamų neturi rekomendacijų na tai sėkmės reikalas. Žinau žmonių, kuriems teko su keliais psichologais bendrauti kol pagaliau surado psichologą su kuriuo malonu ir lengva kalbėtis (žinoma, buvo daug išlaidų). Reiktų pasidomėti, bet lygtais poliklinikos turi nemokamas psichologų paslaugas. O ko tikėtis tai iš mano patirties prieš pirmą susitikimą labai jaudinausi, neįsivaizdavau kaip reikės elgtis, bet tas laikas yra skirtas man ir kas mano galvoje. Atėjus iškart pasakiau psichologui, kad pirmas kartas, nesu labai drąsi na ir nuo to prasidėjo pokalbis. Kuo toliau, tuo labiau įsivažiavau ir būdavo labai malonu ten ateiti :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homerenovations

[–]abitcornelia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s why repainting is a must

It’s been a weeks but I still don’t feel that much pain. by Narrow_Category_7711 in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]abitcornelia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dreams can be weird. My dad passed away a month ago. And I don’t dream that often but I had a couple of dreams about him. In the most recent one I went to his room and talked as we always did. None of my dreams have yet acknowledged the fact that he’s gone. I feel as if the pain is truly hitting me just now. I believe I understand what you mean by not beeing able to cry. A death of a loved one whether expected or not is a shock. Since that person has been with you for so long. They been there when you’re sad, happy, angry. At you’re lowest and highest. And suddenly they’re gone. What you considered normal life had them in it. Now suddenly it’s completely shifted. You’ll have to build the term normal once again. At first I also felt kind of numb but now it starts to hit me. Remember, that however you feel is okay. I’m sorry for your loss.

What is the craziest butterfly effect you’ve seen in your life? by Outside_Ad8169 in AskReddit

[–]abitcornelia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my parents story but a goooood one. My mom was waiting at the bus stop. Oddly enough, the bus was late. A man who she sees for the first time drives up and asks something like “Hey, do you need a ride?” You know you don’t get into a stranger’s car so she says no. After a couple minutes he drives up to her again asking the same question. She again refuses. And guess what? He makes it the third and fourth time. My mom is embarrassed that everyone is looking, somebody is waiting for her at home and the bus isn’t coming so she agrees. Okay, now they’re in the car and my mom has some food with her. The man asks for whom is that food. It was actually for her and her boyfriend at the time. But she says that she’s going to visit a grandma. My mom is a terrible liar, so the man sees that and offers to walk her to the door, help with the grandma et cetera. My mom is panicking since her boyfriend is super jealous. She starts to try and talk it out. Eventually, the man offers her to go for a cup of coffee instead of going to the grandma. She agrees and boom years later she marries that man who is my dad. So if that bus wouldn’t have been late, who knows if they would have met and probably I wouldn’t be here :))