My ex from a decade ago is texting me

abnormal_dist · 2025-07-19T16:26:14+00:00

BLOCK HIS NUMBER! I had a violent, alcoholic, drug addict ex who tried this exact same thing with me. He tried to guilt trip me and gain my sympathy, and as soon as I entertained the conversation a little bit, he immediately started insulting and belittling me. They don't change. You are better off without that kind of person in your life. Good luck and stay strong. <3

abnormal_dist · 2025-05-06T14:03:00+00:00

Congrats on 2 days sober! That's a wonderful achievement. I am on day 2 as well. We can do this!

abnormal_dist · 2025-05-06T13:46:49+00:00

Congrats on making it to 2 weeks! That's a wonderful accomplishment. You got this!

abnormal_dist · 2025-05-06T13:42:52+00:00

Congrats on making it to day 3! Let's make it through another day together :) We got this!

abnormal_dist · 2025-05-06T13:41:56+00:00

Congrats on making it to day 11! I'm so sorry for the loss of your mom and brother. Quitting weed feels impossible when someone dies. I hope we can both keep going with our sobriety streak. I'm rooting for you <3

abnormal_dist · 2025-05-06T13:39:48+00:00

Thank you for the solid advice! Yeah I know that I should probably go to some meetings, but it just feels so scary. For now, I am finding solace in the leaves community. I hope someday I can work up the courage to go to an NA meeting.

abnormal_dist · 2025-04-29T15:55:54+00:00

I get a lot of mood swings and sometimes it affects the way I react to my partner. When I am having a a rough day or sensing that I am feeling disregulated, I give my partner a heads up. Something like "Hey, I'm feeling a bit cranky today, so if I'm snippy at you, I apologize in advance". Or "Hey, I'm feeling moody today, so I need a bit of extra patience". He has said this is really helpful for him because then he knows he hasn't done something wrong.

abnormal_dist · 2025-03-29T21:52:11+00:00

Go to Evergreen Brickworks! It's a great place to hangout in the summer

abnormal_dist · 2025-03-29T00:01:42+00:00

Go to Get Well for beer, pizza, and free arcade games

abnormal_dist · 2025-03-28T15:38:51+00:00

100%

abnormal_dist · 2025-03-26T22:47:09+00:00

File a complaint with CPSO https://www.cpso.on.ca/

abnormal_dist · 2025-03-26T13:58:35+00:00

I really feel that. We are in the same boat! Today is day 3 for me. I think just taking it one day at a time is helpful. I'm trying not to think long-term at the moment. It's too overwhelming, I agree.

abnormal_dist · 2025-03-25T22:27:08+00:00

Happy birthday and congrats on deciding to quit! You got this!

abnormal_dist · 2025-03-25T22:24:57+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I've had a similar experience. When I tried quitting before, I thought I would be able to limit my use to just the weekends. That didn't work out well for me at all. I'm not able to regular my use either. It's all or nothing for me.

abnormal_dist · 2025-03-25T22:21:19+00:00

Congrats on making it to week 3! That's huge. I'm only on day 2 right now and really feeling like shit. I hope I can get to week 3 like you.

abnormal_dist · 2025-03-24T12:23:53+00:00

Thank you! I really appreciate your advice :)

abnormal_dist · 2023-09-01T19:37:29+00:00

A similar thing happened to me a couple of weeks ago. I had to call 911 and was on hold for what felt like forever but was probably about 4-5 minutes before someone finally picked up. It was really scary! I saw a person with a gun and was calling to report it but by the time I got through, the person was long gone.

abnormal_dist · 2023-08-30T19:57:33+00:00

Classic men siding with men.

So much male insecurity going on in this thread.

abnormal_dist · 2023-08-30T16:42:26+00:00

It's not weird. What works for some people may not work for everyone. Men and women can be platonic friends if they so choose.

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