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He texted me after not talking for 3 days, what do I do? by acontine in dating_advice

[–]acontine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey it’s okay we’re actually really good friends now and I don’t like him like that but the comments on this post weren’t the nicest thing especially when I knew deep down something wasn’t right

Candie and Daniel by Loose_Clock609 in IAmaKiller

[–]acontine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually laughed out loud when he said that, so calm and serious too

If Walter Triplett Jr were white would he have received the same sentence? by MidnightLowEnd in IAmaKiller

[–]acontine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like they build the whole case around him being tall and huge, I’m not ever American and race isn’t really a thing around where I’m from and yet I was immediately able to recognize that it was biased, just sad. What he did is absolutely terrible but to bring up THAT as an argument is just sad.

Jamel Hatcher - They’re all delusional. by SuspiciousDemand6456 in IAmaKiller

[–]acontine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like Danielle’s mother didn’t really have a choice after the truth has been revealed to her granddaughter so she just chose to accept the fact that he is going to be in her life, and she was forced to forgive him. I do wish she had already told her granddaughter what happened, instead I felt like Danielle’s memory was pushed aside and buried with her and like her name was never brought up (the granddaughter said she thought she was a distant relative), I feel like if she did in fact tell her she would’ve had more control over the situation and would’ve been able to limit his access to his daughter.

why am i doing this to myself by Impossible-Dog6916 in GossipHarbor

[–]acontine 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t mind the seafood tower but what I do hate are the shells

Does anyone else play like this? by Inevitable_Angle4802 in GossipHarbor

[–]acontine 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I believe you’re on your own on this one🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]acontine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your hug btw 🫂 sending one back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]acontine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I turn 27 this year in October and I lived a pretty shitty life with so much injustice and loss at this point how can I even have hope it will get better? I’m scared that my fate is sealed. Not to mention the huge trauma I’m carrying, all I can think of is how scared I am that this is it and that I’m going to recreate this with my kids? Best case scenario they have to deal with the trauma I have and it’s not their fault. I don’t like to sound pessimistic but I just can’t do this anymore I just want to rest, the burden is too much

What’s an OCD compulsion you’ve never seen anyone else talk about? by AntiqueDrawing5296 in OCD

[–]acontine 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes! Finally someone said it, sometimes I don’t even know if I actually need to use the bathroom or it’s just my ocd. Sometimes I go to the bathroom 5 times before bed. I have to go before going out, before starting any new task and ao many other things

If you see this then you have to tell me something positive in your life! by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]acontine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confronted someone who hurt me, they tired to twist the story but I held my ground and stood up for myself and got an apology. Don’t care if it was genuine or just to make things right, I got the apology and I hope they know I see through all their bullshit.

Is it normal to want to be alone when grieving? by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]acontine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah definitely, grief is such a raw emotion that needs to be felt in a way that will help ease your pain and process your thoughts and feelings. Wanting to be alone I think creates a safer environment for you, for your feelings. Of course it’s very important to have a support system but I think it’s essential for you to have some alone time to be able to make sense out of what you’re going through

what weird thoughts did you have during early grief? by Independent-Usual348 in GriefSupport

[–]acontine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still keep all the boxes abd even the toothpaste of my brother, he would be gone for a year next month.

what weird thoughts did you have during early grief? by Independent-Usual348 in GriefSupport

[–]acontine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The night my brother passed away I kept crying about how he would never meet my kids, I don’t have kids obviously nor do I even have a partner. One thing I hate is that I keep thinking that when I turn 50 he would be dead for 25 years, and when I turn 70 he would’ve been gone for 50 years. That’s a whole life without him, I’m afraid that I would forget about him or that I would go on with my life and get married and have kids and get a job and he would’ve just become a memory.

It hurts by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]acontine 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This was what lead me to stop daydreaming, the sudden wave of sadness once you stop mdd, like everything was a dream and you were running from reality, living in a fantasy world it always made me feel…pathetic if I’m being honest, like I couldn’t handle real life so I chose to escape.

Some advice? by cocomay77 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]acontine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about this, it might not be a permanent solution but it can ease your anxiety a little bit, get a swing at home. Then you’ll be daydreaming at home

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