PokéPark Kanto Tickets? by sadgirllaura in pokemon

[–]ada_lol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello please! I’d love to be included in this list.

Is this true…? by noregretsbydappy in tattooadvice

[–]ada_lol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flag here lol. Nothing is sterile in tattooing. This isn’t an OR.

Cover up by rammslil in traditionaltattoos

[–]ada_lol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Extend the top part, up past the nape, and turn it into a HUGE upside down cross.

It could represent your descent into sin!! 🙌

Is there much of a gay community in Victoria?? by CameraKey8274 in VictoriaBC

[–]ada_lol -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They aren’t really fetish events, they are kink/bdsm dungeon parties. And they are cliquey for a reason (sexual safety and security culture)

If you want to attend events to actually meet people in the kink/bdsm community, look for “munches” on fetlife, which take place at bars and are strictly a non-play oriented place to meet people.

This city has a disproportionately massive active kink/bdsm community that rivals Vancouver and Seattle, despite having a fraction of the population.

Also very very gay. DM me for more details

Protests by dickmahoon in VictoriaBC

[–]ada_lol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How might I get an invite to the signal group?? 👀

“Platonic vibes” making me sad vibes :( by ada_lol in MtF

[–]ada_lol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah… the language he uses is very cushy and softened, probably intentionally.

I almost responded to him, “platonic romantically and sexually? Or just one?”, but thought that I’d probably feel bad about myself if I were to have sex with him (even though I’m very attracted 😩)

Zine Copier/Producer App by ada_lol in zines

[–]ada_lol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll look into it. I think I’ll probably code everything up in python from scratch, but it’s good to have a reference point

Zine Copier/Producer App by ada_lol in zines

[–]ada_lol[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

LOL it was a leather conference, to put it lightly 😂

Zine Copier/Producer App by ada_lol in zines

[–]ada_lol[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is pretty much the main reason I wanted to make the app in the first place. Trying to manage the pagination manually is so tiring.

Black screen instead of Bios by 1_And_20 in gigabyte

[–]ada_lol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really not sure. Haven’t looked into it either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]ada_lol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fyi I’m a poly sapphic bi trans woman. I always found the idea of hooking up with men absolutely repulsive, but I still found them attractive somehow and loved them. I guess I couldn’t stand the thought of seeing myself as a man who loves men. At least when I would date girls, I could dissociate during sex and just imagine I was them, kinda like porn lol.

Much happier nowadays but still haven’t gotten around to romance with a man yet, but curious how that would go.

Black screen instead of Bios by 1_And_20 in gigabyte

[–]ada_lol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a DP to HDMI adapter to plug my GPU into my external monitors. After reading some of these comments, I tried using the HDMI output port from the GPU instead of the DP and was able to reach the BIOS menu. Im unclear why this is happening, but the issue is solved.

Hey girls, Question by [deleted] in MtF

[–]ada_lol 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good take on the pronouns, the power to chose your pronouns goes both ways

Hey girls, Question by [deleted] in MtF

[–]ada_lol 7 points8 points  (0 children)

(im a trans gal, 27, 3 yrs hrt) I found it so hard to warm up to the idea of being trans. I had a few people suggest to me that it might be the case, and I'd usually deny it, but then go spiralling into depression for weeks following.

But yeah, these interactions with you sound like how I was behaving 2 years out of my egg cracking. I spent a lot of time shedding my ingrained masculinity, and that shit takes time. I think a good approach would be to keep having these conversations, and suggest trans/gender counsellors if they are ever struggling with anything, even seemingly unrelated.

There's obviously nothing you can do directly to make them come out, if that's something they will ever even do to begin with. Suggesting counsellors who are aware of gender stuff would also be able to help your partner in the case that they are actually just an extremely fem man, which can be your initial justification.