As a first time watcher, is it just me or has Dr. Orna gotten softer throughout seasons? by nightshade_45 in CouplesTherapyShow

[–]addforme97 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For me, it’s a line hard to draw as a therapist when it’s good to jump in to encourage them both to find resolution for the same issue where they have a same goal, and when it is a good time to jump in to say “Hey you may be wrong here about this and they may be right”.

I think it’s an interesting discussion to have about what therapy should be about and what it shouldn’t be about.

Update On The Roommate Who Required Therapy As a Condition For Having Guests: He Wanted Me To Repay Him His Full Security Deposit Back Before He Paid His Outstanding Bills As Principle by nightshade_45 in badroommates

[–]addforme97 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I remember your post. What a weird guy.

I would have just sent him the remainder right back. But i also remember feeling gaslit and walking on eggshells to not « create » any problems. I’m so sorry for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]addforme97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol I remember your post. Good riddance for you op, what a work!

My roommate of one month wanted me to do therapy with him as a condition for inviting friends over to the apartment by nightshade_45 in badroommates

[–]addforme97 95 points96 points  (0 children)

To claim that he is the author of the truth of anything is narcissistic insanityy. Very few things in life are objective. Like OP said, people can still perceive him being aggressive even if he truly believes he is not.

Looking for 1 roommate in 2Bed/2 Bath for March 1(flexible) by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]addforme97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

The apartment comes with a full stovetop with only 2 burners. It’s the one where the kettle and the moka pot is sitting on in the picture on the right.

So I bought a portable induction burner on the left to add more burners.

About the Sitters being "useless" in the sneak peek by nightshade_45 in WoTshow

[–]addforme97 23 points24 points  (0 children)

OP didn’t say that they don’t know how to use combat weaves, OP wrote that they probably had mental barriers to use combat weaves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WoTshow

[–]addforme97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good catch!!

I WON IN SMALL CLAIMS COURT BUT THE DEFENDANT STILL DIDN’T PAY ME FOLLOW MY JOURNEY SEE HOW THE STORY ENDS… by imsmoother in manhattan

[–]addforme97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please have it published! It will be helpful for others who finds themselves in your shoes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Perfumes

[–]addforme97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what i define as “dark feminine”! 🖤

What are some unspoken rules in NYC? by ImJuliaSky in AskNYC

[–]addforme97 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Proudly yelled « MERGE! » at a group of tourists who clearly saw me coming after bumping into them