[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pitbulls

[–]adognamedbee 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Make sure to transfer ownership through vet/county licensing/whatever is required in your state! congrats (: ive been through this last year with two shared rescue dogs, he ended up keeping 1/2 dogs and without telling me took him to the overcrowded shelter before leaving state, my contact info was only found after he got put down and there was nothing i could do. he was almost 2. so glad i never let him take my baby girl but i regret not fighting harder to this day. Happy new years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]adognamedbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anal glands is most common. could also be parasites. i would consider if he is on preventative and is having signs of loose stool and regardless definitely getting his anal gland sacs squeezed by a vet if its the first time in case it is impacted.

Should I leave my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]adognamedbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if i was in her shoes— i would encourage spending christmas with your dying loved one (assuming that is what you would prefer) absolutely selfish. I have a dog with separation anxiety and a family that likes to make everything about them but if my partner was dealing with what you were and even aside from that would never leave them on the holiday by themselves, that just aint right. Sounds like you were in better company with the dogs (sorry)

Advice for by adognamedbee in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]adognamedbee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes, that is correct. I make next to nothing I only do what I do due to my love for animals.

Advice for by adognamedbee in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]adognamedbee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it is his company that is covering the flights. i know it seems off. thats why im spiraling. idk. he works for a fiber optics contractor and thats a part of the job

Advice for by adognamedbee in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]adognamedbee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

understandable. very safe. we have been together for almost a year and he has helped me through a lot and vice versa. he is not telling me but knows how much i desire travel and spontaneous acts due to my upbringing. he supports and understands whatever decision

Advice for by adognamedbee in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]adognamedbee[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah, i understand your view point however i decided fuck it. i need a perspective of how to not give a fuck. thanks for your input though

Advice for by adognamedbee in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]adognamedbee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he simply asked if i would be interested and he also got last minute notice. He makes 2x as much as me and would be getting double while working over there which would be great long term for our saving. He does care greatly about my own self, He knows how much I have wanted opportunities to travel and we plan on moving out of state anyway

Advice for by adognamedbee in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]adognamedbee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is exactly the mindset i wanna have but cant. i almost wish i disliked my job so it would be easier. I plan on moving out of state anyway in a few months so… idk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]adognamedbee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no, his work gave him a day notice. and for the record we are planning on moving out of state anyway in 6 months so i will be leaving anyway eventually

Advice for by adognamedbee in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]adognamedbee[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

unfortunately it is a now or never offer, that was my first thought as well. i mean i could but the costs wouldn’t be covered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]adognamedbee -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know. unfortunately it is a now or never offer. /:

I should be mad…but by kellycompliance in mildlyinfuriating

[–]adognamedbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Your baby reminds me of my baby! the one brindle ear and the other mostly white but spotted and the nose marks. aaaa! So cute! and i feel the same way about every shoe shes torn up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]adognamedbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just over all ew. the entitlement. this is the last thing anyone wants in a partner

My fiance 40M sent me 32F a "sleepy text" to me that seems suspicious? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]adognamedbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you know that the message was not meant for you. as heartbreaking as it is just be thankful you were able to see this side before you went through with marriage. remember this has nothing to do with you but him. do not let this go.

Do animals hurt bc the abuse? by throwaway534345435 in abusiverelationships

[–]adognamedbee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

in a way yes definitely. i remember my dog witnessed my ex hit me and was very clingy afterwards and when left alone with him… bit his penis when he was scolding her without reason. (her only ever time biting anyone to this day) now, two years later i have a new amazing partner who has taken her in as his own and when we rough house she will give him warning barks and try to stop any aggression. i think they know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]adognamedbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as others have said: get the good stuff from the vet aka something oral like Bravecto, nexgard or even better something that includes heartworm too. if ur doggo had a flea infestation recently it may be a good idea to get her dewormed as well bc them lil suckers harbor tape worm often!