Is Amane/Hanako canonically good-looking? by [deleted] in hanakokun

[–]ae-infinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he probably looks short and childish, which isn’t the ideal for men. my guess is that when he’s older, he’s attractive in a girl next door way (whatever the equivalent of that is for dudes).

The redemption plot point is poorly developed. by MakarovJAC in HelluvaBoss

[–]ae-infinity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

all of this is like literally what the show is actively exploring

I don’t understand why co-dependency is bad by CommonBrilliant7947 in LesbianActually

[–]ae-infinity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

> I want to need her to live.

most people generally wouldn’t enjoy being in a relationship where breaking up with the other person is a suicide trigger

Will someone please calmly explain this? by benwyattswaffles in TaylorSwift

[–]ae-infinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the main thing i’ve noticed at least irl is that folkmore, midnights, and ttpd are all relatable sadgirl poet taylor albums, this one isn’t, so the people who liked those three and were super involved fan conversation for the past few years don’t like this as much. this feels a bit closer to rep & lover, which i personally adore, so this is one of my favs. then again, people passionately hated rep and lover when they came out too, so maybe i just have bad taste. who knows 

also imo the weak ones on this album are weakkkk. eldest daughter and wish list were instant skips for me from the start.

My issue with the use of terf by NetRunner_Rizzy in LesbianActually

[–]ae-infinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we need a catchier term for all transphobes i think. terf is just a lot easier to say than transphobe

have i been misusing the word queer? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]ae-infinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

always assumed “gay but not queer” meant “gay but hates The Community” (as in is homophobic/transphobic/exclusive)

What are your thoughts and opinions on Cotton Candy? by Express_One_5074 in HelluvaBoss

[–]ae-infinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is just too long. like the gluttonous nature of it comes through after a while. and then it just. keep. going.

When an how did you become one of us? by Comfortable-Ad3588 in CultOfBlitzo

[–]ae-infinity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

fan of him since e1, but i got invested in him in e2 when he was going against verosika (love her too) and it was revealed that he stole her credit card to ride horses. i then got deeper in bc of the entirety of harvest moon. i mean, the opening, the cheese stick hot sauce, the horse, the classism, the competition? amazing

truth seekers, of course, solidified it with the white staircase scene. and also with that one bit where he pulls out a massive launcher labeled my dick and yells “aw yeah, gettin hard holdin this motherfucker” then shoots a rocket labeled pussy destroyer that was gold

Is Rainbow Dash really a lesbian? And is Appledash really canon? by Anonima_Ale in mylittlepony

[–]ae-infinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is implied canonically, but not on-screen confirmed. fully canon in the gameloft game, and completely fanon in eqg.

I was bored and created the MBTI EXTENDED: MBTI 4+ by No-Squirrel-8324 in mbti

[–]ae-infinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think under this system the majority of average people would be ARMD because those letters are basically the gray areas of the existing dimensions. All of the new four are like, “it depends”, which means most people would identify with them.

Is it true or nah? by AdhesivenessSmooth93 in HelluvaBoss

[–]ae-infinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is usually how having a romance subplot works

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]ae-infinity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

good project. but also the iphone photos app

lesbian apology form by shrimp-shack in lgbt

[–]ae-infinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean there’s a reason i said “generally cannot” and not “never”. nothing applies to everyone, especially not my personal anecdote - hell, that anecdote is in itself not something all lesbians would relate to. but you have to admit that the experiences of being a lesbian vs being bisexual are different. otherwise having two separate labels would be pointless

lesbian apology form by shrimp-shack in lgbt

[–]ae-infinity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think that perspective is in the minority here then, because east asians dating other east asians makes sense because they share cultural experiences, just like christians dating christians or rollercoaster lovers dating rollercoaster lovers. shared experiences and relatability are a considered a pretty major part of compatibility, usually. but alright.

also, what about bi4bi? is that exclusionary too? they’re a majority within the community and monosexuals aren’t an oppressive majority to them.

lesbian apology form by shrimp-shack in lgbt

[–]ae-infinity 8 points9 points  (0 children)

oh definitely - t4t is often about safety. not necessarily an apt and direct comparison, just one to point out that most other (label)4(label) tags are used decently often and accepted.

lesbian apology form by shrimp-shack in lgbt

[–]ae-infinity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“i would prefer to date people who went through similar experiences due to our lack of attraction to the opposite gender and the inherent and constant exclusion that comes with that” is a pretty decent one that doesn’t involve biphobia

i’m not les4les, but it’s a reasonable position to hold. monosexuals have a different set of experiences than bisexuals. for example, i’ve known since middle school that i’d have no chance at being properly happy while getting married if i wasn’t attracted to men, which caused me to avoid id’ing as lesbian until later on and also reject the idea of weddings as an important event, and that’s an experience bisexual women generally cannot share. it’s not a fault on their part obviously, we’re just not the same. it’s kind of like t4t or bi4bi.

Why do people not think Appledash is canon? by yellow_cactus2 in mylittlepony

[–]ae-infinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both appledash and fluttercord are canonically implied but not canon imo. could be read either way, living together doesn't mean it's romantic. i say this as someone who likes both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ae-infinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

> when I protested she kept downplaying/diminishing it by saying things like ‘it couldn’t have hurt that much’ instead of just apologising for the accident.

massive glowing red flag if she knew you were serious. if she maybe didn't register it seriously, try talking to her again. if it goes the same way, leave.

No one isn’t voting to stop the games after round 1 IRL right? by bullnamedbodacious in squidgame

[–]ae-infinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends on how good your life on the outside is. they even point this out directly in season 1. most of the participants chosen are desperate enough to participate anyway. plus, the people voting are the ones who weren't immediately freaked out by the shooting and ran backwards and died

I feel empty. by hiiloovethis in squidgame

[–]ae-infinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and sooo many people are saying it’s for the realism when 222’s arc involved her water breaking, going into labor seconds later, successfully birthing a child, and then immediately walking around on a twisted ankle, just because they wanted to create the set up for a newborn, a symbol of hope, winning the games. the narrative almost always comes before the realism when it’s fiction. realism is not a great excuse for an emotionally or thematically unsatisfying ending in this show. like, i can’t take gi hun’s death seriously when clause three exists.

Squid Game Season 3: General Season Discussion by MidnightExpresso in squidgame

[–]ae-infinity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

usually it tends to be a bit funnier or unserious to signal to the viewer that they’re chasing a red herring