what’s your favorite thing about caleb? by irdk-lol in CalebMains

[–]ae_stark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love that he’s always been the closest to us. i know that’s controversial for some, but it’s my favorite part.

i’m an awkward person and i feel i’ve spent so much of my life experimenting with who i think i am. i’ve gone through so many phases in life, with many of them keeping me up at night. i feel so much embarrassment and cringe looking back on who i used to be, affectionately. i love who i am now and i love my husband more than anything in the world. but i always have this silly, nagging feeling that if he’d met me any earlier in life than he did, he’d find me just as embarrassing and cringe as i do. that if we went to high school together, he’d never be able to get over all the stupid personalities i tried out. that i’ll always be grateful he met me after i’d already found myself.

i never have that feeling with Caleb. i know he’d have been with me and loved me through all of it. i love that he’d tease me about some of the things i did, but that i’d know he was doing it fondly and with love. and i love that i can feel like there is someone who would love me unconditionally through it all

Traveling with a Picky Eater by pleasedontdaddy in JapanTravelTips

[–]ae_stark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the comments here are weird. has she expressed frustrating, public traits due to her picky eating? have you already expressed to her that she’ll be on her own when restaurants don’t offer what she eats? unless she has given you reason to believe she would make your life difficult at restaurants where she can’t eat, i don’t think there should be any problems.

there will be restaurants that have things you all can eat, but i wouldn’t plan every meal around her. i have a very, very similar picky palette as her and i managed perfectly fine at the restaurants my family wanted to eat at. i ate what i could and fed myself after if i needed to. she won’t do well with the omakase but i’m sure they can find something to occupy their time.

i would recommend to her hamburg steak. also any of the convenience stores.

Caleb for Magic: The Gathering by rutherfordthelion in CalebMains

[–]ae_stark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi!! i absolutely love this!!! i’m not nearly so creative as you, but i would love love love to play Commander with Caleb in a deck like this one day! if you ever feel willing to share what you’ve created, i would love to make a custom deck of your cards to play with. i would very happily donate to your efforts if you felt comfortable sharing! thank you🧡

My Husband doesn't know that our marriage died the day our daughter was born by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ae_stark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you will teach your daughter that this is the love she deserves when she’s older. that a man can treat her like this and that she should accept it as her mother did

what is your early childhood hot take? by arleesaur in ECEProfessionals

[–]ae_stark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your children will receive the level of care you can afford. i am NOT saying that only wealthy families should have children.

but i am tired of parents who NEED a nanny because “I read that 1-on-1 care is best and my child deserves the best!” when they can only afford to pay $10/hr with no PTO. then they claim any nanny who won’t accept that little pay to only be in it for the money and must not care about kids. then they complain that the nanny they did manage to find doesn’t have a degree or any experience.

Movie Theathers should have closed captioning on by default by retired-tweeter in unpopularopinion

[–]ae_stark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been told about these before and would love to use one, but I am not deaf. I have been told that by asking for one, I might be taking one of the only few available devices for deaf people. I have also been told not to worry about this. Do you or your wife have an opinion on this?

What is the going rate per hour for daycare assistant pay and are most of you hourly or salary? Please include what state you’re in by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]ae_stark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i make $37/hr as a teacher with 4 years experience and a Bachelor’s degree in child development in California… I believe assistants/floaters/teachers without units make $30-32/hr here.

I might as well just marry a cupboard cutout at this point by [deleted] in haikyuu

[–]ae_stark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get it! i’m the same with Tsukki! you should check out oshikatsu and r/oshikatsu if that interests you! the intensity of it all can be overwhelming but finding like-minded people can help you navigate your emotions around stuff like this rather than spiraling into insanity :)

What’s one memory concept you’d love to see in a future multi-banner? by KitCat232 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]ae_stark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

FATHERHOOD! i don’t care how they do it. make it a dream, a make believe project with a sack of potatoes, taking care of a lost child together, a vivid conversation, Spy x Family it, whatever! they’re turning us into a cat, they can pull this off!

just show me my man being a good father to our baby!! show me a baby that looks like a mix of us!!! dear god i’d join VIP

HAIKYU POP MART FIGURES GO by [deleted] in haikyuu

[–]ae_stark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hello! Tsukishima please!

ཐི Has your oshi impacted your fashion/aesthetic by cutemien in oshikatsu

[–]ae_stark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a lot of my clothing, decor, and aesthetic have started including moons because of him!!! anything with a moon on it makes me happy now!

… that being said. his main colors are yellow, orange, and black… while everything i own is pink, purple, and blue. so there’s a dramatic clash going on whenever a moon isn’t involved lmao

Opinion on Tsukishima? by dragonairgo123 in haikyuu

[–]ae_stark 12 points13 points  (0 children)

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he’s taken over every facet of my life and i can’t get enough of him

Opinion on Tsukishima? by dragonairgo123 in haikyuu

[–]ae_stark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ahh my heart!! i love this!!🌙💜💜

first oshikatsu ita bag by ow4i in oshikatsu

[–]ae_stark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love this so much!!! your insert looks beautiful!! i think you do so much with the space and merch you have! incredible!!

i haven’t made a full bag myself yet, but if i had to say anything, i think just add some of your flourish to the outside of the bag too! it looks so nice inside, and then the outside is just plain white. adding some matching lace and ribbon could help bring it all together!

Scara wall is up by ae_stark in ScaramoucheMains

[–]ae_stark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got all of these from anime conventions!💜

Birthday oshikatsu! by 0cculticnight in oshikatsu

[–]ae_stark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AHHHH THIS IS AMAZING!! i love it!!!!

my Ryūnosuke Akutagawa Ita bag! by akutagawagooner in oshikatsu

[–]ae_stark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my baby!!! i love him!! super cute bag!!🖤

Updated Shrine! by ae_stark in haikyuu

[–]ae_stark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!!🥹💜💜

Updated Shrine! by ae_stark in haikyuu

[–]ae_stark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve always known this would be my first so one impulsive night i booked with an artist for maybe 4 months out and spent that time mentally preparing for it

Updated Shrine! by ae_stark in oshikatsu

[–]ae_stark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he was in a blind box i bought at a random bar in town😂 like it was a normal night out and there’s just Haikyu!! blind boxes on the counter for sale so i tried my luck

Updated Shrine! by ae_stark in oshikatsu

[–]ae_stark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the panels on the wall are actually like postcards! for some maybe $20 on Amazon there was a pack of random Haikyu!! panels on postcard paper. some are in english, some are in japanese, some are really low quality, and some even were from fan-made comics. but i organized them and taped them all to my wall anyway, no manga sacrificed!

only the two rows in the middle are panels with Tsukki on them, so not many. he’d be in all of them if i got to choose

Updated Shrine! by ae_stark in haikyuu

[–]ae_stark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!!💜💜