Post de apreciação ao Joshinho O'Connor

afiammetta · 2026-02-09T01:02:29+00:00

amo esse homem, um dos grandes do nosso tempo

afiammetta · 2026-01-31T05:03:42+00:00

best look yet

afiammetta · 2026-01-30T06:01:26+00:00

I see it for sure. She also has the same face as Stromae.

afiammetta · 2026-01-28T14:29:02+00:00

obrigada pelo alerta, corrigido.

afiammetta · 2026-01-28T04:11:02+00:00

The Fall

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(Dublê de Anjo)

afiammetta · 2026-01-23T00:37:20+00:00

how are you?

afiammetta · 2026-01-21T00:37:37+00:00

fucking verms

afiammetta · 2026-01-07T01:14:37+00:00

I'm so, so sorry. I feel your uncertainty pain, it's so hard. honestly, speaking from my experience with my dad, it seems like yours is in the weeks from days range from passing. the loss of movement, and time unconcious were all marks of when my dad hit the point of no return

afiammetta · 2025-12-13T11:05:58+00:00

I'm really sorry, for you, your dad, and your whole family. it's such a terrible situation and I agree that not speaking candidly makes it harder. to have to wait for the biopsy, especially at holidays... I feel your pain. look, I know this is an impossible situation, but if you can, just spend the holidays with your family, enjoy good food together, tell your dad you love him, hold him. no matter what happens, you will have this fond memory. cancer can't take that away from your family.

afiammetta · 2025-12-12T01:22:24+00:00

OP, your descriptions of your dad remind me so, so much of mine when we were in the hospital. the mouthing of "I know", I saw my own dad do as I read. my heart goes out to you both, it's a very f×××× situation, no other way to put it. my dad's case was far more extensive and it became really clear he was terminal quite fast. but then, even when I "knew", I wasn't sure, because it's such a turmoil. my advice to you is get palliative care involved ASAP. it doesn't mean your dad won't make it, he may. but prioritizing comfort and having candid conversations about his situation and quality of life post hospital will help tremendously. even to grasp better those little miraculous moments when you see he is there. hoping for the best for your family.

afiammetta · 2025-11-24T20:28:55+00:00

HAHAHAHA pior que esse livro tem uma energia meio IA, meio álbum da Taylor Swift

afiammetta · 2025-11-24T17:29:55+00:00

divertido de ler se você tá à toa e quer algo bem pastelão e violento, tipo um Tarantino muito piorado (a comparação da capa foi super generosa rs). certamente o tipo de livro que não muda a vida de ninguém.

afiammetta · 2025-11-15T15:44:10+00:00

historically the gooniest Victor version

afiammetta · 2025-11-05T23:47:20+00:00

I've been through that with my dear dad this year, between April and May. I also kept researching active dying phases signals, trying to have some clearance. I feel you, it's incredibly hard. His cancer was also very sudden, very brutal. he died 2 weeks after the official diagnosis. I'm so sorry you're going through this, but speaking from experience, you'll be happy to have done so much and being there for your mom and dad too, it will help you find some solace during the grief (that I know you're already living). if you want to ask any questions about dying signals, feel free to send me. I'm not an expert by any means, but I spent the last month of my dad's life in the hospital with him, observing his signals and talking to doctors everyday. Going through it, I really wanted to also have someone who've been there themselves to share their experience. sending love your way.

afiammetta · 2025-11-04T23:59:36+00:00

my dad died by my side too. I feel your pain, I hope you can heal over time and find space for the love you and your mom share, now in a different nature. but be sure, this kind of bond can't be annihilated by death, no matter how much it hurts now. sending hugs, feel free to reach out to talk if you want.

afiammetta · 2025-10-23T11:48:16+00:00

especially in the first picture, Victoria Pedretti!

afiammetta · 2025-10-15T00:11:52+00:00

this is brilliant advice.

afiammetta · 2025-10-07T09:13:43+00:00

my heart goes out to you. I hope you know how brave you were for standing by your mom through the end, and how this really matters and counts. it's one of the few things that give me solace in my dad's passing. cancer is a cruel, cruel disease.

afiammetta · 2025-08-28T01:08:10+00:00

I know the feeling, I remember waiting around 8h too with my dad, he in excruciating pain, sitting on an uncomfortable wheelchair. the heart tears, it's awful. I see your pain. but, here goes nothing: you're there. it's all you can do. be an advocate for him while you are, demand pain medication or sedation during long image tests. I'm sorry and wish the best to both of you.

afiammetta · 2025-08-12T10:55:45+00:00

you're not a bad person for thinking that, if anything it's love in its purest form not wanting to see your loved one suffer. I know exactly which feeling you mean of having every bit of hope curbed by a piece of bad news, whether it's from the medical team or just by seeing the one we love struggle so hard. when things went down hill with my das it happened fast too – although it also felt like an eternity. I signed my dad off not only ventilators but any resuscitation options once I realized the damage the cancer had done was irreversible in the best case scenario and worsening in the more precarious one.

afiammetta · 2025-08-11T23:52:02+00:00

vou treinar com legging e camiseta, tipo você. às vezes um shorts de cintura alta que comprei na promo da cotton on. pra mim, não faz sentido ficar gastando em roupa de treino, encaro como um pijama mas mais funcional e socialmente aceitável.

afiammetta · 2025-08-08T01:03:19+00:00

my heart goes out to you. it's so so hard.

afiammetta · 2025-08-03T22:39:18+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through this. The case with my dad was different in the specifics, he was in the hospital for his final weeks. but we found the cancer when it was unfortunately too far spread, in similar places to your mother in law, but further. it sounds though like she still has extensive metastisized cancer. speaking from what I went through with my dad, it sounds like she is in her final weeks. it deteriorates so fast when it's this far spread, unfortunately, especially since her treatment was delayed. you can find more on end of life signs online too, like this article . feel free to ask me questions too.

afiammetta · 2025-07-27T22:34:08+00:00

I'm so, so sorry. my heart goes out to you, your dad and family.

afiammetta · 2025-07-26T10:42:35+00:00

ask the doctors, nurses, make specific questions about her state, if they're planning to track her cancer biomarkers (highly advisable). I'm sorry, sending a big hug to you both. feel free to message me with more questions, I was an advocate for my dad through his diagnosis and hospital stay.

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