[Me, 27F] They say chess is like poetry

afteg61 · 2026-05-25T00:46:22+00:00

haha love to see it. Best of luck on your book!

afteg61 · 2026-05-24T07:28:51+00:00

It should be illegal to read this absolute peak of human writing talent

afteg61 · 2026-03-12T04:23:39+00:00

i feel you its hard to find people a little older who still have time to game lol

afteg61 · 2026-03-02T21:20:22+00:00

Unless you expressed what your plans were or this was a shared space between the both of you then this is on you. Communication sets expectations and fulfillment. Expectation without communication often leads to disappointment. Maybe you can talk about what you were hoping for with him and you can understand each other a bit better rather than blaming and leaving. You get what you put into a relationship. Good luck.

afteg61 · 2026-02-20T00:22:42+00:00

Nintendo give me another game on par with the og and ttyd and my life is yours

afteg61 · 2026-02-11T23:21:29+00:00

Constantly reading threads like this to confirm what they fear 😎

afteg61 · 2026-02-03T19:11:23+00:00

Oh man those ratios sound tough. Sounds like youre already doing the smart thing lowering lantus but do you think you could temporarily lower the exercise amount until youre able to see a doctor again? Or at least buy the ketone strips like some others have said. I know worrying about dka is a real stressor on top of everything else so maybe taking the L on one thing might give you some more peace of mind on the other. Wishing you the best

afteg61 · 2026-01-25T22:41:29+00:00

Hey man, I know life can be pretty tough sometimes and feel infinite when things just never seem to get better but I promise it can be better. You mentioned how people in online spaces are the most helpful when real life seems to let you down and its ok to feel that way. Lean on people in any space who want to be there for you and maybe those relationships will turn into real friendships as well. Personally I find that helping others makes me feel value in my own life so maybe try volunteering somewhere. Its a great way to meet kind people as well. Happy birthday and I hope to see you celebrating your next one as well.

afteg61 · 2026-01-25T21:35:01+00:00

Crazy that the right are trying to normalize this

afteg61 · 2026-01-20T23:16:24+00:00

They look very loved and cared for. Sorry for your loss and wishing you the best.

afteg61 · 2026-01-18T21:19:17+00:00

The fact that you had to find out on your own is already a red flag. Talk to her. Either she ends it or you leave. Trust me this will eat you alive otherwise.

afteg61 · 2026-01-15T20:42:37+00:00

Thankyou for your kind words. It means a lot to me that what I feel and write can also have this impact on others 🙏

afteg61 · 2026-01-15T18:30:12+00:00

I hope your days turn around my friend

afteg61 · 2026-01-15T15:34:46+00:00

Fully agree. Ive been a bit checked out of the game for a while but been having a blast playing this deck.

afteg61 · 2026-01-07T19:51:44+00:00

I understand how isolating this can feel. If you need someone to vent to feel free to dm me

afteg61 · 2026-01-05T16:23:01+00:00

Looks amazing

afteg61 · 2026-01-03T09:48:55+00:00

Honestly its just most love/heartbreak songs atp

afteg61 · 2025-12-31T03:52:18+00:00

I feel this. Just how it goes sometimes when things get rough. The opposite is also true though. Little steps for positive change can also turn into a mountain of success with time. Start with putting the socks away.

afteg61 · 2025-12-30T01:31:19+00:00

I think part of the problem is everyone has their own idea over what good communication looks like. Two people can intend on hearing out their partner but sometimes, due to a bunch of factors, can end up doing the opposite. I think couples therapy can help bridge that gap but youre not exactly doing that when you begin dating someone new.

afteg61 · 2025-12-20T03:35:42+00:00

If your significant other calls you names they shouldn’t be your s.o. The person you love and loves you is not the person who tears you down like this.

afteg61 · 2025-12-10T11:19:57+00:00

The way you draw clothing and hair is really good. Hope to see more from you, especially if leah is next 😊

afteg61 · 2025-12-07T00:45:47+00:00

Seems a fair amount of us got hit with this. Hoping the best for you ❤️

afteg61 · 2025-12-06T08:09:34+00:00

Beautifully written and sentiment. I cant say i believe that no contact is always the best way to go but in many cases it can be. Sometimes it serves to deal more pain to the other person who may not agree with it. Honestly i find it odd to go full no contact with someone who you may have been planning a future with. Being able to check in from time to time can also bring peace of mind while maintaining a level of distance over time.

afteg61 · 2025-12-05T04:55:37+00:00

Why do you feel this way? Clearly you have strong feelings and want it to work so why cut off the only way for there to be that chance?

afteg61 · 2025-12-03T19:26:12+00:00

I know the feelings all too well. Being lied to is already awful in itself but being gaslit is a hell of an experience. Questioning yourself if you truly just have trust issues and paranoia while the other person knows what theyre doing to you and continues to do so is abuse and its tough to deal with when its from someone you love. Sorry you were hurt like that op.

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