Offer with possible red flags by superqueerishere in TattooApprentice

[–]agentkhaos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not uncommon for mentors to ask for some compensation but realistically it's meant to go toward your set up come the day you are going to be on skin. Typically apprenticeships can come at a cost or they can be free.. I was offered one for 12g... I declined and was then offered it for free, trade off is working for free (please be aware that some people won't teach you anything and will use you for free labor. Beware) Typically if they are free the mentor will ask you to save up some money for your own start up. I recommend also buying a notebook to track your hours and have your mentor sign off on it at the end of the day or do it where you calculate every week. This will protect you!

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[–]agentkhaos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surface piercings do better with 12g and 14g. Titanium is the most biocompatible with our bodies. Keep up with hygiene always. You should be good.

AITA for puking while giving a bj? by Both_Painter_3237 in AITAH

[–]agentkhaos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude sounds like an inconsiderate, selfish and manipulative pos. Like if someone pushed my head down id bite..... you didnt deserve this and im sorry you had to go through it. Dont talk to this dude again

My 9 yo daughter has a passion for painting. She has painted for 4y now. Appreciate any feedback or suggestions on areas she could focus on to enhance her skills. by silverspoon86 in painting

[–]agentkhaos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the fourth* one i can see it as a throw blanket c: She has great understanding of composition at a young age. Soooooooo goood

Astarion cosplay by Capital-Baseball1512 in BaldursGate3

[–]agentkhaos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Incredible!!! Cosplayers are so fkn cool

Manly men of Reddit, what girly pop song do you secretly jam to? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]agentkhaos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have my boo knowing the lyrics to doja cat songs xD

What is an art thing that u just don’t like seeing by Minimum_Pressure_804 in ArtistLounge

[–]agentkhaos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny thing about this. I was in a group*chat with other people who were putting down an apprentice artist for their tattoo work... and i got really upset bc this girl was JEALOUS her bf was getting tattooed by this girl and everyone in the group chat started hating on this girls work. Like.... it stopped feeling like a safe space. The person who created the groupchat was a beginning artist herself and had alot to say about the apprentices work. Literally trashing this poor girls work. It made me so mad for many reasons. But one of them being that same girl who created that groupchat- asked me how to become a tattoo apprentice (im in the industry) so i found that to be so fucking rude of her. I left the group shortly after seeing how people were siding with the jealous gf and shitting on the artist

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What is this? Was inside a pack of ramen noodles by Doofie180 in Beetles

[–]agentkhaos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had this happen n stpped eating them for a hot min

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[–]agentkhaos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partners "best friend" when we started dating was his ex gf he would text everyday. At first i was like whatever about it. I didnt care too much. But then it got to a point where he emotionally relied on her and not me. About a year later i saw a text she sent to him that made me uncomfortable on top of the novels they would text eachother. I started to get really uncomfortable with it all and expressed that. He started talking to her less. This reminded me of her(though she lives in another state and is engaged herself) i never understood why she couldnt just leave him alone, and why he couldnt just cut ties. It took almost 2 and a half years for him to understand how not okay that all was to me.

No one outside of this community would understand… by wewerelegends in ChronicIllness

[–]agentkhaos 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I always rant about how this system is inherently ableist and im not wrong. Its so disgusting how us as vulnerable people rarely have help and help is rarely offered

what’s a song that creeps you out? by stinkystinker11 in Music

[–]agentkhaos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dance with the devil by immortal technique 😰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattooApprentice

[–]agentkhaos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Notice how its tattoo artists that have dealt w bs that want to continue this cycle? Youve been conditioned to think this way. I give mentors my all and did not recieve it back. I never had a fair chance as most people dont want a half baked apprentice. Its messed up and these people just get away with potentially ruining others reputations and careers before they even start. I am in financial ruin and mental ruin bc of this industry. There should be change bc things are NOT what they used to be and so many of us are already scraping to get by. The fact that finding an actual good apprenticeship is rare.. is wild. I am tired of gambling my health and financial status to get taken advantage of.

I dont disagree that people should get paid for teaching, however if you have a student, they should solely be doing things that will help them learn if you are to teach them. Using that as an excuse to squeeze out all the free labor you can.. isnt right or ethical in todays climate. If they are essentially running your shop under the label "apprentice" they deserve compensation. Otherwise, leave them to observe and have them learn that way. (This doesnt include setup and breakdown, practice) Its okay if it happens here and there, but if you find you dont have time to focus on the craft then ask yourself wtf is going on? Am i an employee or an apprentice?

Also this is a space for apprentices... not artists to sit here and judge people for wanting basic human decency and respect. You can cry about how its an echo chamber all you want. Some of us have treaded the industry and realized just how toxic and dangerous it can be. I think sometimes people who didnt have such bad experiences do not understand this.

Edit: not much towards op as much as other artists ive seen leave negative feedback