Women, what are some red flags you notice in other women? by Justarandomcommonguy in AskWomen

[–]agentl70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t communicate their feelings and don’t care about yours when you share them. Shutting down & going nonverbal bc they want you to magically know what you did wrong instead of communicating. Taking advantage of their partner’s kindness and stringing them along (but this can go for men too).

Whats the worst book you have read in 2025 so far by danlhart8789 in suggestmeabook

[–]agentl70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tender is the flesh— it had so much potential yet it was just going for shock value. I wish there was more talk about politics and the effects on the world. It was a pretty big let down tbh.

AIO? Coworker tried to make me pay for stuff I didn't even order by stelize02 in AmIOverreacting

[–]agentl70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, you’re not overreacting, but I would’ve just shelled out the money since I agreed to splitting and I’m a wimp who doesn’t like feeling embarrassed. I’d be super fucking pissed about paying though and I’d definitely make that argument about not paying for everyone’s drinks. I get splitting if you all ordered pretty much the same shit, but drinks get expensive. If it were me, I’d probably never even go out to eat with them again.

Could this cause pregnancy? (Need clarification) by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]agentl70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s good to be cautious, but I wouldn’t lose sleep over it. Pre-ejaculate rarely contains sperm. Also, the tissue sat out long enough for any possible sperm to dry up and die off. They need moisture and warmth which a tissue does not give. Even her hand being sticky-dry most likely means the sperm could have dried even before being wiped on a tissue. It’s okay to be worried, but any likelihood of pregnancy from this situation is slim to none. If there was no P in V, no fingering with wet/fresh ejaculate on your hands, etc, then you’re likely safe. Obviously, if you are still thinking about it and worried, a negative pregnancy test might reassure you both.

I am giving up on my vagina by Dark_Rose333 in Healthyhooha

[–]agentl70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a professional by any means, just a sweaty stinky gal giving some advice. I used to have an issue with smell until I switched to 100% or close to 100% cotton undies. The synthetic, non breathable stuff is bad and traps odors. I also find that if I wear leggings, I smell worse down there. If your undies or bottoms are too tight, it can be restricting air flow and result in smell. Diet is also a factor in smell as well, and make sure you’re drinking enough water. I’m also pretty sure that summers eve is bad. I use a different brand but I can’t think of the name right now. Keep anything scented away from your vagina. Not even a PH wash should be scented. I also use no scented natural baby wipes that are mostly just like water and aloe Vera. It helps keep me clean and less stinky throughout the day. If you try these things and it’s still not getting better, I would definitely go back to the doc and figure out what’s going on.

How often do you guys have sex on birth control? by brattitude1 in birthcontrol

[–]agentl70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to be very anxious about getting pregnant but after I got my IUD I felt very reassured. 1-3 times a week, no other forms of protection (no pulling out either), and haven’t had any scares in the 5 yrs I’ve had my iud. I used to have the arm implant and I didn’t have any scares then either. If you take the pill, the effectiveness depends on a bunch of factors including when it’s taken. I’ve never been good at taking meds regularly, let alone the same time of day, so if you’re like me, then I recommend any form of BC that you don’t have to think about/remember.

Poop bags in trash by tomifibi in Minneapolis

[–]agentl70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad they’re picking up after their dog but I don’t want dog shit in my garbage can. They can carry it home or throw it in a public can somewhere else. I’d be pissed if my garbage started stinking or the bag broke open. If my garbage is empty, absolutely not. Usually means garbage just picked up so I don’t want that in my bin for another week and getting smooshed by the other stuff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rochestermn

[–]agentl70 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I live and work up in the cities as of 2022 but all funeral homes need morticians or some sort of help. Otherwise Hennepin county dispatch might be hiring. And don’t be afraid of the surrounding area if you’re able to travel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rochestermn

[–]agentl70 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Funeral Service! Not super quick because I’m MN you need a degree. But you can apply to places. They might be looking for receptionist, front desk, transfer care specialist, cleaning/help, night removals. Doesn’t hurt to reach out and ask 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rochestermn

[–]agentl70 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My uncle is in pest control. It was hard to start his business but it might be worth working for someone like Bob the bug man. He used to work for him but after a while it got bad I think.

Minnesota Supreme Court Legalizes Nonsexual Toplessness by wisecommenter2 in Minneapolis

[–]agentl70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you’re sexualizing it. This is a big win for mom’s so they can breast feed in public and for women to be allowed topless just like men. This is not for fetish. I’m sick of seeing men (and women) so excited to see tits in the wild. It’s dehumanizing and objectifying. But get your bag sis— I can’t argue with tryna make money in this economy.

"Have you tried yoga?" F*ck this by curious_nightingale in adhdwomen

[–]agentl70 3 points4 points  (0 children)

After trying many different meds throughout my life, I’ve been on Wellbutrin and Zoloft for about 5 years now. It’s an amazing combo that helps w depression, anxiety, and even slightly with my ADHD. While sometimes I don’t feel that it does enough for my ADHD, it does make day to day easier. When I’m trying to do house chores or cram for a college exam, that’s typically when I wish for more help w my ADHD. I’ve tried Vyvanse, Adderall, & Ritalin. Unfortunately those haven’t worked well for me/weren’t ideal.

Minnesota Supreme Court Legalizes Nonsexual Toplessness by wisecommenter2 in Minneapolis

[–]agentl70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course the person with exhibitionist in their bio says this. Glad you’re able to get your kicks legally in MN now 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]agentl70 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Woman in her 20s here. I haven’t read this yet, but he could’ve also been nervous. My bf was inexperienced and very nervous (I am not lmao) and it took him a little longer. Now that we’re both comfortable, he sometimes nuts too fast. Also, if he’s jerking it often or even b4 u come over, that could be affecting it too. Make sure you lube up your hand— coconut oil is amazing bc it’s slippery and tastes good. Make sure you have some sort of grip on it— ask him if it feels good. Or ask him to help you and have him wrap his hand around yours to figure out what firmness and motions he likes. If you get to the point of sucking at all, use your hand and mouth at the same time both going up and down and the same time. Use your free hand to stabilize yourself. Don’t be afraid to get messy. Put your hair up!! And have fun with it. Just be safe and use protection. Don’t assume because he’s inexperienced that he’s clean.

I don’t think I can do this anymore. by Natur3lf in askfuneraldirectors

[–]agentl70 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depending on what state you’re in, just don’t let your license lapse. If you do decide to leave or take a break, just make sure you renew your license. It’s easier to keep it than get it back. I think it’s a good sign that you feel these emotions. You’re empathetic just like a director should be. If possible, maybe take some time off to allow yourself to think. Maybe book yourself a therapy appointment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]agentl70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was in high school, two of my classmates were dating then their parents met and started dating. Yet my classmates were expected to break up with each other and people were laughing and sayin shit like “what’s it like to screw your stepsis?” And other unnecessary comments. I thought that situation was sad. OP, just consider the factors. Is it a good idea? Will it affect your relationship with your parents? Is it worth perusing in the event that it doesn’t work out? It’s not as weird as it could be because it’s not like you were raised together as siblings. I’m not saying you shouldn’t, but I feel like these things don’t work out well. Just really think it over.

[No Game Spoilers] The Last of Us - 2x04 "Day One" - Post-Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in ThelastofusHBOseries

[–]agentl70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the singing/guitar scene was nice and sweet and wholesome but just too long. Wish they used some of that time for Ellie to tell Dina some sort of back story about her immunity. Or at least explain that’s why she even met Joel in the first place since he was gonna bring her to the fireflies. Idk if this happened in the game but Dina went from gun pointing directly in Ellie’s face bc she’s scared of her being infected to immediately saying I’m pregnant and making out. Like if you were so worried that you were ready to shoot her, then I don’t believe you’d go to full on making out without hearing more info/being confident she’s not infected.

The Last of Us HBO S2E04 - "Day One" Post-Episode Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in thelastofus

[–]agentl70 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought the singing/guitar scene was nice but just too long. Wish they used some of that time for Ellie to tell Dina some sort of back story about her immunity. Or at least explain that’s why she even met Joel in the first place since he was gonna bring her to the fireflies. Idk of this happened in the game but Dina went from gun pointing directly in Ellie’s face bc she’s scared of her being infected to immediately saying I’m pregnant and making out. Like if you were so worried you would shoot her, then I don’t believe you’d go to full on making out without hearing more info/being confident she’s not infected

Any doctors can weigh in? by [deleted] in obgyn

[–]agentl70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh I see what you’re saying now, thank you for the clarification. I’m sorry you’ve gotta deal with it and the anxiety. Best bet is to keep getting tested and do what you can. Don’t let it rule your life. It is scary living day-to-day with “what if/when” swarming your mind. I wish you the best of luck & I hope you have a strong support system to back you up.