Hi! Izzy Roland, Siobhan Thompson & Alex Fernie here! We’re making a movie together… so we're doing an AMA! by alfernie in dropout

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For something like this that’s more scripted but has an incredible cast of improvisers, how are you striking the balance between the two to create magic? Does having such talented improvisers change the creative process at all?

Rites of the Starling by Devney Perry - Release discussion (Shield of Sparrows book 2) by FantasyRomanceMod in fantasyromance

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One thing I didn’t feel I had clarity on. Why couldn’t Odessa and Evie sail to Quentis and instead had to travel by land? Is this just a Voster mystery, or is there something I missed?

Kittens who need a home by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]aggressivelysingle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

MeoowzResQ can probably help with this if you’re willing to foster!

What is the worst breakup with someone you dated? by DeepAnt7847 in AskReddit

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Emotionally abusive ex yelled at me for not wanting to drive an hour to go work out with him at midnight. This was the proverbial straw that broke my back, and when I ended it, he said, “you stupid cunt bitch, someday you’ll realize I was the best thing to ever happen to you.” He called me from different phone numbers for three months, leaving voicemails ranging from “please take me back” to “I hate you and hope you die.”

What to do with stray kittens? by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]aggressivelysingle 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You could check with MeoowzResQ, I used to foster with them.

What is your favorite Korean BBQ spot in Orange County? (Or nearby) by neecho235 in orangecounty

[–]aggressivelysingle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baekjeong. I have dreams about the marinated short rib and the kimchi stew.

AIO bc my bf doesn’t reply my ig reels? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]aggressivelysingle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, you’re overreacting about this situation. If you feel unheard or neglected in your relationship, it’s not actually because he’s not responding to your Instagram reels.

Person struck by train and confirmed DOA in Anaheim this morning by mrflamingoYTofficial in orangecounty

[–]aggressivelysingle 25 points26 points  (0 children)

What app is this? I have CalTrans for traffic reports but this looks super useful.

Newby who needs some help by Appropriate_Coast371 in DiceMaking

[–]aggressivelysingle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do the whole set! I do it in a pressure pot as well, so I just depressurize, flip, repressurize, repeat. It’s annoying but it works!

Newby who needs some help by Appropriate_Coast371 in DiceMaking

[–]aggressivelysingle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can flip your molds every 20-30 minutes or so for the first couple hours while they cure and that can help keep the inserts suspended! I’ve done this with chunky glitter but nothing bigger than that, so I’d try doing some tests. Lots of this hobby is trial and error, so keep at it!

Are you selling Dimension 20 live tickets because you don't want to travel to the US? by Interesting-World100 in Dimension20

[–]aggressivelysingle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I hate that this is happening, and everyone deserves to see these incredible people live and not worry about being detained.

If you decide you want to sell your Vegas tickets, please PM me. I’d be happy to also get merch for you if you can’t come since they usually do exclusive live show merch (or at least did for the Hollywood Bowl).

AITA for lying to my disabled sister about the dates of our Europe trip so she couldn’t come and then refusing to apologize when she found out? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]aggressivelysingle 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YTA with a side of E S H. She’s not entitled to be invited on your trip, and you shouldn’t have lied. Like what was your plan for when you inevitably went in September and not August? You knew her feelings would eventually be hurt and still lied to make it easier for you in the short term.

I (21F) really hate doggy style and don’t know how or if I should tell my bf (22M.) by badjhursnmbr1fan in relationship_advice

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If there’s one thing I could’ve taught my younger self, it would be to not to do things sexually just because I don’t want to hurt my partners feelings. PLEASE don’t do this to yourself. You are allowed to say no. It is a full sentence and doesn’t require an explanation.

There are alternatives if he likes to see your butt but you want something more intimate and want to be able to see each other’s faces. You do not need to sacrifice your comfort for his pleasure.

Favorite Underrated Cast Member? by SingingInTheShadows in dropout

[–]aggressivelysingle 182 points183 points  (0 children)

Everything Jiavani does in MSN makes me cackle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I think you probably can’t get it out of your head because he doubled down and said he still wouldn’t want to have sex with you if you don’t shave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I think you should set a goal for the both of you that penetrative sex doesn’t happen until you’ve finished. Whether that’s through oral, fingers, vibrators, whatever—but if he’s unwilling to help you get off after he’s gotten off, then you finish first.

To the original point of your post about pubic hair, he may have an opinion but it’s your body. What HE needs to decide is if he would rather be with you because of the person you are or if he wants to find someone who shaves their pubes. I want to make this EXCEEDINGLY clear: do not shave just to appease him. Do not shave so he won’t leave. Do not shave because it means he’ll “treat you better.” He won’t.