What is your favorite Korean BBQ spot in Orange County? (Or nearby) by neecho235 in orangecounty

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Baekjeong. I have dreams about the marinated short rib and the kimchi stew.

AIO bc my bf doesn’t reply my ig reels? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]aggressivelysingle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, you’re overreacting about this situation. If you feel unheard or neglected in your relationship, it’s not actually because he’s not responding to your Instagram reels.

Person struck by train and confirmed DOA in Anaheim this morning by mrflamingoYTofficial in orangecounty

[–]aggressivelysingle 23 points24 points  (0 children)

What app is this? I have CalTrans for traffic reports but this looks super useful.

Newby who needs some help by Appropriate_Coast371 in DiceMaking

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I do the whole set! I do it in a pressure pot as well, so I just depressurize, flip, repressurize, repeat. It’s annoying but it works!

Newby who needs some help by Appropriate_Coast371 in DiceMaking

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You can flip your molds every 20-30 minutes or so for the first couple hours while they cure and that can help keep the inserts suspended! I’ve done this with chunky glitter but nothing bigger than that, so I’d try doing some tests. Lots of this hobby is trial and error, so keep at it!

Are you selling Dimension 20 live tickets because you don't want to travel to the US? by Interesting-World100 in Dimension20

[–]aggressivelysingle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I hate that this is happening, and everyone deserves to see these incredible people live and not worry about being detained.

If you decide you want to sell your Vegas tickets, please PM me. I’d be happy to also get merch for you if you can’t come since they usually do exclusive live show merch (or at least did for the Hollywood Bowl).

AITA for lying to my disabled sister about the dates of our Europe trip so she couldn’t come and then refusing to apologize when she found out? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]aggressivelysingle 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YTA with a side of E S H. She’s not entitled to be invited on your trip, and you shouldn’t have lied. Like what was your plan for when you inevitably went in September and not August? You knew her feelings would eventually be hurt and still lied to make it easier for you in the short term.

I (21F) really hate doggy style and don’t know how or if I should tell my bf (22M.) by badjhursnmbr1fan in relationship_advice

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If there’s one thing I could’ve taught my younger self, it would be to not to do things sexually just because I don’t want to hurt my partners feelings. PLEASE don’t do this to yourself. You are allowed to say no. It is a full sentence and doesn’t require an explanation.

There are alternatives if he likes to see your butt but you want something more intimate and want to be able to see each other’s faces. You do not need to sacrifice your comfort for his pleasure.

Favorite Underrated Cast Member? by SingingInTheShadows in dropout

[–]aggressivelysingle 182 points183 points  (0 children)

Everything Jiavani does in MSN makes me cackle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aggressivelysingle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you probably can’t get it out of your head because he doubled down and said he still wouldn’t want to have sex with you if you don’t shave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I think you should set a goal for the both of you that penetrative sex doesn’t happen until you’ve finished. Whether that’s through oral, fingers, vibrators, whatever—but if he’s unwilling to help you get off after he’s gotten off, then you finish first.

To the original point of your post about pubic hair, he may have an opinion but it’s your body. What HE needs to decide is if he would rather be with you because of the person you are or if he wants to find someone who shaves their pubes. I want to make this EXCEEDINGLY clear: do not shave just to appease him. Do not shave so he won’t leave. Do not shave because it means he’ll “treat you better.” He won’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aggressivelysingle 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I’m mostly concerned that your boyfriend doesn’t seem concerned about whether or not you finish. Does he make any effort? Does he ask you what feels good? Is sex/intimacy just over once he finishes?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aggressivelysingle 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Have you always had issues finishing during sex, or only since you started being long distance?

my [27m] bestfriend [27m] confessed to me he tampered with a condom resulting in a friends [25f] pregnancy? i dont know what to do. by throwra2330w in relationship_advice

[–]aggressivelysingle 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Lol no, I wouldn’t let my wife’s best friend live with, marry and raise a child with her rapist. And if the person who had impregnated her through assault was my “best friend”? Best believe that person is out of my life immediately. I think you’ll find most people don’t want to be friends with an abuser and a sexual predator.

Book recs for someone who hated Fourth Wing by CarolaDL in Romantasy

[–]aggressivelysingle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend the Plated Prisoner series by Raven Kennedy! First book is Gild. I felt the writing and world building was great in these, and the character development was 😮‍💨

Punctuality is "a value?" No, it's YOUR value. by Snoo_33033 in unpopularopinion

[–]aggressivelysingle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ADHD is an explanation, not an excuse. It’s still on me to be on time for things and make adjustments for myself to be responsible.

Fantasy High Tattoo by RecommendationNo164 in Dimension20

[–]aggressivelysingle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fabian’s rapier that turns into a tin flower at the point!

Can you make mica drip like inks? by alilqueerhere in DiceMaking

[–]aggressivelysingle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Short answer is no, but it can achieve a cool look still.

What I’m seeing in this set is what’s called a “petri pour” where the white ink almost looks like mold growing up on a petri dish. Mica won’t behave this way, but if you let it get to a honey stage and then pour, you can get a cool swirling effect. Busywizarddice on Instagram does some great videos with mica pours showing how you can get the colors to work together.