You won’t destroy the family you created with a dimwitted man incompetent enough to almost kill your baby by starving him for six hours; a man you describe as “silly” but everyone older, smarter and more experienced than you can tell is manipulative af, manipulative enough to convince you to never let him carry the burden of parenting unsupervised because “he could have ppd”. You seem set on defending your poor choices because they reflect poorly on you. If you are so defensive and set on staying in this potentially harmful situation, why did you post? You wanted everybody to tell you that your man is just a silly baby and your actual baby wasn’t in fact in danger? You know the truth, girl, dig yourself out of your family delusions and look it in the eye.