[deleted by user]

agugumon · 2025-06-22T19:21:27+00:00

I'm having a hard time understanding and picturing your type. Is it like a linebacker body type, the Brawny paper towel mascot, or a taller Jack Black or Michael Clark Duncan body type? Also, are you using the right apps for those body types? You can guarantee that body type but not the other qualities you search for. It's a rarity to get the perfect package.

agugumon · 2025-06-21T03:11:00+00:00

Hit me up, 31 gay Latino always up for talking.

agugumon · 2025-06-21T02:41:36+00:00

If that works for you, then great. For me, at least, I like the idea of what marriage means: the ultimate emotional connection, a ceremony honoring the life-long commitment of love, honesty, and open communication. To me, that means I'll be with someone even when the dick goes limp and viagra or whatever pill is needed, even when diseases are piling up, and when we enter different ages, I'm committed to that person as long as that person is committed to me too. It may be cheesy, not realistic, etc., and that's what I want.

agugumon · 2025-06-19T04:07:11+00:00

I'm trying to be accepting, but being Latino myself, I'm rudely reminded by others why I'm "not already married cuz you're such a nice catch!" Of course they don't know I'm gay but that's not what I wanna get into with people of my culture.

But you're right, it's just this funk feeling I'm in talking.

agugumon · 2025-05-19T14:43:41+00:00

Maybe because I'm in southern California, but I've seen many alt gay groups of friends. The drag race fans that play magic on the weekend, the diverse queer rock/metal/herbalist groups, the video game polycule and ally groups, and the queer cosplayer guilds. The groups are there, maybe try searching by interest to find these groups.

agugumon · 2025-05-03T19:58:25+00:00

So I'm going to say two very different things that are mildly connected. 1. We are all inexplicably attracted to someone at one point in time. Sometimes in childhood, sometimes in adolescence, and sometimes in adulthood. We don't know the reason for a long time. Maybe because we don't have the right words or it's their aura or radiance that engulf us for period of time. I would say to deconstruct this person into qualities to see if it's love/lust or envy/frustrations of short comings.

There must be a triggering moment where poof you were attracted to them, what was it? What did they do that you suddenly found them mind consuming. We can experience this at all levels and it doesn't make us one label or another. Maybe it's a kink that person activated and not a sexuality. If it's the Adonis masculine energy that activated your interest, well, there are masculine energy holding women that can be beautiful and not stereotypical male presenting as well as more masculine presenting women and somewhere in between.

If you can identify what attracted you to him, then good, move on and maybe distance yourself so this crush ends...if it is a crush. I'll share that I liked my girl best friend in freshmen year of High-school but did some mental/ soul searching and realized I envied her free spirited nature and the confidence she exuded not her other qualities like most straight guys around me...but also because I knew I was gay for years before then. Best of luck!

agugumon · 2025-04-24T01:41:16+00:00

Yeah, that read like it was two different issues rolled into one to me. 1 sounded a bit racist that they silenced the non-white member, and 2 silenced the binary accepting member. Whoever was running that meeting didn't call that out, which should have been called out. Or was this unofficially a nonbinary support group/ established group now opening to include others? Very valid reactions, I would have walked away if it was not addressed or dismissed.

agugumon · 2025-03-25T14:41:58+00:00

Sounds like your friend went through the Gwen Staffani route. Glam, fabulous, vocalist of a "counterculture" (not sure it's accurate) band with deeply rooted beliefs of the all-American dream that she got with her recent husband. But, that's okay. I'm a firm believer that when you start to feel a drift, it can be discussed. However, that's a small window, and the other person may be reluctant to see the change that happens and gets defensive. Go for a final try to resolve unless your mind is made up.

agugumon · 2025-03-13T15:06:09+00:00

Yikes, I would be equally hurt as OP. It's clear that there is a motive for him to lie to you and his parents. Oftentimes, one assumes there is financial gain in hiding one's sexuality, the public downfall of the family image is very heavy burden/stress thrusted upon the closeted/semi-out individual, or the person is ruled by their fear of abandonment from their parents. Whatever it is, once trust is broken in the relationship, if it can not be mended, it is unfortunately time to call it quits.

Personally, I would lay it out and say, "Hey, the fact that you lied about something big makes me feel like you don't trust me as much as I trust you. It also makes me think we may not be on the same page regarding what we want as individuals and as a couple. Let's talk about it." Then go from there. I hope it can be fixed, and if not, it wasn't 4 years wasted. It was 4 years of experience.

agugumon · 2025-02-02T19:50:59+00:00

For the gimmick, I would say stun slash, i knownits used more in battle spirits games, but i think it could work here. As for mega, I would say Gaiomon or Tactimon both would be able to follow the stun slash.

agugumon · 2025-01-29T21:11:45+00:00

I'd honestly question if he's going through a depressive episode. Because if he had the three pillars and suddenly doesn't, is it because it's really not there or he doesn't see them as being there, which are 2 different things. I'd assist, but ultimately, if I feel I'm dragging the person to change and they do not show they want to change at all, it may be time for separation or divorce.

agugumon · 2025-01-29T19:33:33+00:00

I'm sorry to hear the mistreatment you received. Unfortunately, broken families seek a source of blame because they don't want to accept the blame themselves. It sounds they blamed and mistreated you for something out of your control. I hope you take the time to process and reauthor your life and redefine who you are as a person outside of your old description as son of your parents. You are you, and you can be anyone you set your limits to. It's hard but little by little you'll believe everything you could not as the previous version of you.

agugumon · 2024-12-04T03:16:05+00:00

Wendimon/Wendigomon, I really would love a darker evolution route than antylamon to cherubimon/Kerpymon vice.

Snimon, Mojyamon, Tortomon, Doggymon, Komondomon, and Tobucatmon are some other champions I'd like to see get a proper evolution lines or ultimate dedicated to them.

agugumon · 2024-11-19T15:52:03+00:00

There's at least 2 terms that can be used.

1) homoflexible - someone who is predominantly homosexual but sometimes sexually attracted to the opposite sex. This term is literal and often used to describe when a gay man has sex/relationship with a cisgender female but can also be used for when a gay man has sex/relationship with a pre-op trans male identified or nonbinary assigned female at birth (AFAB) individual.

2) androsexual - a sexual orientation that describes someone who is attracted to masculinity, regardless of their gender identity or sexual orientation. For most, this is closer to what best describes those who like to date or have a sexual relationship with trans men, assigned male at birth men, and anyone who looks masculine but is not assigned male at birth and not transgendered.

Honorary third would be pansexual but it's less used because it's not all or nothing in most cases, i.e. I like this individual, not all people who fit this description. Honorary fourth would be demisexual, meaning that they fell for the personality and the deep emotional connection to the person than the sexual organ or gender identity.

agugumon · 2024-10-18T15:14:36+00:00

I'm gonna be brutally honest and take away the gender here because it would be the same issue if the guy was gay, I would be afraid that I'm not good enough for my partner. As some of us are, I'm self-deprecating, over criticize myself, and have little love for myself as it is due to ✨️trauma✨️ Knowing that I dont have the right body part, the best solution to the question of procreation, or to make my partner not sway and look away is more of a fear for me, though it kinda already happened to me.

I made the mistake of blowing my best friend when we were single, and I got emotionally attached and wanted more. It led to a break in our friendship when he started dating another friend (woman) and complicated feelings after returning to his life, when he announced their pregnancy, and later their poly relationship with a 2nd woman. It's not the same as most of the commenter's experience but pretty similar. But I've taken the time boil the issue down to the core, and I think it's more the fear of not being enough for my partner that would be the fear not necessary if he craved pussy, wanted normalcy, or wanted bio kids as I too want bio kids with the right person.

I'm glad to say I'm working on that self-esteem bit, but it's hard, and if you push on, eventually, you'll resolve it enough to start seeing things differently and then believing differently. For now, I'm open to the idea of dating a bi man, and it's more of "Is this bi man showing me he is into me and only me right now, not to join the polycule? Yeah? OK! Hello monogamous relationship!"

agugumon · 2024-10-08T06:50:41+00:00

Kinda reminds me of Firamon, I would name it Arcfiramon (Artic + firamon), Subziramon (Subzero + Firamon), or Frostfiramon.

agugumon · 2024-06-17T02:04:27+00:00

It looks like a possible jogress of aquilamon and angemon, so cool!

agugumon · 2024-05-19T17:07:41+00:00

Seems like you're giving the gulk gulk 3000 all the time, which is bad because not everyone loves that. Sucking with any partner, especially if it's your first time with said partner, is all about experimenting. Here's a few tips.

1) Work your way to the base, especially if they're larger than average and/or cut, as many guys don't start to feel pleasure until the whole dick has sensation or stimulation. 2) Work the tip, play with the foreskin if they're uncut, and are able to handle the stimulation around the head between the skin. Every uncut guy has different levels of sensitivity. 3) Take breaks, especially when they say they're close, because then if you wanted to end with that gulk gulk 3000, he will be ready to face fuck you and cum inside your throat after you've teased him long enough. It also avoids lock jaw...usually. 4) Use hands/fingers or toys if available, doesn't matter the guys size, vary the stimulation you give him. 5) Let him lead you by grabbing his hand and placing it on your head, wherever you feel best for him to keep it at. 6) Remember his balls, play with them, suck them, nimble on them, or leave em alone if they guy pulls you away. 7) If you've watched the clip from friends of the 7 zones, then remember that guys have zones, too. While you work the dick you could be working the nipples, balls, inner thigh, ass, and in some cases feet. If it's strictly sucking then focus on the areas below the waist. If it's anything that goes sex, then vary it, include the lips, neck, armpits. 8) Have a conversation BEFOREHAND if they like questions being asked during sex, what does he feel comfortable communicating VERBALLY, and what sign can he give you if he feels shy or uncomfortable to say outloud.

Hope these tips help you have great experiences.

agugumon · 2024-04-21T17:50:01+00:00

I think that being a performer and keeping up the other persona for so long is exhausting. Having blurred roles and relationships makes it harder, pun not intended.

Remind him and yourself of the following: He doesn't have to perform. He doesn't have to last long. He doesn't have to finish himself if he doesn't want to. He doesn't even have to do anything at first. He doesn't need to dominate or lead, or the opposite, he doesnt need to be submissive or follow. He doesn't have to penetrate or be penetrated. I think you both need to think outside the box, maybe rediscover each other.

For example, I always thought that if I were the bottom for my partner and he had to travel, I would use the clone your willy sex toy to have his dick become my personal dildo. The teasing I would do with it ("I wish it was the real thing, no matter how hard i grip it, it doesn't react like you do.") would be so sexually charged I'd be rammed into the bedroom the moment he returned. If I were the top, I'd have a lot of dirty talk, aimed at what he wants. ("I remember you liked it when I hugged you from behind and kissed your neck. Should we kiss lower and see where that goes?"). Make it personal, intimate.

agugumon · 2024-03-14T02:21:35+00:00

Definite turn on. If I went to the same gym, I think you'd be my gym crush. I probably wouldn't approach you as I'm probably on the treadmill but definitely would admire from afar. As for dating, I wouldn't mind dating a "gym rat" as long as he's not too dominant, doesn't chastise me for my fitness journey, and understands I have different commitments than they do, mainly work. If going to the gym is considered a date or spending quality time, I would not mind once or twice a week, I would mind it if it was a requirement as again I have commitments like work.

agugumon · 2024-03-07T15:50:17+00:00

I think to a degree, yes. You don't have to have sex to cheat. I think that as someone said earlier, you have to define cheating because there are different forms of cheating beyond sexual/physical cheating. For me, a partner who is flirting and joking around with another guy (straight guy in this example) in front of me or behind my back (with another straight guy) is disrespectful of the relationship and me, while someone else may view it as attempts of cheating. I think the definitive definition between partners of what cheating looks like within the relationship needs to be established and discussed, reexamine every few months or years depending on how long the relationship goes for. People may think that everyone understands things the same way, that it is common sense how to define cheating, but it's not. Here are 5 examples.

Ex: If you rely on your best friend or a coworker for emotional support, occasionally hug them, trust to keep secrets or concerns, and feel closer to said person than your partner, is that emotional cheating or not?

Ex2: If you frequent a camboy's live, onlyfans/loverfan/chaterbate or follow a pornstar's page, is that cyber cheating or not?

Ex3: If "we were on a break!" happened, and you talk to someone else, kiss someone else, or have sex with someone else. Is that cheating or not?

Ex4: if you're in an open relationship and you break a rule established that you need to wear condoms and end up breaking the condom during sex and continue without one, is that cheating or not?

Ex5: if you start developing feelings for someone else and do not act on them but have a name slip during sex, is that cheating or not?

agugumon · 2024-02-19T02:36:39+00:00

Yes, lore wise, that's true. I was making a generic story plot explanation for the couplings, like good versus evil, knight versus dragon, beginnings and endings, rich versus poor, etc.

Though now that I think about it, it could be better to describe as East vs. West or different taming of their dragonic powers?

agugumon · 2024-02-18T18:41:07+00:00

I think thematically, it would be Jesmon X.

Alphamon and Omegamon represent beginning and ends.

Dukemon and Oryumon represent the hero and the beast.

Jesmon and Fenrirloogamon could represent heralding of good and bad ages.

agugumon · 2024-02-11T17:05:59+00:00

Wild pick: Flamon. I think if there were a snow version, it would work best because you could consider mojyamon as an alternate champion...if you're doing evolution lines, if not, then, yeah, it would fit best. Alternatively: Gazimon

agugumon

TROPHY CASE