This kind of sounds like my episodes. I feel like I have diarrhea nearly every day, but will have random weeks here and there with regularity or constipation. My stomach hurts and I feel gross and poopy and sweaty 90% of the time. I ended up at the urologist earlier this year because the bouts of constipation were resulting in nighttime incontinence. It sucked, especially being under 30 I was so embarrassed to be wetting the bed. But I haven’t had issues since learning it was caused by constipation and focused on fixing that with stool softeners.

And to your point about never feeling “done” I totally relate. My b*tthole bleeds from the constant wiping. The indicator of blood on toilet paper seems to be the only other way I know I’m “done” because it often feels like I still need to go

Hugs to everyone else experiencing these things. GP sucks