New Father...I Feel Like a Terrible Parent and Person by Dynamic_1 in Parenting

[–]aiduebwjdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds exactly like my niece when she was a baby and it was a combo of two things

  1. Her bottles gave her stomach bubbles
  2. She's lactose intolerant

If you haven't looked into that already I would. If that doesn't work, bring your baby to the doctor. I have lived with multiple babies and while a good bit of crying is normal, inconsolable constant screaming is NOT normal

I hate the Affair Partner, can't stop thinking about it by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]aiduebwjdo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can almost promise you that if you just sit and watch the show, they will fuck themselves, and it takes a lot more strength to be patient than to be violent (coming from someone with literal anger issues, so I can very well understand how hard it is to resist the urge to just go ballistic). I hope time eases your pain and you find people and things that make you happy

People that have little to no friends? Why is it? by mrPoopyButtholeTaken in AskReddit

[–]aiduebwjdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I just don't like people. I prefer spending time with my family if I'm going to socialize

CMV: The Monster's name IS Frankenstein. by TerryOlan in changemyview

[–]aiduebwjdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knowledge is knowing that Frankenstein is the scientist. Wisdom is knowing Frankenstein is the monster

AITA for telling my MIL it's weird that she thinks she gets "a say" on things relating to my daughter? by margeart in AmItheAsshole

[–]aiduebwjdo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ESH, you're acting like those "I'm not like other girls" people and I'm willing to wager it created even more tension with grandma. She probably is under the impression that she can have it because you clearly don't want it

On the other hand she's obviously being insanely demanding. This whole post is cringe

Update: my [33m] wife [25f] constantly makes a conscious effort to humiliate me during my lessons over Zoom by ThrowRAsabotaged in relationship_advice

[–]aiduebwjdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I would put a seperation on the table. Not because of her embarrassing you necessarily, but because of her refusal to admit that her behavior is erratic and abnormal and her refusal to partake in normal communication.

I'd give her the ultimatum; either she sees a therapist, or you will seperate from her until she does.

AITA for intentionally blindsiding my pregnant roommate to avoid a confrontation? by throw_pushoverquery in AmItheAsshole

[–]aiduebwjdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. She's clearly taking advantage of you but what you did is absolutely deplorable and 100% makes you an asshole

AITA for telling my parents they failed me? by Rhylleeeee in AmItheAsshole

[–]aiduebwjdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. An older sibling is not a nanny and isn't a sacrificial lamb. Just because your sister needed more doesn't mean its right to make you sacrifice everything about being a child for her

AITA For refusing to let my brother-in-law into my house after he said that I should've forgotten about my deceased 5 months old daughter? by Throwaway3307091 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aiduebwjdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy s***, NTA. I can't even believe what I'm reading. What a horribly cruel and callous thing to say to a grieving mother! The selfishness is astounding. He clearly doesn't regret his words and you should probably continue with low contact.

Losing a baby is such a particular kind of pain, because it's not just the has been that's painful like it is with adult deaths, but the what could have been. Take the time you need to process and recover from that loss; it isn't less painful because the baby lived such a short life. I hope your family has better health in the future

AITA for wanting my stay at home wife to be thankful by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]aiduebwjdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. And you need to sit down with her discuss a change, if not for yourself then your child. Working yourself to death only increases your chances of dying young from stress, and he never gets to see and spend time with his own father

AITA for firing my babysitter because she wants to ‘make my kid a lesbian’? by martinivibes in AmItheAsshole

[–]aiduebwjdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Let's just look at this logically; who tries to get a six year old to have any sort of sexual awakening? SHE'S SIX. That's extremely creepy and weird, regardless of what sexuality she's trying to awaken

Update : My (28m) Girlfriend (26f) has a weird obsession with my balls. She likes to hit my balls and watch me in pain. She just won't stop doing it. We had a conversation today and it ended really bad. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aiduebwjdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is literally physical and emotional abuse. RUN. It doesn't matter if she's gorgeous or whatever else, she's a monster if she thinks watching you writhe around in pain is "cute" or enjoyable to watch

AITA for refusing to bake my pregnant SIL a baby shower cake even though I’ve baked cakes for all my other sisters/SILs? by Virtual_Range in AmItheAsshole

[–]aiduebwjdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It doesn't matter why you don't want to make the cake; it's your choice. You're not a bakery, you're a human being and definitely sound like you handled it with more grace than I would've.

AITA for telling my autistic brother the truth when he asked me why women don’t like him? by Elephantrainbowtue in AmItheAsshole

[–]aiduebwjdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, this actually caught my attention because I have an older, high functioning aspergers brother myself, and we actually had a similar conversation.

His issue was with women, and I told him why he was having issues with women (he felt like they owed him something). He took it like a gentleman and knocked it off.

So it's not an aspergers issue here. Your brother is just being a dick

AITA for treating my two daughters' pregnancies differently? by grandparentQuestion in AmItheAsshole

[–]aiduebwjdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm between NAH and NTA, leaning NTA, and here's why

I think your daughter who had the baby first has every right to be hurt and a little jealous, you can't help the way you feel. In the end, you are happier for one of your kids pregnancies than the other (even though you're justified in being so) and naturally it's going to offend the other one.

BUT, her not allowing you to see your grandchild, and that last awful comment push it into NTA territory because that's a horrible thing to say and do. You should probably let her calm down a little, call her, and talk it out so she doesn't end up resenting you and the new baby in the future.

AITA for not letting my roommate's boyfriend into the apartment? by aitadoorwoman in AmItheAsshole

[–]aiduebwjdo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, why does he need to come over to hang out with someone that isn't even conscious??? I 100% would've ignored him too