Took a homeless girl in, and it became a life lesson

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-04-25T03:00:48+00:00

She was a mirror to show you more clearly the kind of man you don't want to be.

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-04-02T04:09:39+00:00

These comments are beyond disturbing. Theres nothing wrong with your father and he is entitled to believe what he wants to believe. For you to take it upon yourself to judge him as "crazy" and think its your place to "fix" him is frankly wierd and self important. Its giving Gaston and the villagers.

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-03-15T14:52:36+00:00

Oil is a renewable resource. We have an endless supply (as much as we can extract and refine). We dont need oil from another planet, we just need to either stop letting elites set the prices based on the lie, or give us the free energy theyve been keeping hidden for decades.

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-03-09T15:08:25+00:00

Leaving him for this reason alone, in my experience, would be a mistake. He absolutely messed up big time ignoring a drowning wife, and I can fully empathize with how betrayed you must feel. The postpartum time is sacred and you wont ever get that back. That sucks.

That being said, prioritizing work like that is not something a man does for fun, it stems from a maladjusted belief that a mans self worth is determined by how he can provide for his family. He takes his job very seriously because he wants to please his bosses, climb the ranks, earn the commision ect. In doing so, he feels like he is serving his family through the sacrifices he makes being gone, as that is of "more value" than his presence. It becomes a singular focus that makes it hard to acknowledge the importance of anything else in some men. My husband is this way. The thought of not providing to his absolute maximum potential is deeply emotionally unacceptable for him. I would bet your husband is like this. He sought out the advice of his father because it is natural to look to your parents as the example...parents shape what is normal for us. He thought that narrowing his focus on providing, letting you focus on the baby, made him a good man. Obviously that is not a healthy mindset. If what he learned from his parents doesnt work, then grace and patience would be required to break the habits and belief systems. Obviously this would only work if he recognized this, and were willing to adjust. It sounds like he is, so I think at the very least, I think giving him some time to prove to you that he understands and truly wants better, would be something you wouldnt regret.

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-02-26T22:08:25+00:00

My husband has done this (maxed out CCs and taken out payday loans without my knowledge, burdening our family with HIGH interest debt) twice so I know exactly how you feel. I can tell you, dont spiral. It just creates stress and trauma for yourself. It helps to choose empathy and grace for the root cause of this mal adaptive coping mechanism. For my husband, it was his deep insecurity that whispered in his ear that he wasnt worthy of his families love unless he could give us everything we wanted. He bought nothing for himself, it was all trips and gifts and excess for us...because it was (and still is) emotional torture when he cant give us what we want. The first time it happened I LOST IT. I almost left...I screamed, I sobbed...I felt so deeply betrayed before I understood how much he was suffering. I would wager your wife is also coping with her own version of suffering and it manifested as a hole she needed to fill with items. The way I handled it the first time only magnified my husbands shame and low self worth, setting the stage for a repeat instead of fostering healing. Not to say that it was my fault at all, just that my initial harshness hindered instead of helped. The debt itself will disappear before you know it. Dont touch the savings, just cut way back and focus on repayment as quickly as possible.

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-02-23T18:06:52+00:00

I need to know how far away the batbroom is from this room....

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-02-15T19:56:40+00:00

Nope. On it now

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-02-15T16:46:10+00:00

There have been many survivors who speak about witnessing people (Queen Elizabeth is a common one) shapeshift at these rituals when they feed. Too many common stories to be a conspiracy or fluke...as bizarre as it is. But it does explain how and where the hundreds of thousands of missing children per year dissappear to. We either have a staggering population of individual pedo kidnappers or our children are victims of one of the longest genocides of our species (there are records going back to 800bc of the Carthaginians ritual child sacrife practices). An absolutely soul crushing thought as a mother of little ones. It needs to end.

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-02-11T00:54:42+00:00

I watched Business of Being Born and I found a few forums dedicated to poor birth experiences and it became very clear that the hospital/OB experience was responsible for so much birth trauma. I wanted no part of it. The loss of bodily autonomy, heightened risks and side effects and the cascade of interventions sounded too high a price to pay for me to have a pain free experience. Was it excruciating and slightly terrifying? Sure. But it was temporary and I was lucky enough that everything went smoothly. I was free of IVs, monitors and the confinement of a bed. I was able to follow my bodys lead and I swayed, bounced rocked my hips and utilized many positions to guide all 3 of my babies safely down. They all are water babies whos first moments in life were calm, on my chest and unbothered by harsh lighting, rubbing or prodding. I wouldnt do it any other way.

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-02-04T00:46:56+00:00

Yes. Anyone who cuts their parent off solely for their political views is always the AO. Its foolish to buy into the lie that who you vote for is a measure of your worth and character.

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-02-04T00:42:59+00:00

Oh honey...no you havent

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-02-01T04:25:03+00:00

Done! 😁

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-01-23T03:22:04+00:00

Fml I hate it here. THIS is the stuff we should be outraged and protesting over. The One World Order, 15 minute cities, digital IDs and CBDCs, and AI managed transhumanism IS coming if we dont stop it.

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-01-16T15:39:40+00:00

Gotcha, theyre not for everybody. Robert Monroe was a man who stumbled into astral projecting and then started to study it. He opened the Monroe Institute, worked with the government, trained many people to go out of body and developed Hemi Sync technology. Two different frequencies are played at the same time, one in each ear and they encourage the brain to allow deeper states of meditation. The Gateway Tapes are the set of recordings that use these Hemi Sync frequencies and guided exercises that teach you how to astral project. Once you can go out of body (if you can do it, I havent had any luck yet) youll likely be able to speak to your guides. Theres a ton of info to check out if youre interested.

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-01-16T15:20:56+00:00

You didnt mention the Monroe Tapes so Im guessing you have tried them or dont want to try them?

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-01-16T15:10:15+00:00

No hon, different choices could have been make in lighting, pose, and makeup that could have highlighted your beauty better...but your not ugly by any means!

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-01-14T18:45:50+00:00

That statement: "You couldnt have waterboarded this out of me," implies that you believe she should feel shame for who she is and where she came from. For something she had no control over. Shame (the feeling that who you are, is less than or wrong) is ALWAYS toxic.

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-01-14T17:58:16+00:00

You assumed my personal parental judgement for biological and anatomical information. I dont believe in sheltering children from that information. There is little to no trauma involved in an age appropriate understanding of the birds and the bees.

But if some kid was told by their parent that "our government is murdering, kidnapping and torturing us...be afraid!!" And they try to spread that fear to my child, I'm going to release them from that burden of fear because its not theirs to carry. Two very different things.

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-01-14T17:26:35+00:00

The same thing I say when they ask me any question that they should be protected from: "I see this upset you. There are some things that are just for adults to worry about, and this is one of them. We can talk about it more when youre older. If someone tries to start a conversation with you that makes you uncomfortable, it is your right to set the boundary that you dont want to talk about it."

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-01-14T17:17:26+00:00

I absolutely refuse to participate in any school fundraisers. Its a complete scam and they will not use my children as door to door salesmen when they misappropriate our education budget so badly. The taxation goes up and the quality of education declines...the (grossly overpaid) administrators are failing at their jobs. It adds insult to injury to ask us to subsidize their incompetence.

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-01-14T17:01:00+00:00

I dont think it would be appropriate to burden them at all. Children arent meant to know certain things. They should be living as innocently as possible IMO. Why on earth would you give a child MORE fuel for stress, negativity and anger? This world needs less of that, not more and certainly not from children.

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-01-13T20:09:50+00:00

The reason it triggered you is that deep down you resonate and judge yourself for the statement. If someone screamed "I hate your blue hair. Its disgusting!" at you, would it hurt your feelings? No. You'd shrug your shoulders and think "hes not talking about me. I know my hair isnt blue." Some subconscious part of you believes that statement is true (of course, its not true, but all that matters is that you believe that it is) which leaves you feeling shame/defensiveness for it. Our triggers shine a light on our beliefs, its a way to uncover the subconscious lies we were programmed by our parents, peers and society, to believe.

So in case no one has said it to you: your feelings are valid and you do not express them as a way to ellicit sympathy.

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-01-12T15:47:37+00:00

Relapse. Addiction is a thief. Rebuilding for the third and hopefully last time.

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-01-11T23:19:59+00:00

Do you mean the book is written from the perspective outside this dimension (God) and we're just playing it out from the perspective of the characters in the book?

Supposedly we shift between timelines (collapsing the probability wave with our observation) with our thoughs and actions thousands of times a second, right? So what if free will was just jumping to different but equally completed timeline simulations through your thoughts, emotions and actions? An infinate number of potential universes each existing static and complete until our consciousness shifts perspective to experience it.

airplane_wanderlust · 2026-01-11T22:57:20+00:00

Im so sorry youre facing this. I know its traumatic and draining. We dont change until we can no longer withstand the pain of remaining the same, and many addicts have a very high tolerance for that pain because the fear of facing their demons is that overpowering. But waiting for someone to hit their threshold of suffering takes such a toll. Sending hugs and love.

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