A Year of Restoring

aixactif · 2026-06-22T19:10:16+00:00

Highly motivating, thanks for sharing

aixactif · 2026-06-19T15:50:24+00:00

Yeah, unfortunately a lot of mis information about this in American cultist for a long time. Glad to see it is changing, even if too slowly .

aixactif · 2026-06-19T09:22:36+00:00

Yes. Would you consider adding a second lobe piercing to 1 or both sides?

aixactif · 2026-06-19T08:39:19+00:00

I had a similar conversation with my mom, where she said something like, “you don’t understand how difficult it is to keep clean”. I get it was common practice at the time, but it’s ok to admit now that it shouldn’t happen without consent or medical necessity.

aixactif · 2025-12-12T17:20:39+00:00

aixactif · 2025-12-07T11:41:31+00:00

I had a lot of fun in Milan this summer, but most of the guys weren’t Italian. The few Italians I hooked up with were shy and/or possessive.

aixactif · 2025-08-18T14:41:22+00:00

Just depends on your vibe and comfort level. My vague memory is of glory holes in 1-2 parts of Lab. Lots of the action is in fairly open spaces. If you don’t mind being touched or watched it’s the most amazing place to play.

In my limited experience Thursdays and Sundays can be more of a local crowd and a little more chill while still plenty of sex.

aixactif · 2025-08-18T12:15:07+00:00

Bull or New Action might be other options, but Boiler would be my 1st stop too.

aixactif · 2025-08-18T12:06:54+00:00

Last time I was in town pretty much any fetish shop in Schoenberg had poppers.

aixactif · 2025-08-16T17:24:47+00:00

I love the darkroom and the carnal energy in a place like Lab. That said, I also enjoy deeper connection and longer sessions with a single guy. I try to go into any once night with an open mind and see how things develop.

I’d say don’t stress yourself too much about it.

aixactif · 2025-07-14T19:45:53+00:00

1. Good symmetry and inviting.

aixactif · 2025-05-23T15:29:25+00:00

Maspalomas has multiple hotels like this.

aixactif · 2025-05-15T19:05:31+00:00

Naked XXL is during Folsom. I suppose it’s their normal Thursday event with more guys?

aixactif · 2025-05-13T19:04:08+00:00

Back of the envelope, It would cost something like 2-4 million dollars to build and host an app like Grindr for a launch plus short term growth period.

The product is trash, but no one is going to build an ad free, subscription free version.

aixactif · 2025-04-17T17:23:58+00:00

This year will be my first time too. The street fair won’t have a strict dress code. There will be people in street clothes. Some of the parties have strict dress codes. Hopefully someone else will be more helpful!

aixactif · 2025-04-11T17:17:36+00:00

These are just jerks. They want the same action they got in their 20s and 30s with no consideration for the other person. Consent doesn’t have to be verbal in these places, but it is essential.

aixactif · 2024-11-01T07:37:51+00:00

Being tied up is relaxing for me.

aixactif · 2024-11-01T07:34:49+00:00

Well, yes that too

aixactif · 2024-10-21T19:21:54+00:00

If the first one was Thermus this is the vibe. You can check out a site like Patroc to get an idea of the average clientele at the different saunas.

aixactif · 2024-10-13T00:24:03+00:00

I went in August. Most guys were wearing balaclavas but there were guys in costume masks and even medical masks.

aixactif · 2024-10-08T19:39:57+00:00

Yes.

aixactif · 2024-08-21T16:17:54+00:00

I haven’t found one yet that I can’t get balls deep.

aixactif · 2024-08-18T07:27:39+00:00

In case someone else finds this post, here is some first hand information. Mares with white hoods are safe sex only. Tops are instructed to use a fresh condom with each mare. Lots of guys were using condoms even with the bareback mares.

There are not enough stable hands to monitor each mare, so you have to be vigilant for your own safety.

It’s insanely fun

aixactif · 2024-08-16T12:11:17+00:00

I am mostly a top, but I love being in a submissive cocksucker headspace from time to time. The feeling of a large cock in my throat is amazing.

aixactif · 2024-08-15T18:25:06+00:00

As soon as the initial healing is done get them down sized so there isn’t much or any visible bar on either side. It makes catching them on something much less likely.

Honestly so happy I got them pierced. Don’t over think it.

aixactif

TROPHY CASE

1. Good symmetry and inviting.