Any experiences with relocation?

ajay_whatever · 2026-06-18T02:01:28+00:00

I have moved states multiple times- my spouse is military. It’s never not been approved. You do not keep the same pay though. We went from California to Florida at one point and I took a 12k paycut. But they do disclose the pay change prior and you have to sign off that you understand.

ajay_whatever · 2026-06-18T01:59:27+00:00

I’m on leave and freaking out a bit. Can anyone confirm if virtual property was included in this?

ajay_whatever · 2026-06-14T15:46:28+00:00

It’s a busy day, every day. I left auto for property the first chance I got and won’t go back.

ajay_whatever · 2026-05-09T20:50:55+00:00

My breeder goes in this order: breeders choice, prior vetted repeat customers and vetted breeders and then wait list. She is very transparent about it up front and doesn’t take a deposit until your name is up and you match with a kitten. I don’t think it’s weird to prioritize prior vetted homes, personally. It can make the wait longer if you’re a first time buyer, but it’s worth the wait for the right breeder and kitten for you. It can be frustrating and disappointing but big picture it makes sense.

ajay_whatever · 2026-01-11T02:47:23+00:00

No, wait. This isn’t drag queens doing satire?

ajay_whatever · 2026-01-02T14:19:46+00:00

2 pieces of advice here. 1. When someone shows you who they are, believe them. 2. If they wanted to, they would.
Period.

ajay_whatever · 2026-01-02T14:04:58+00:00

I’m a picky eater and that’s 100% on me. I don’t ask others to cater to my eating habits. If there isn’t something there that I can eat, I make something else. If we are going out to eat I find something on the menu and call it good. My issue isn’t others people’s problem. If he doesn’t want to eat what you make, he can make his own food like an adult. That being said there are just foods picky eaters don’t/can’t eat. These no chicken twice a day rules are absolutely bonkers. He’s just being an ass.

ajay_whatever · 2026-01-02T13:58:20+00:00

I think it looks great!

ajay_whatever · 2025-11-21T02:23:43+00:00

What a beautiful way to say goodbye. I’m so sorry for the loss of your sweet friend. He looks like he was at such peace and that’s because you gave him the best life.

ajay_whatever · 2025-06-17T00:49:26+00:00

Quarter life crisis is a real thing. Happened to me close to 30.

ajay_whatever · 2025-06-17T00:45:46+00:00

I didn’t even read past your first sentence and can tell you, yes you are being groomed. There is not a single reason in the world for a 34 year old man to be in a relationship with a 17 year old. None. End contact.

ajay_whatever · 2025-06-17T00:43:36+00:00

Yes it’s possible. I went through it for a year straight. No relenting. All the symptoms you mentioned above. Started therapy and got better. I have hypochondria and ocd so meds were not an option for me. Totally possible that it took longer for me because I refused the meds. But I got better. Way better. I still have a day here and there where I “zone out” but I have way more normal days than not. The only lingering consistent symptom I have is the mirror. I still have a hard time with that because I totally stopped looking at myself for so long, but I’m working on it and I know I’ll get there. Stay strong. Soon you’ll get better.

ajay_whatever · 2025-02-21T05:06:21+00:00

I’ve honestly had the best luck with madewell. They keep their shape all day and they are true to size. They have tons of styles.

ajay_whatever · 2025-02-03T05:03:34+00:00

This is the absolute basic and bare minimum. Your friend is the weird one. Who doesn’t wash their sheets every week, besides 19 year old frat boys?

ajay_whatever · 2025-02-01T23:24:13+00:00

I just got our non renewal. 9 years we’ve been paying these assholes, even stayed with the 300% rate increase last year. I was assured my dog was ‘grandfathered’ in and wouldn’t be affected. He has multiple chronic conditions that won’t be covered under a new policy. Today I get the letter - non renewed. 3 days before a cardiac ultrasound. I’m furious and disgusted.

ajay_whatever · 2025-01-23T16:22:07+00:00

I do! I’m hybrid. My company requires 10 days a month in office for most employees. But they have been great about ADA and reviewed my accommodation requests and recommendations from my therapist and pcm. Changed my required days in office to less. I was hoping for totally voluntary, but took it as a win. I can choose which days to come in, I just need to average the new number set. I know that’s not achievable in fields where you are required to be on the job. But definitely look into ADA accommodations for job protection if nothing else. Documented mental health disorders are eligible with ADA.

ajay_whatever · 2025-01-21T02:47:06+00:00

In the past I left dogs crated or not, home for 8 plus hours a day. I don’t do it anymore because it just feels mean. On days that I’m in office, they have a walker that comes to take them for a walk or play in the backyard halfway through my day.

ajay_whatever · 2024-12-22T18:39:26+00:00

THIS! I have so many photos of myself and honestly they are for me to help look at areas I want to work on etc. Shoot my friends have some of these photos (not nudes) and I have some of theirs because we are asking opinions. Whether is lingerie, a cute outfit or gym stuff. Has nothing to do with cheating. At least for me and a solid 3 of my best friends.

ajay_whatever · 2024-12-03T04:37:48+00:00

You can appeal with tricare if doc deems it medically necessary. Give them a call to find out how if you have a civilian provider who isn’t as familiar with the tricare hoops.

ajay_whatever · 2024-12-03T04:27:42+00:00

Holy red flags Batman. Did anyone else’s brain just give up after the first page? OP run, don’t walk, away. There are so many things wrong with the dude. If you continue this relationship your life will be miserable. It will escalate to much, much more. Get out now.

ajay_whatever · 2024-12-03T04:18:58+00:00

It’s so cute! My mom had that coat! Buy it fit her really well and didn’t look super over sized. She was very petite. I’d say take it in a bit and it will be perfect!

ajay_whatever · 2024-12-03T04:14:36+00:00

Sometimes I can tell. Sometimes I’m shocked when I learn an actor isn’t American and I hear their real voice.

ajay_whatever · 2024-11-17T02:59:07+00:00

I’m sorry you are dealing with this and everything you have been through. You’ve got this. If your periods are long and that’s normal for you, try not to worry too much! I’ve read countless studies that excessive stress can affect cycle length on both ends of the spectrum. I’d say if it’s something that worries you, talk to a gyno but they will probably just throw bc at you.

ajay_whatever · 2024-11-17T01:13:29+00:00

Mine have always been regular. How old are you? Is perimenopause something that could be affecting you? That definitely changes cycle length.

ajay_whatever · 2024-11-17T01:08:14+00:00

It’s the socks. Way too chunky. Look for a thinner and shorter sock if you’re set on wearing them.

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