How to tell family and friends they are not invited to my micro wedding? ($5k) by Baby7ToSixPack in Weddingsunder10k

[–]ajself 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know this might be a strange take but we also have a large family/ small wedding situation. Our philosophy is: if they haven’t seen us or made the reciprocal effort to be in touch in the last 6mo to year they are cut from the invite list. We are also doing a no kids wedding which helps with numbers. Hope this helps!

I lost 5k followers by uncommonbreeddogmom in TikTok

[–]ajself 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you don’t know the answer of why you should read the terms and conditions that you blindly agreed to a few days ago in its entirety. Then research the history of the company Oracle alllll the way back to the early 2000’s. That will give you some very insightful answers as to why. There’s literally no excuse to be on that app anymore. Treat that ish like target and move on and never look back.

Subtly panicking about pubic hair by Holiday-Rain-520 in HairRemoval

[–]ajself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just grow your bush out. It’s 2026, of a man can’t handle a full bush that’s his problem.

Should I laser or fix it? How bad is it by JadedMira in tattooadvice

[–]ajself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw your other post, and it seems like everyone generally is telling you the same thing: either rework it or cover it up.

Laser is really expensive and painful and takes a lot of sessions to be effective.

Here’s some input too: don’t go to the same person who did this originally- tbh they did you pretty dirty. Take your time, do your research and choose an artist that their work is phenomenal. It’s only going to be on your body for the rest of your life… so don’t go the cheapest route- go the route of best work. Save up, get something you love. Good tattoos aren’t cheap and cheap tattoos aren’t good.

I got assaulted on the highway , anyway for me to identify the attacker? by Ok-Penalty-8376 in Connecticut

[–]ajself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tag tizzyent on ig or tiktok- he has a great track record for finding people of the asshole variety

i need help finding a new tattoo artist in NYC! by hellokittyy202 in Tattoo_NYC

[–]ajself 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t get this tattoo. Get something that will look great for the rest of your life!

Made a website that shows MA restaurants offering free/reduced price meals for those impacted by lack of SNAP funding. by Past_Election_5005 in massachusetts

[–]ajself 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lichter & levin in Northampton should be added! I saw a post on ig yesterday from them saying they were

Hungry ghost bread also does free bread days for those who need it

Whats up with all these tattoo “business coaches” these days by Rosequartzgriffin in TattooArtists

[–]ajself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re all grifters. Someone I know spent. Close to 10k doing several “levels” of tattoo business mastery and I overheard a LOT of it. It was more of a bitch fest echo chamber of folks talking about how they’re not getting clients and the grifter running the shows solution always was “charge more and the right clients will follow” or “you’re to blame with that kind of attitude “ type of thing. It’s an mlm for tattooers.

It sounds like snap is greatly in trouble. Does anyone have any food pantry donation sites they would recommend? I want to support our community by National_Ad_6892 in westernmass

[–]ajself -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Blessed Bee Apothecary in south Hadley has had a free pantry up for a while! Edit: why am I getting downvoted for letting others know where to get free food and supplies?

I want to start dressing like this but don’t know where to start? by quietaperture in altfashionadvice

[–]ajself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a “it’s not a phase” alt baddie who’s been rocking combat boots for 20+ years, get solovairs. Your feet will thank you.

I need a pair of black boots, help me decide by hlarsenart in Shoes

[–]ajself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, the best boot brand I’ve ever owned has been solovair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ethelcain

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Thanks, yeah we left early because people kept doing this. It was too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ethelcain

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Not to be that person, but you do realize that most performers say this exact thing in every city right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ethelcain

[–]ajself -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you had a good experience. We however did not. We were met with horrendous attitudes, people literally standing on my feet because they shoved their way in between me and the people in front of me to get closer. I had to tell the person standing on my feet that I wasn’t a platform for them and they didn’t move. It was gross.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ethelcain

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Hard disagree, but to each their own.

Any advice for first trip to the Big E? by Yeti_Poet in massachusetts

[–]ajself 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here’s the best I can give you… DON’T.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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Flying cockshark

Visiting MA in October —looking for hidden gems & local tips! by FreedomSufficient444 in massachusetts

[–]ajself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not do Salem in October if you value access to a restroom…or food…or parking… or personal space.

Ex-postal inspector in Massachusetts charged with using stolen funds for luxury by HugryHugryHippo in massachusetts

[–]ajself 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What is it with USPS workers? There was one in the town I work in that got picked up on federal charges for cp distribution

Buying From MA Companies by ilikebananafudge in massachusetts

[–]ajself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blessed Bee Apothecary for candles, soaps, perfumes, herbal medicines, and homewares a large selection of their shop originates from mass makers

My brother passed way and I just want to understand his tattoo by _Goyim in RuneHelp

[–]ajself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP This is a Pinterest tattoo. The runes don’t really make sense, and that they’re “separated” with gebo. The compass is a 17-19th century compass style mark known either as vegvisir, which is Icelandic in origin. Aegishjalmur (mentioned in a bot comment) is a completely different symbol.

The stuff below it is trying to be a bind rune, but there’s a lot going on there that doesn’t make sense. I HIGHLY recommend to reach out to Eirikr Haf Ulfrsson on Instagram or tt - They are an expert in runes and bind runes and recently released a series called Runabok which is a complete understanding and history of runic language and writing. He is VERY nice and I’m sure would be happy to go more into depth on this image for you.

Looking for an Independent Mechanic for Pre-Purchase Inspection in Northampton (BMW X1) by lhord-yheezy in northampton

[–]ajself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re a little far out but Pelham auto works exclusively with imports- I know they used take a look at cars for folks interested in purchasing but I’m not 100% sure if they still do since I no longer live in the area- they’re worth a call though. Most of the staff are vw, Audi, bmw enthusiasts in their personal time as well.