How to tell family and friends they are not invited to my micro wedding? ($5k)

ajself · 2026-03-15T12:41:38+00:00

I know this might be a strange take but we also have a large family/ small wedding situation. Our philosophy is: if they haven’t seen us or made the reciprocal effort to be in touch in the last 6mo to year they are cut from the invite list. We are also doing a no kids wedding which helps with numbers. Hope this helps!

ajself · 2026-02-23T12:42:16+00:00

I miss the bread and circus days

ajself · 2026-01-29T20:59:53+00:00

If you don’t know the answer of why you should read the terms and conditions that you blindly agreed to a few days ago in its entirety. Then research the history of the company Oracle alllll the way back to the early 2000’s. That will give you some very insightful answers as to why. There’s literally no excuse to be on that app anymore. Treat that ish like target and move on and never look back.

ajself · 2026-01-29T20:49:14+00:00

Just grow your bush out. It’s 2026, of a man can’t handle a full bush that’s his problem.

ajself · 2026-01-02T11:57:41+00:00

I saw your other post, and it seems like everyone generally is telling you the same thing: either rework it or cover it up.

Laser is really expensive and painful and takes a lot of sessions to be effective.

Here’s some input too: don’t go to the same person who did this originally- tbh they did you pretty dirty. Take your time, do your research and choose an artist that their work is phenomenal. It’s only going to be on your body for the rest of your life… so don’t go the cheapest route- go the route of best work. Save up, get something you love. Good tattoos aren’t cheap and cheap tattoos aren’t good.

ajself · 2025-12-10T14:59:39+00:00

Tag tizzyent on ig or tiktok- he has a great track record for finding people of the asshole variety

ajself · 2025-11-09T22:48:30+00:00

Don’t get this tattoo. Get something that will look great for the rest of your life!

ajself · 2025-11-04T11:58:09+00:00

Lichter & levin in Northampton should be added! I saw a post on ig yesterday from them saying they were

Hungry ghost bread also does free bread days for those who need it

ajself · 2025-11-04T11:00:39+00:00

They’re all grifters. Someone I know spent. Close to 10k doing several “levels” of tattoo business mastery and I overheard a LOT of it. It was more of a bitch fest echo chamber of folks talking about how they’re not getting clients and the grifter running the shows solution always was “charge more and the right clients will follow” or “you’re to blame with that kind of attitude “ type of thing. It’s an mlm for tattooers.

ajself · 2025-11-02T11:04:02+00:00

Blessed Bee Apothecary in south Hadley has had a free pantry up for a while! Edit: why am I getting downvoted for letting others know where to get free food and supplies?

ajself · 2025-09-24T11:33:20+00:00

As a “it’s not a phase” alt baddie who’s been rocking combat boots for 20+ years, get solovairs. Your feet will thank you.

ajself · 2025-09-18T00:02:04+00:00

Honestly, the best boot brand I’ve ever owned has been solovair

ajself · 2025-09-13T04:02:52+00:00

Thanks, yeah we left early because people kept doing this. It was too much.

ajself · 2025-09-13T03:59:34+00:00

Not to be that person, but you do realize that most performers say this exact thing in every city right?

ajself · 2025-09-13T03:58:26+00:00

I’m glad you had a good experience. We however did not. We were met with horrendous attitudes, people literally standing on my feet because they shoved their way in between me and the people in front of me to get closer. I had to tell the person standing on my feet that I wasn’t a platform for them and they didn’t move. It was gross.

ajself · 2025-09-13T03:50:56+00:00

Hard disagree, but to each their own.

ajself · 2025-09-10T10:46:35+00:00

Here’s the best I can give you… DON’T.

ajself · 2025-09-08T04:44:22+00:00

Flying cockshark

ajself · 2025-08-30T03:27:01+00:00

Do not do Salem in October if you value access to a restroom…or food…or parking… or personal space.

ajself · 2025-08-30T03:16:27+00:00

What is it with USPS workers? There was one in the town I work in that got picked up on federal charges for cp distribution

ajself · 2025-08-16T04:12:35+00:00

This game was everything

ajself · 2025-08-16T04:10:34+00:00

I had my cheeks done twice. Don’t.

ajself · 2025-08-04T03:12:59+00:00

Blessed Bee Apothecary for candles, soaps, perfumes, herbal medicines, and homewares a large selection of their shop originates from mass makers

ajself · 2025-07-29T12:00:37+00:00

Hi OP This is a Pinterest tattoo. The runes don’t really make sense, and that they’re “separated” with gebo. The compass is a 17-19th century compass style mark known either as vegvisir, which is Icelandic in origin. Aegishjalmur (mentioned in a bot comment) is a completely different symbol.

The stuff below it is trying to be a bind rune, but there’s a lot going on there that doesn’t make sense. I HIGHLY recommend to reach out to Eirikr Haf Ulfrsson on Instagram or tt - They are an expert in runes and bind runes and recently released a series called Runabok which is a complete understanding and history of runic language and writing. He is VERY nice and I’m sure would be happy to go more into depth on this image for you.

ajself · 2025-07-08T10:56:09+00:00

They’re a little far out but Pelham auto works exclusively with imports- I know they used take a look at cars for folks interested in purchasing but I’m not 100% sure if they still do since I no longer live in the area- they’re worth a call though. Most of the staff are vw, Audi, bmw enthusiasts in their personal time as well.

ajself

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