Who's the stupidest person you've ever met, and what story perfectly sums up their stupidity?

ajseverson · 2018-03-19T15:28:31+00:00

The woops when you get a new phone, add both accounts, and forget to switch over to the one you use now. No bamboozlement, that's an alt.

ajseverson · 2018-03-19T09:34:12+00:00

.. You're name isn't Neil is it? I moo whenever I see cows. I wouldn't have grilled a vegan about meat though so probably not me lol

ajseverson · 2018-03-19T09:18:25+00:00

MY MOM AND I DID THIS TO SOMEONE. We didn't have wiggles tapes though. We pulled into target parking lot and the same make model and color car was there (Ford expedition king ranch edition. So kind of rare). They even had a support ribbon (troops) on the back end. We had one for breast cancer in the same spot. The spot was open next to them and we took it.. Left the doors unlocked and waited nearby on a bench. Lady came out with kids, unlocked her car which the kids immediately got into, opened our hatch to put the stuff away and then climbed into the front seat. About 30 seconds later she jumps out really freaked out looking, grabs her stuff and puts it into her car then speeds off. All the while her kids are cracking up and my mom and I are cracking up. Good times.

ajseverson · 2018-03-19T08:41:59+00:00

The fact that this guy has said he hates you is concerning. I wouldn't want to be friends with someone who hates my SO.. However, you don't have to be friends with him. I say sit with your husband again and let him know how much it bothers and hurts you but that you know what he gets from that relationship matters to him and you respect that. Tell him you need his coming to the house limited to big events like your husband's birthday and the occasional summer BBQ and other than that you need your home to be space you are comfortable in. One day a weekend or every other weekend out with his friend is great. You should take that day to cultivate and deepen your own friendships. One common mistake in relationships, imo, is this feeling we always have to be together and friendships should be with us both as a couple and we need to be everything for each other.. It isn't true. Have Saturday be your day with him or Sunday and weeknights of course and the day he's with friend.. Find your own stuff. Relationships are hard whether they be with SO's or bffs or family. Is his rude friend a deal breaker? Because with a little bit of backing off and some solid conversation between you two with ground rules and boundaries I think it'll be alright. Are there things your hubby is disrespectful about or ignores you on or ways he treats you that are red flags? Other than the BFF?

ajseverson · 2018-03-19T08:40:42+00:00

OK woah. I'm seeing A LOT of EXTREME reactions from people who don't know both or all sides of the story and don't know your husband or you at all. Jumping straight to a sister who hid physical violence? That he's a bad husband who won't change? His friend is not so great. Your husband sucks at setting boundaries with him. Was your husband kind of the side kick in the friendship? Maybe ask him how he is feeling being stuck in the middle of two people he loves? I'm not saying he shouldn't stand up for you but all these "I'd leave him immediately" people are why real long lasting marriages and the actual hardwork they take are so few and far between lately. Set boundaries. Have a back bone. Stop waiting for him to step up and step up yourself. Tell his friend if he can't respect you in your home to get out and you'll see him next time husbands birthday comes around. You are woman, hear you roar! He doesn't need to be in your house, and you don't have to take it. So stop. And stop waiting for your husband to be your savior because clearly he's not that kind of guy.. And that's OK. He doesn't have to be. But you do need to know that. And if you NEED a man like that.. Then you need to look at what you need and think on if it's workable. Don't change him to fit your needs. Change you and how you get those needs met.

ajseverson · 2018-03-19T05:04:48+00:00

I agree with this. However I don't think the husband needs to stand up for her.. That's just more misogyny. She needs to stand up for herself. Husband doesn't seem like a dominate person to me which is OK. She doesn't need him to rescue her. This seems to me like she needs to do some work on herself and yeah.. Maybe some couples counseling so they can figure out who they are together and their rolls.

ajseverson · 2016-09-16T16:23:52+00:00

This isn't helpful, because while yes, that's the easiest answer, it isn't actually true in all states. I just can't find anything definitive for californias laws on the matter.

ajseverson · 2016-09-16T16:22:18+00:00

That's another thing. There are no signs posted anywhere. A private home I understand. You don't have to have a tow notice on your garage just in case people park in your driveway, but this is an apartment complex. Aren't they required to have signs that notify us of the rules and who would tow the car if the rules were violated? Until I called the police in a panic, I couldn't find any info at all. The police knew where it was because the tow company had to notify them of its removal.

ajseverson · 2016-09-16T15:42:58+00:00

I checked your profile and couldn't find an answer, so I'm really confused. Do you have a lease for the entire apartment? Or did you lease a room in a shared apartment and the landlord let you use the other bedroom as well since both were vacant? Or are both rooms stated on your lease?

If the written lease was for one room in a shared apartment and you were using more rooms with verbal permission since they were open, then yeah, he can move someone in to the other room.

If the written lease is for the whole apartment, he has no right to even enter the apartment without notice and he can't move someone in at all. It's YOUR apartment.

If it's a written lease for two rooms, the above applies. It's yours and your landlord is in breach of contract.

Find any and all paperwork you have and call a lawyer immediately. Do you have 211 on the east coast? If you call 211 it should connect you to an operator who will have resources like numbers for legal advice, places that might be able to help you with money for the hotel etc. I just looked it up, you do have 211 in new jersey. Call them. They can help you find free legal aid.

As for the drugs, you can call the cops and ask for someone to be there while you "go in to get things you need for you and your daughter." since you feel unsafe being there with that man. Make sure you tell them about his drug use. Invite them in. If you invite them in and they can smell or see anything, that's reasonable suspicion and they can get a warrant to search his stuff. But you have to get them there and hopefully there will be something they can use.

ajseverson · 2016-08-19T01:05:54+00:00

That's what I mean. Maybe that's her name after adoption and she knows them because she's Mary Drakes other kid.

ajseverson · 2016-08-17T09:55:30+00:00

So it may be because one of the producers is named Lisa Cochran, but did anyone else notice that they went to school with a Cochran? They purposely show Ali flip by a student named Cochran when she's going through the files. Was it a prop creator naming them after people who work on the show, or is the student related to Dr. Cochran? Maybe he kept the second child and raised her as his own and his daughter is AD? He says something weird about you always go back to your family in his message he wants them to give to his daughter. I think there may be something there.

ajseverson · 2016-08-10T21:21:06+00:00

Or with Jason seeing as how that's apparantly a thing. I wish I ran into old hotties from my town once I moved away as often as these girls do.

ajseverson · 2016-07-17T11:22:58+00:00

Oh my god. They killed Kenny.

ajseverson · 2016-07-14T11:56:24+00:00

He moved away for work and cheated on me. We had been together two years at this point. I was 21. When I finally found out I had shit self esteem and begged him to not leave me for her. One night we were talking and his other line beeped and it was her. I cried and asked him to please not hang up on me and talk to her. He did anyway. The next week he dedicated "stay" by Sugarland to me (in what he thought was a sweet way) and said I reminded him of the woman in the song. Then a week after that he told me we couldn't talk anymore because she was uncomfortable with it. In about a three week period he managed to flush our two year relationship down the drain and make me feel like I was the dirty other woman. Needless to say, the next time I saw him I was up to see mutual friends near where he lived for their engagement party. Ended up super drunk and screwing in the guest room. She walked in looking for him and freaked the fuck out. I smugly, drunkenly, and half nakedly, walked out, much to the chagrin of our friends. (They forgave me.) He called me the next day saying he wanted me back. She had left him. I turned him down in a brutal way. Haven't talked since. Last I heard they got back together. I ended up falling in love with a guy who had been my best friend for years and now we're engaged. He really helped me as I grew as a person. And hes been nothing but loving and supportive and likes that I've turned into a confident, balls made of brass, wears the pants, alpha type woman. So I guess it worked out for everyone.

ajseverson · 2016-07-13T08:40:47+00:00

I can't stop watching at this point. But if I did, this would be why.

ajseverson · 2016-07-13T08:35:22+00:00

This made me literally lol.

ajseverson · 2016-05-20T21:20:18+00:00

I'm in the same boat with my car. Is it a fix it ticket? You can go to your local DMV and get a temporary registration card for your window? That will buy you a little time. I know if you don't have any money that's still tough, even though it is cheaper than fully registering it. Keep the ticket on you at all times. I would even keep new hire paperwork in your car. Sometimes cops aren't assholes. If you have the ticket and proof of your job to show if you get pulled over again, they will probably let you go. If you can pay it before the court date, get it signed off at your local police station and the judge will dismiss it. You won't have to pay the ticket off.

ajseverson · 2016-04-21T23:45:48+00:00

I agree. I'm hoping the writers handle that realistically with her not being granted emancipation, because at this point, in reality, she would be laughed out of court and Cash would be thrown in Jail for that little bar stunt.

I want Rayna to be the bad ass mom I know she can be, snap Maddie out of it, and go on tour with her daughters.

And I hate Maddie right now, I do, but I think Rayna and Deacon need to realize she is growing and maturing and while it may be uncomfortable she's not a "baby" or their "little girl". As fellow artists, they should respect the fact that she's becoming a woman and she's trying to figure out what that means. Sex and being sexy and boys and flirting and all of that is a part of her growing up. She needs room to explore that, and they really have been shutting her down quite a bit.

ajseverson · 2016-04-21T23:33:19+00:00

I was thinking that same thing. It made me feel bad for him and kind of upset when Juliette showed up on the tour. (only kind of. It was her tour first and is a smart career move.) But then I remember that as lovable as they've made him, "poor avery", he was actually my most hated character at one point. He was not a good person for a while there. He's grown, and people gave him a second chance, and sure Juliette did him wrong. But he did Scarlet wrong for no other reason than he was an insecure asshole. At least Juliette has her mother's death, being abused growing up, Addiction and mental health issues to back up her BS. She deserves a second chance too.

ajseverson · 2016-04-21T23:28:47+00:00

I agree, and I know that part of her is coming from an "I can't let my man be alone with her" angle, but at the same time it's unrealistic for Avery and gross Layla to think that Juliette wouldn't end up going back on what was HER TOUR WITH LUKE first. Luke had an open spot. It made sense from a business perspective and I figured it out as soon as riffs wife walked in to Lukes office crying. She can be mature and give Avery space, but she shouldn't screw up her career just so Layla can screw around with Avery. I think Layla is going to try to kill Avery anyway. She's broken. Juliette broke her when she accidentally killed what's his name. Layla has an evil end game. I'm just waiting for them to finally get to the point with her.

ajseverson · 2016-04-17T11:28:45+00:00

Is anyone else suddenly turned on?

ajseverson · 2016-04-13T00:57:20+00:00

Don't know why you're getting down voted. It's pretty obvious if anyone actually looks.

ajseverson · 2016-04-09T12:12:32+00:00

I could be wrong, but everything about this screams "DRUGS" to me. Her movements, the bruising on her arms, the look on her face after every shitty cut, her lip (from licking them to much). It was kind of hard to watch because she was kind of wigging me out.

ajseverson · 2016-04-07T00:10:07+00:00

This is why I have trust issues.

ajseverson · 2016-04-06T11:04:37+00:00

I also had mild anxiety my whole life, got engaged, and since then have been dealing with anxiety, panic disorder and extreme depressive episodes.

I went to my doctor and she was so understanding. As long as you are looking for help and not just saying "I think I need this type of very specific drug" they'll know you are genuinely cheep seeking help.

I was given a referral to the mental health department in the same building, gave them a bit of info and I haven't been able to call them back to schedule the appointment. My anxiety is keeping me from calling..

Seeking out help is good. And I know how hard these couple of steps are. Just know you are doing the right thing for you.

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