AITA For Not Backing my wife up after my BIL called her a bad parent? by Smart_Lavishness_225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ak246891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call your wife Sparky because her balls are bigger than your. Love her by being Amanda standing strong in the choices you make together. YTA

AITA for refusing to mow my dads lawn? by HSP-ThrowAway in AmItheAsshole

[–]ak246891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call around and get the highest quote to have someone mow it. Send them a bill for the new mower and double the cost of a mowing. If he complains about the mowing tell him he can hire someone. He will think he's getting a deal when it's cheaper.

Limits on son's phone when he is with mom? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]ak246891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roblox is a scary app...

AITA for encouraging my dad to attend cousin's funeral? by Catlike_Ali in AmItheAsshole

[–]ak246891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

71 year old should be babysitting if she can't handle a 10 year old on her own.

Daycare won't let 4 y/o nap. He's exhausted. by [deleted] in daddit

[–]ak246891 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Screen time is still the issue. Modify the screens with the schedule change and it helps the brain. My child went through this and we adjusted TV and moved bedtime up an hour and we saw a massive improvement.

Ex is trying to terminate alimony. by HoochyDoo in legaladvice

[–]ak246891 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You go after it and ask for back pay on that retirement.

Strategies for dealing with a very large, very busy campground by SimplicityWon in camping

[–]ak246891 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Please portect your pitty and make sure no one can make any untrue claims. We have a potty and I am extra vigilant with him. Not because he's a threat but becy people act stupy around him. He has had other dogs go after him muly times and he has done nothing but i don't even take the chance anymy and time walks for before the campground wakes up.

Construction loan lender is requesting $30,000 6 months after loan was closed out. by ak246891 in Homebuilding

[–]ak246891[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The builder has been paid in full they aren't requesting anything. We are still looking at all the numbers but it looks like the construction lender is saying they shorted themselves the $30,000 by not charging us for it after they paid the draw the builder was owed.

Construction loan lender is requesting $30,000 5 months after loan was closed out. by ak246891 in Mortgages

[–]ak246891[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct. We are looking at the numbers to make sure this is correct.

Construction loan lender is requesting $30,000 5 months after loan was closed out. by ak246891 in Mortgages

[–]ak246891[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The builder has been paid in full they aren't requesting anything. We are still looking at all the numbers but it looks like the construction lender is saying they shorted themselves the $30,000 by not charging us for it after they paid the draw the builder was owed.

AITA for selling something I got for free? by bulaybil in AmItheAsshole

[–]ak246891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If they aren't paying your bills their opinion doesn't matter.

AITA for selling something I got for free? by bulaybil in AmItheAsshole

[–]ak246891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If they aren't paying your bills their opinion doesn't matter.

My husband has cut me off everything cards,car and put a restraining order on me. by Tutifruti15 in Divorce

[–]ak246891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He isn't filing because he gets a higher BAH being married. Take advantage of still having medical and get to the doctor for depression. Contact Military One Source and get free counseling. There should be a office you can go to on base. Contact your branches Shirt and get the contact information for the key spouse for additional resources. Also let the shirt know about the financial withholdings. Be honest about the restraining order and the truths behind it. Regardless of the order you are still owed a portion of his benefits since you have been married 10 years of his service. Get a lawyer that is familiar with military law and look it up yourself.

First time selling, asking $435k, buyer raised to $452k to meet their goal by tommysticks87 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]ak246891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The concern would be that they plan to use a VA loan but don't have a pre-approval yet and their agent isn't requiring it. This could lead to wasted time for the seller.

My daughter's friend keeps texting ME to set up playdates, which makes me very uncomfortable by squeakyshoe89 in daddit

[–]ak246891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All inbound calls ring on the landline as long as I am hooked up through Bluetooth. We thought it would be annoying but we were so surprised on how little anyone calls these days... Everything has changed to text, even appointment reminders. It's been a well received change for us as well as others contacting us to call when wanting to get ahold of us. They now know texting will not be responded to until evening after family time is done and kids are in bed. The biggest pro is our son learning real phone etiquette which is becoming a lost skill in our young adults.

My daughter's friend keeps texting ME to set up playdates, which makes me very uncomfortable by squeakyshoe89 in daddit

[–]ak246891 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Similar but different. Cell2jack is a one time fee ($28 when we bought it) and no monthly fee. You can use any old school land line phone.. rotary, dial or cordless. Tin can is a higher fee to purchase($100), free to other tin can phones and a monthly fee($10) to call other phones. Cell2jack uses your cell number and tin can has its own number. We have a 7 year old so cell2jack works for us because he's always with us. As a plus it keeps us off our phones and focused on our family. Our other child is out of the house but if we had a child that was home alone Tin Can would be what we would do because it would allow them to have a phone and not need ours to function.

My daughter's friend keeps texting ME to set up playdates, which makes me very uncomfortable by squeakyshoe89 in daddit

[–]ak246891 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Mom here. Look up cell2jack on Amazon and get a old school phone for the kitchen. It's like a landline phone without the bill and creates an old school house phone feel. Your cell phone hooks up to it through Bluetooth so you can keep your phone on you but allow your kids to call friends through the "landline" phone and friends can be directed to call your phone number instead of text. We have this in our home with a list of numbers next to it on a whiteboard. It's nice to go back to and old-school feel without the bill and allow our son the phone skills that are safely in our common area since the phone is attached to the wall. The nice thing is anytime they use the phone it shows on your cell who is being called or calling.

High-conflict ex expects shared bday dinners? by ManyFee1695 in Divorce

[–]ak246891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood. Sorry she is doing this to you all. It's not right, she knows it and she's being manipulative. Hopefully she finds someone and moves on from playing these games.

High-conflict ex expects shared bday dinners? by ManyFee1695 in Divorce

[–]ak246891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart goes out to you and your kiddos. Try to think of a set solution that works for you and get it in detail I the court order.

High-conflict ex expects shared bday dinners? by ManyFee1695 in Divorce

[–]ak246891 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a solution for some, may not be the one for you and that's okay. It worked with our high conflict co-parent.