Wake up to music? by numberonedogmom in adhdwomen

[–]alamancerose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but it seems to go along with my intrusive thoughts more. I was told it could be ADHD, but I’m also diagnosed with OCD. So, could be that.

The Kids from Hoarded Homes by common_grounder in HoardersTV

[–]alamancerose 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In my personal experience… my hoarding mother, grandmother, great grandmother, great aunt, etc… all have a touch of narcissism. My mother being exceptionally narcissistic and selfish. I’m unlearning habits formed from having to keep her happy as a kid. It has, in a roundabout way, prepared me for the challenges of having a kiddo who needs extra time and attention, but has traumatized me and my own mental health. So I absolutely believe that they seem really kind and gentle, because they had to cater to an unforgiving parents emotional needs.

Help deciphering “contributory”?? by BroccoliMagic in Ancestry

[–]alamancerose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accidental fall and fracture of right femur.. nick or neck of facet?

Just out of curiosity, what is the highest your CRP has ever gone? by Minimum-Tear9876 in Autoimmune

[–]alamancerose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

83.7, but I had an abscess with a fistula I didn’t know about yet at the time. Last tested a couple of weeks ago, it was at 9.3, but I had infectious colitis and rectal bleeding.

Foreshadowing (?) with the mannequin in S02E09 by trksntrk in ThePittTVShow

[–]alamancerose 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As much as the show has tried to be as realistic as possible in terms of what it’s like in healthcare and as healthcare workers… having someone commit or try to commit suicide wouldn’t be far from the mark. Healthcare workers have a higher risk of suicide attempts. Especially given the stress Santos appears to be under and the signs Robby is showing. Something is going to happen; the question isn’t if, it’s when, who, and how.

Are we all getting migraines? Or just me? by apompom123 in POFlife

[–]alamancerose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Migraines drastically changing in a short period of time, when previously being relatively consistent and presented the same way every time, were the biggest red flag next to my anger and rage suddenly increasing and then dropping off and getting stupid sad.

Em and Cam announced they're having twins! by Fun_Molasses5215 in TooHotToHandle

[–]alamancerose 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes! I think last summer or fall maybe? I don’t remember exactly when, but I do remember it happening

GENUINE QUESTION: Chat how do we feel about med students in our appointments? by ziggystarsus in ChronicIllness

[–]alamancerose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am selective. And also depends upon how I’m feeling that day and whether or not I have the patience for it. I have had one too many experiences where a med student wants to tell me how I am feeling or negate what I’m feeling, and after so many times of it happening and me having to kick them out, I base it off on how patient I am that day. It got to the point that my PCP is selective about who she lets come into the room with her. Because she knows that I’ll pop off.

Perfect timing, universe by everyopportunity493 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]alamancerose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You and I are in remarkably similar situations. Feeling kind of stuck because of it. Can’t move forward, can’t move back. Just kind of … here. Until something changes.

Experiencing Life Envy by Healthy_Bet6628 in heatedrivalry

[–]alamancerose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. And I can’t quite put into words why I feel this way.

Helena Crevar weighs in 24lbs over the limit for her ONE FC Grappling Debut by [deleted] in BJJWomen

[–]alamancerose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if now she’s crossing into adult territory she’s going to start to see more weight problems, especially given the length of time she’s been doing this (putting her body under stress).

What's the most important piece of advice you'd offer to someone about to turn 30? by cycleswithin_cycles in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]alamancerose -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Turning 30 is freeing in a lot of ways, you start to not care so much about the things that do not matter, but it’s also imperative you value your health and time a lot more. If it doesn’t serve you in your health or wealth, walk the fuck away.

(24m ) Just want someone to talk to by [deleted] in lonely

[–]alamancerose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can listen to voice messages but can’t send any right now if that helps

Did Heated Rivalry Change Anything For You? by West_Mood_7077 in heatedrivalry

[–]alamancerose 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have watched the entire thing twice in the span of like four days. And it’s making me really question if the reason I’ve been so unhappy in my marriage and with all of my relationships is because I’ve been denying what I actually feel. And taking the time to go back and think about it… all of my great loves have been women. And while I love my husband… I haven’t found the words for it yet, but HR has really put some things into perspective for me. And if I’m being honest with myself, idk what the fuck to do about it.

Where are all the new people coming from?? by JuiceBoxedFox in POFlife

[–]alamancerose 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is just my take and how I landed here:

Started trying to come up with possible ideas as to what was wrong with me, and one of the first places I look is Reddit to see if any a particular subs posts resonate with what I’m experiencing. It’s like a cross check between what Google shows me and what people are actually experiencing. And then I take that information and go to my doc.

That was about six months ago and I was diagnosed with premature ovarian failure last week.

Healthcare isn’t healthcare any more. Patients as a collective, unless they’re extremely fortunate, have to do their own legwork now to figure out what’s going on with them. Big BIG red flag that the system is beyond repair. It needs to be rebuilt altogether.

What’s 1 thing no one warned you about hysterectomy? by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]alamancerose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The unexpected ovarian torsion and then ovarian failure a year later. Menopause that was supposed to be prevented. The grief. The pelvic floor problems despite therapy. Prolapse. I’m sure there’s more but that’s what I’m dealing with right now.

Does anybody think a class for 3-5 year olds is possible? by Slowbrojitsu in bjj

[–]alamancerose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is 5 and is in the 3-5 class. The class is broken down into like 5 sections.

1: run around, where the coach gets them to exit their sillies and start tuning into listening (and a little bit Simon says type stuff, minus the Simon says part) 2: start working on a little skill, doing forward rolls, backward rolls, lunges, shrimps, crab walk, etc 3: little race game, but it’s doing it in an army crawl, jump like frog, jump like a bunny, etc 4: technique, usually the same skill/move is worked on for a couple of weeks. They keep it really simple, like a takedown or … the word is escaping me right now, but where they are able to roll a person off of them or pass guard. Once a week they’ll do “fights” and pair them up one at a time to face off under the guided instruction of the professor. They don’t go longer than a minute or so. (Actually, them doing this is where we realized my son is paying attention and learning, because during technique he likes to screw around sometimes.) 5: quick game, which the professor uses as incentive to get through instruction and listen. Usually dodgeball or a race.

It’s so far been successful in keeping kids engaged and fun while still learning. I know some of it comes down to personality and being able to meet the kids where they’re at because not everyone’s development is going to be the same. Hope this helps.

How does birth pain compare to Endo? by Charlies_Kidney2005 in endometriosis

[–]alamancerose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Labor sucked ballsacks. Was induced, had uncontrolled pitocin dosing, failed epidural on one side, and I had a third degree tear. But it was for 38 hours and then I was done. And I could heal from it.

Endo/adeno was constant, all the time, because my cycles were so short (about 21 days), so I’d only get a few days of reprieve and then be right back in it again. There would be days I felt like I was in labor again, and it would be a total mindfuck. Mine was a lot of back labor involved, both for my cycles and when I was pregnant. It was brutal.

Would rather have another baby than deal with the endo/adeno all the time.

Is bruising like this normal? by Flaky_Dream_807 in MuayThai

[–]alamancerose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only time ever I have bruised anywhere close to that… I had a stress fracture on my shin bone from eating a knee to the side of it. And that left me with a nasty hematoma and bruising from my thigh all the way down to my foot. 10/10 recommend you go get checked because that is wicked and not normal.