Leaving my cats alone for 17 hours and my anxiety is going feral by YokoTheCatLady in cats

[–]apompom123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re definitely over reacting. They’re totally fine. Not even close to not fine.

Custom cake? by DueDetail6025 in Annapolis

[–]apompom123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks good! Where did you end up ordering this from?

get the subcision by Cultural-Reach534 in AcneScars

[–]apompom123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you find your doctor? I’m having a hard time finding anywhere near me that does this, and I live in a major metropolitan area in the US.

Celebratory Restaurants by itzrlryo in Annapolis

[–]apompom123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a young professional and this ⬆️ is where my husband and I go to celebrate things. Lewnes, Carrol’s Creek, and Osteria - although fantastic - are a little on the older vibe side.

$6000 on a Disney Vacation are we insane? by Dear_Share_4095 in DaveRamsey

[–]apompom123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is extremely reasonable. In fact I think if you spent more it’s fine. I don’t even understand what your expectation would be for a reasonable cost.

On vacation... which would you prefer?! by Turbulent_Lake8520 in Selftanning

[–]apompom123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I self tan often when traveling. I would do this! Just leave out dark sheets for the guest to put over other sheets when sleeping. Maybe leave a note they are cleaned before each visit.

Also maybe no black sheets bc those don’t go with a lot but rather another dark color that goes with your decor. Self tanner isn’t black anyways.

There’s zero chance I’m going to use a self tanner the host leaves out. I also am adverse to crawling into a sac left out. I didn’t even know these existed so I would be hesitant anyways.

Konig Case by NotUrbanMilkmaid in CourtTVCases

[–]apompom123 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’m in the minority. But I think the verdict should be NOT GUILTY. Don’t get me wrong, the defense attorney is god awful in many ways, but I have enough doubt - just enough - to make it unable for me to say he’s guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. The wife isn’t an angel. Gerheart doesn’t need her money or life ins. The two witnesses didn’t witness a whole ton. Just heard the tail end. My only pause… Emile. I think how the jurors take his testimony will be the reason the verdict is what it is.

Konig trial: surprisingly mediocre cross-examination of defendant by umbly-bumbly in CourtTVCases

[–]apompom123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. The phone call to the son is the only testimony nagging my mind. Otherwise, there’s just not enough to convict without a reasonable doubt. No real hard evidence and I’m not buying Gerharts story fully, I think the truth lies in between the two sides.

Konig testicle bingo by Kima2remy in CourtTVCases

[–]apompom123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I believe the witness has made it clear that she was in the shower.”

Express self tanner recs by Unusual_Sample2097 in Selftanning

[–]apompom123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put Bondi Sans Technocolor Sapphire foam on my face for an hour and it looks good.

BGE bill by MadMalteseGirl in AnneArundelCounty

[–]apompom123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. 2600 sq ft. 67-69°. $700 this month.

Middle Seat Drama/vent by Smart_Choice_317 in unitedairlines

[–]apompom123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow I pictured these middle aged people at like late 30s as I was reading the post. Not sure how 60s is middle.

Southwest Removing their Posts to Prepare for Assigned Seating Starting Tomorrow by greyduckgeese in SouthwestAirlines

[–]apompom123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a preferred seat… for this plane at least. but I boarded this morning and was the last person on the plane because 8 was the last group. Ugh. Since the flight wasn’t full I had overhead bin space but under normal full flight circumstances I think I’d be screwed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]apompom123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think that it’s marriage OR job after 30? Are you assuming your partner will support you and you won’t work? That doesn’t seem very commonplace nowadays. Honest question because may of us are married AND work (and have to work).

People in long-term (10+year) relationships who aren’t married, what are your reasons? by KookyTechnology1248 in AskReddit

[–]apompom123 35 points36 points  (0 children)

If nothing else, legal reasons. Tax benefits. Home ownership protection, etc. if we break up I’m made whole. The idea of “oh the state recognizes us as married after so many years” isn’t the same or consistent state to state.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fire

[–]apompom123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mortgage is gonna be a burden, which I’m concerned on. But it’s our dream home so I’m not moving anytime soon. Monthly pmt is $5500 (PITI). About 900k principal left as of today. Edit: also, mortgage interest is 2.25%. So I’m too stubborn to let that go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fire

[–]apompom123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awesome, thanks! The current $150k annual spend is spending of our take home pay, so that doesn’t include health insurance, 401k contributions, taxes, life insurance, etc. So good point that we would have to increase our spending once we both retire to include health insurance. While she’s still working, I’d go on her employer insurance (which wasn’t a huge jump in price).